Friends with Benifits, Your veiws |
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 Mar 12 2005, 10:20 PM
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 you kissed my bliss away  Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,695  |
been in one once before kinda. --right after a break up-- dont do it..things can get alot worse than before
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Mar 12 2005, 10:25 PM
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 dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
I think FWB is alright. You can't fall in love. You can't get hurt. You can do whatever you want with any of your friends you want, but is it alright with them?
I don't do FWB though. I see people that do it. Yea...That's right. |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
friend with benefits? we call it friends with privleges here
 dont know how to spell it but anywho FWP is okay as long neither one is dating anyone. and if one does start dating the other one it should stop. unless the other one gets jealous...thats where it kinda get messed up.but im a fan of it =) |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:33 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i really dont like the idea
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Mar 13 2005, 03:05 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
It's not a good idea because one or the other always gets hurt...normally anyway.
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Mar 13 2005, 05:20 PM
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 it's just me Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,630 |
Friends with Benifits only exists because people are afraid of commitment. This fear causes pain because most people who are involved in one of these relationships get hurt. I wouldn't recommend it. Try an actual relationship, with meaningful conversations as well as physicalness. =)
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Mar 13 2005, 09:53 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
i thinkt heir good as long as u dun fall head ova heels... friends wit benifits meens no attachments
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Mar 13 2005, 10:10 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
most girls can't deal with it....well i guess it can be the guy too...but usually someone just ends up getting hurt.
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Mar 14 2005, 12:49 AM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(justalanna @ Mar 13 2005, 5:20 PM) Friends with Benifits only exists because people are afraid of commitment. This fear causes pain because most people who are involved in one of these relationships get hurt. I wouldn't recommend it. Try an actual relationship, with meaningful conversations as well as physicalness. =)  I did not have FWB relationships because I was afraid of commitment; I've been in a few commited relationships (and a few, because obviously, they were for quite some time). Sometimes people take the route of FWB because they're not looking for anything at the moment, just some casual sex with the same person, no strings attached. |
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Mar 14 2005, 04:09 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(jordanriane @ Mar 13 2005, 9:49 PM) I did not have FWB relationships because I was afraid of commitment; I've been in a few commited relationships (and a few, because obviously, they were for quite some time). Sometimes people take the route of FWB because they're not looking for anything at the moment, just some casual sex with the same person, no strings attached. yea nicely put. Sometimes u just want to get away from all the drama problems and seriousness and kick back and have some casual sex along the road =] . |
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Mar 14 2005, 10:52 PM
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 FIFA World Cup Germany 2006! Group: Member Posts: 1,219 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,557 |
I think its GREAT!!!!! I have ALOT of friends with benefits! lol. I dont see nothing wrong with that!
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Mar 15 2005, 12:38 AM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Krunk_Muzik, I used to live in Tinley Park ;)
Also, most of my friends go to U of I. It's a shame they lost recently, they would've been the first team in awhile to go undefeated. -tear- |
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Mar 16 2005, 12:06 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
I think it is both good and bad.
The good: You have fun with the person without having to be obligated to talk to them all the time. Bottom line is that kissing is fun, and it's more spontaneous if it just happens The bad: Usually someone is bound to think of the other person as more than a friend. Feelings can get hurt really badly if the person doesn't return the feeling. I don't mind it, personally, but I see where everyone else is coming from when they say it is bad. |
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Mar 16 2005, 12:09 PM
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 2 words: YES Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,346 |
QUOTE umm...im kind of confused..but i think i know what you mean...but if im right about what it is, then, i think its stupid. why dont people just..go out?? i agree completely |
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Mar 16 2005, 01:28 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Sex - Yes
Friends w/benefits - No |
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Mar 16 2005, 01:50 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
friends with benifits...sigh.
there fun for a while, then get boring |
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Mar 16 2005, 02:35 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
i think that as long as there's no strings attached its ok. but i think that for me n e way i would be really disgusted with myself for wat i was doing. i would be ashamed of myself n it would not b something i would wanna talk about with my friends. n also it's bound to effect someone.
but dont u think ur a better person than that? u guys settle for so much less. u can have so much more. if u have FWB then honestly u SHOULD be ashamed because you r SO much better than that. u think thats all ur body is worth...n that's not good. its something u should cherish. that's wat i mostly think of it...u deserve so much better. that's all i gotta say.. |
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Mar 17 2005, 12:57 AM
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 Yes, I do have an Abercrombie booty. Group: Member Posts: 698 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,057 |
I don't really like it, but if you're the type who isn't into commitment, then go for it. Whatever floats your boat.
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Mar 17 2005, 08:41 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
I think it's a horrible idea because someone always ends up getting hurt.
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Mar 17 2005, 08:59 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
i dont like the thought of pseudo- relationships because no matter what, it'll always end up causing one's feelings/heart to be broken and hurt.
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Mar 17 2005, 09:19 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Well friends with benefits really depends on how many benefits and why you want to just be friends with benefits. Let's say, you just miss kissing someone so you and your friend occasionally make out or something. Then I guess that could be okay as long as you don't get emotionally attached, which is hard not to do. But if you want to be friends with benefits with someone because you possibly just got out of a relationship and it was hurtful so you condemn them, then I would have to say, no. If you're doing it as a way to get out of being hurt then you will be sadly mistaken because many people can still get hurt. If you're doing it just because you want to, you miss how it feels, then sure, why not? Even though there still might be a chance of getting hurt. ....Kind of confusing haha.
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Mar 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i have a friend with benefit right now...i like it
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Mar 17 2005, 09:49 PM
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Never had FWB, but it'd be kind of cool.
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Mar 17 2005, 10:51 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
that is a horrible idea. both parties are being used physically and it can only end in disaster.
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Mar 17 2005, 11:27 PM
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uhhh no no no no no...someone is going to get hurrrrrrrrt.
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