Why must we complain?, gurls n there rules |
Why must we complain?, gurls n there rules |
Apr 12 2010, 08:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Mar 2010 Member No: 756,816 |
one thing ive noticed about myself and other girls is that we're always complaining and starting drama over nothing which is ridiculous. One thing i noticed in high school was that you are NEVER allowed to date your friends ex's. i could see why this would be a problem but a group of myfrens got into the biggest fight over this when they already had new boyfrineds. it was completly pointless in starting drama...the funny thing is that i was the one friend who got mad for my fren dating my ex n vise versa.
I just wanted to know what RULES as a women do you have or go by? |
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Apr 12 2010, 08:51 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
The number one rule I go by? Stay in the kitchen.
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Apr 12 2010, 08:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Mar 2010 Member No: 756,816 |
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Apr 12 2010, 09:00 PM
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♡♡♡♡♡ Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
This is why I don't like most girls, because they're so catty and become involved with pointless drama. One rule that I have for myself is to avoid girls like that.
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Apr 12 2010, 09:49 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
girls= drama period. there is no if, ands, or buts because it's in our genes. if you think about it, everyone is drama, because we get into arguments with boys, and vice versa about silly things that we later laugh about it. the reason we laugh about it later is because we mature and been through it. we handle it in a insecure manner in the beginning, after we learn from it, we handle it in a more mature drama-less way.
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Apr 12 2010, 10:09 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Speak for your self. Unless I do have a hidden penis somewhere I don't have said gene.
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Apr 12 2010, 10:21 PM
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♡♡♡♡♡ Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
girls= drama period. there is no if, ands, or buts because it's in our genes. if you think about it, everyone is drama, because we get into arguments with boys, and vice versa about silly things that we later laugh about it. Speak for your self. Unless I do have a hidden penis somewhere I don't have said gene. To say that girls are genetically inclined to be dramatic is silly. As Abbey said, speak for yourself, because I don't like getting involved in drama; I'm one of the least dramatic girls you'll ever meet. I don't like wasting my time on stupid things, one of those things being drama and fights with other girls. Are we all dramatic sometimes? Sure. But are all girls dramatic all the time? Definitely not. |
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Apr 12 2010, 11:44 PM
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Who U? Group: Member Posts: 25 Joined: Aug 2009 Member No: 741,260 |
I hardly ever got into drama. I always stayed to my self. Actually... I still do. But as for friends going out with your ex, or vice versa... That's kind of awkward. I couldn't ever find myself dating my friend's ex-boyfriend.
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Apr 12 2010, 11:52 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
I think it's common decency to wait a little while at least.
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Apr 13 2010, 09:46 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
i think it's some sort of competition between girls. same applies for guys.
guys compete with each other to become the dominant alpha male of the pack, while girls start shit or fight to become like the best female of the pack |
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Apr 13 2010, 04:29 PM
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/人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
i think it's some sort of competition between girls. same applies for guys. guys compete with each other to become the dominant alpha male of the pack, while girls start shit or fight to become like the best female of the pack We're all pretty much equals in my group of friends. |
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Apr 13 2010, 07:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
Thank god im not a "typical girl"
and Why so many new topics? |
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Apr 13 2010, 07:21 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
I would rather be a typical girl then whatever the f*ck I am now.
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Apr 13 2010, 08:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
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Apr 13 2010, 09:15 PM
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/人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
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Apr 13 2010, 09:44 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
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Apr 13 2010, 09:49 PM
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/人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
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Apr 13 2010, 11:23 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
I am starting to think it's more of a growth
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Apr 15 2010, 09:22 AM
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(′ ・ω・`) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
http://edition.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/persona...+Most+Recent%29
QUOTE You need to weigh the value of your friendship with the woman vs. the amount of love, commitment and investment you had in your relationship with your ex-boyfriend.
If the woman is a close friend, the likelihood of this becoming an issue is slim. Your closest friends will know every dirty deed, bad situation or heartbreak he may have caused. And because they are familiar with all the dirt on him, they wouldn't touch him. However, if you and your ex didn't work out just because you just weren't right for each other and there was no real drama involved, what's the harm if your current girlfriend and someone you once loved end up together? |
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*futura* |
Apr 18 2010, 05:13 AM
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May 21 2010, 11:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Dec 2009 Member No: 756,299 |
there are plenty of fish in the sea why does girls have to compete and see who's better by dating their friend's exs
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Jun 17 2010, 10:56 PM
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<love3 Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Jun 2010 Member No: 758,609 |
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Jul 9 2010, 07:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 706 Joined: Sep 2009 Member No: 745,302 |
To say that girls are genetically inclined to be dramatic is silly. no its not, its pretty much an accepted fact that girls tend to deal with emotional stress more verbally relative to men, unless your reidar, then you hug your stuffed teddy bear and call Joanne when you gets ronery btw, theres physiological backing to my claim so BOOYAH |
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Jul 9 2010, 07:42 AM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
Reidar also writes poetry to express how he feels and volunteers at rescue shelters (not to gain access to moving punching bags either, for helpful non macho reasons)
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Jul 9 2010, 10:35 AM
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♡♡♡♡♡ Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
no its not, its pretty much an accepted fact that girls tend to deal with emotional stress more verbally relative to men, unless your reidar, then you hug your stuffed teddy bear and call Joanne when you gets ronery btw, theres physiological backing to my claim so BOOYAH I agree that women are more vocal/verbal when dealing with distress, and can also be downright bitchy and manipulative to those around them because they either don't know how to regulate their emotions in a healthier way, or prefer to be melodramatic rather than reasonable. I just don't like it when people assume we're automatically bitches with a million stupid rules solely because we're female, since a lot of us aren't/try not to be stereotypical girls. |
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