i hate my friends, a testimonial thread Options

[sexii_dessert]

there are so many people with so many faults.i just think that people come along in your life at a certain time to make living life easier, and friends come and go.there won't ever be a friend that is neither backstabbing, annoying, concieted, stupid, selfish, inconsiderate, or rude.at least one of your own friends think you're many of these faults too, and you just have to surround yourself with who you think are the most tolerable people.there isn't going to be a perfect friend, but there might be someone that fits your imperfect personality too.

[lalalalala12345]

At school I don't like any of my friends. I think that none of them are trust worthy so I can never say anything to them. However, I skateboard. I have made alot of close friends that way..

[kimmytree]

Ahhh my God. I only have one close friend that I like, from outside of school. Everyone at my school sucks. Everyone is either a totally sheltered fruitcake, or the exact opposite. I'm just normal. I'm pretty much the only kid here that isnt religious, and doesnt curse and drink. With only 20 kids in my grade, I'm kinda limited.

[angelrevelation]

He's not even my FRIEND. He just thinks we are.

He laughs too much, and too loud everytime. Like, why can't you just chuckle? He has no concept of personal space. He analyzes me, and incorrectly too. He STARES at me when I walk past him. He keeps on saying the same lame things, as if they were even extremely funny to begin with. He's insensitive, and has no social tact and is oblivious to anything anyone tells him in accordance to his behavior or otherwise, even if they just tell him outright.

[*StanleyThePanda*]

I don't hate anyone. And I'm not friends with anyone I dislike. Is that... abnormal? that I love all my friends?

[mattchew]

I don't like my "friends". I've known some of them for over 25 years. I've recently given up full time work to do a University degree. I'm hoping it will get me a much better job in 3 years time. None of them have shown the slightest bit of interest or have wished me luck. I've always been there for my mates. Any time they've been in trouble with the law, their parents, other guys who have tried bashing their brains in, girlfriend trouble....you name it, I've offered help, assistance or just someone to get drunk with and chat to about shitty things that have happened to them, I was always there for them. Not anymore. f**k them. No calls, no nothing...I decided I wasn't going to call any of them, delete their numbers of my mobile phone, delete them from facebook, delete them from hotmail!!! I thought maybe they would phone and ask where have I been? Why have I not called? Nothing for nearly 5 months. I know we're getting older and things change, I live with my girlfriend and they've all got their own lives. But I'm always the one who does the chasing. Just as an experiment I thought..we'll see how much they care? I don't think they do and that hurts....so I don't hate them....I just think they are selfish f**kers.

[angelrevelation]

Okay, throwing a surprise birthday party hardly makes up for cheating with the guy I was dating (and then trying to trick me about it), constantly trying to make herself feel better by bragging and putting me down, and all the needy drama queen attitude tantrums.

[gojira]

they wouldn't be my friends if i hated them in the first place. there may be certain characteristics i hate about them but without them, where would i be?

who would join me in my crazed binge drinking stages & shenanigans? laugh or cry with me. get me through rough times. share memories that'd last a lifetime.

[*paperplane*]

Jesus Christ, why was this bumped?

[Melissa]

they wouldn't be my friends if i hated them in the first place. there may be certain characteristics i hate about them but without them, where would i be?

who would join me in my crazed binge drinking stages & shenanigans? laugh or cry with me. get me through rough times. share memories that'd last a lifetime.

Exactly.

No matter how much I might complain about my friends, I still love them to death.

[sixfive]

Jesus Christ, why was this bumped?

I don't know, Nicki, but please refer to me as Steven here.

[*paperplane*]

Aww, do you not want people to know your true identity? :(

[amish-hammer]

me!

[dosomethin888]

I have some kind of crazy-anxiety disorder of some kind. (If you dont believe me, whatever. Most people DONT.) So, when I get around people whom I would like to be friends w/ I get really nervous and avoid them. So, yes I do hate most of my "friends" cause they dont really have the same interests as me and most annoy me. I only have ONE friend who I really like. It sucks.

[mytangerine]

sigh. i wish i could just get a whole new circle of friends sometimes. like there are a few people i will definitely keep since they have been there for me forever & i love them, but overall, i need new people. i wish i knew 'trendier' people, but not the let's get drunk & high all the time & party our lives away trendy- i want the trendy in terms of fashion.

[MissFits]

I want that feeling back that you get when your surrounded by people you KNOW, you don't just know their names. You know their moms name, pets names, deep secrets, favorite foods, birthdays. I feel like I will never know anyone like that again.

You don't get people that just tell you things about their lives. Telling you things doesn't really even count, being there to experience them. Seeing your friend through a rough time, or a great accomplishment is what builds friendships.
It also seems as though the chances to see your friends through the good and bad times that matter (like graduation, breakups, college, growing pains) are dwindling. It's like after a certain age you can't make friends like you used to anymore 'cause you won't be there for anything that matters to the person, therefore halting the growth of your friendship.

With that said, I can't stand most of the people I know. I used to feel really blessed by all the amazing friends I had, but now I see that they are exactly what everyone tried to warn me they were. I feel really naive sometimes.

[Harp]

I hate my bestfriend. She's annoying as f**k and I wanna bash her head in.
And she smells really bad. =/

[acapolypse]

yay found a place where (i think) my complaining would fit.

I have some friends, known em for a while now, been good friends always, but lately they are.. becoming assholes? or something.

one guy is just an obvious story (he became kinda lame, so im like, screw you! not much of a prob, but still).he always was just a guy you could rely n an such, but he once made out with one girl, turned completely (not completly, but his hair) emo, and tries to play every single female thing he runs intO (which is annoying, knowing he is kinda small, not really very attractive (and im not saying that because im jealous :P).

another guy just instally became.. idk, doesnt talk anymore (he's into this girl, i know that, and spents a time going after her (which might be a reason for less friendship.... very long story, i'll tell if people want to hear it).

overall I have flushed lately, saying in my head how bad they are as friends 'n stuff. but still they were good friends, and friendships dont break all of a sudden. still i feel like the are leaving me outa lots of stuff (mostly also cuz they do some stuff we mostly did together, now they forget me).

I hope its just the age thats im a bit paranoid, but still the feelings are horrible.
either way, this post is good for me. any reply's will definetly help me, and the post itself was kinda a good vent.

[creole]

At least you guys have friends.

[shoryuken]

At least you guys have friends.

i bii u pal beenly..

[hypnotique]

i hate my male friends. one of them always tries to get fresh with me.

[Sandraaa]

I don't hate them at all. But sometimes we get to a point where we can't stand some personalities because we've changed / are more mature. Most of my friends are in relationships, and the single ones cause problems because all they think of is going out and getting men / women. We just drift apart ... some people mature quickly than others. I don't know. That's my case.

[shoryuken]

^u da 1 huu aintt matturdd

[ForTheBlind]

Yes, I hate my so called friends as well and I use the term friend loosely here. Why do I hate them? many reasons. I hate the *leader, the most, I could take him easy in a fist fight but I don’t want blood on my hands. The reason why I hate him is because his a back stabber, he talks crap to me about all my other friends, like his better than them. Like friends will die without him, he calls one of my friends a f*g because he calls him up for a get together once a week, keep in mind this very same guy he calls a f*g got him a discount on his vacation *one that his taking his girlfriend on. I’m currently a loner now because I’ve broken ties with almost all of them. And don’t talk to some because don’t want to get them involved. I hate the others in the group out of pity more than anything. I hate their weakness, even though they know his a complete dick face they stay with him because they’re afraid of being alone, that or they want to be with his girl friend. After 2 year I realized why he held onto me so tightly as a friend, he wanted to use me as a platform to get his current girlfriend, it was a *look I’m so cool I’ve got a cool kid as a friend, thing. (Complete dick head) he didn’t even pay for her formal ticket when he invited her to our formal, instead he made the rest of the group cover for her seat, *dick head. His current girlfriend seems nice but not too bright. I’ll never know what she sees in him; it would seem that it is true; love is in the eyes of the beholder

[abacus]

I hate the people I associated myself with. I kicked everything off with getting the three of us together in 6th grade. 7th grade comes and I get popular as shit. We're still friends. 8th grade comes I kinda swelled back down, but my sister goes all apeshit and crap so I start to become sorta depressed towards the end of the year, so everyone just kinda avoids me. 9th grade comes and my (old) best friend and I got different lunches so I'm stuck with the kinda group reject. I decided to make more friend so it's not just me and him... We meet like 6 guys who become part of our group and they're cool, I didn't mind them. Sophomore year comes and everyone but me, this kid I met in summer school and one of my middle school friends, who was kinda distant, get the same lunch. Alright. I'm stuck in here for at least a semester. Alright. We just chill and shit and everything's fine, but I'd rather be with my "friend friends". I get switched at semester, which sucked because I was starting to like them, so I run (not literally) over to them. When I get there noone even f*ckin talks to me or shit and there's all these goddamn cliques and the guy that I got stuck with last year has become a conceited ass f*ck, who condescends to me, 'cause he gets better grades in class, 'cause he sick cheats off of every f*cker in the class. I f*ckin started the whole goddamn thing, I helped them when they were going through crap and then they all just decide to leave me the f*ck alone. God, I hate them.

It sucks, 'cause I started talking to new kids that I "sorta kinda" knew and they went out of their f*ckin ways to make fun of us. So they stopped hanging out with me...

They weren't friends, 'cause friends 'll back you up and help you out and you like you're friends... I guess, it's my fault 'cause started it...

Sorry for the bump.