Friends with Benifits, Your veiws |
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Friends with Benifits, Your veiws |
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Hey, i was just curious what everyone's veiws on Friends with benifits was. Where i am its more popular than actual going out, but then some of my friends still get hurt pretty bad when they start liking the dude. Whatcha'll think of FWB?
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![]() uoyevoli ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 ![]() |
umm...im kind of confused..but i think i know what you mean...but if im right about what it is, then, i think its stupid. why dont people just..go out??
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![]() Change Gon Come ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 ![]() |
its a bad idea to have a friend with benefits. somebody's feelings are boudn to get hurt.
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#4
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,480 ![]() |
it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed. Feelings ready to git hurt. Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up
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#5
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![]() This bitch better work! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 ![]() |
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
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![]() the Ray... it filters through ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,081 ![]() |
It's okay. I take what I can get... and I can get FWB easier than GF.
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![]() to be loved by someone you love is.. everything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 ![]() |
QUOTE it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed. Feelings ready to git hurt. Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up yuppp |
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![]() insanitys contagious. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 ![]() |
Dont do it , feelings will eventually start to emerge.
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#10
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![]() who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 ![]() |
nope i dont do it its just wierd
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#11
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![]() when we speak, we breathe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 ![]() |
Friends with benefits are for those who aren't looking for a relationship, but want something (normally, sex is associated with FWB's). Personally, if you're a person who can grow easily attached, then this method of a no-strings-attached friendship is definitely not for you.
I had a fwb in the past, and personally, it was okay for me, since I'm not easily attached to a person.. My friend was on a different path, because a few months later he had wanted to start a real relationship, something I didn't want, so I ended it with him. |
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![]() free hugs ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 ![]() |
hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks.
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![]() when we speak, we breathe ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 ![]() |
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 ![]() |
ive had 3, sigh , sometimes its good, but feelings always get mixed in it, or sometimes u feel empty and u want something more so yeah....not really a good idea
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Miss Lia ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,759 ![]() |
Friends with benifits can be fun, but it always leads to be a mess. I have had one or two. It depends on the kind of friends with benifits you are. You do have different like stages of it.
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#16
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 ![]() |
From personal experience with my ex-boyfriend(we became friends with benefits after we broke up) and its so NOT a good idea. I totally freaked out and became distant and all. A BIG MESS!
But if its your thing, then go for it. No judgement. |
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*stephinika* |
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#17
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aren't there topics on this?
![]() anyways, it depends on the person really...they can be okay but sometimes one person ends up having feelings for the other and that just ends up being a mess... |
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*AngelicEyz00* |
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I was against it... but um...
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![]() hi. call me linda. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 ![]() |
I don't really like it, because someone is bound to get hurt.
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#20
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![]() i love you <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,884 ![]() |
QUOTE hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks. yea me 2.... ![]() |
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![]() Nymphetamine Girl ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 ![]() |
Friends with benefits is bad because someone always get's attached.
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#22
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![]() *rawr baby* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 ![]() |
i think it's hot and i wouldnt mind it. but w/certain friends... i wouldnt want to get emotional about them..
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#23
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![]() `non;chalance ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 ![]() |
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*Programmer* |
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#24
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...the responsiblility of a relationship....scares most people into not wanting a relationship....but yet we get jelious when the girl...flirts with another guy or visa versa...but yet we were not their boyfriend or girlfriend....
confusing... ![]() |
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#25
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Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 96 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,370 ![]() |
Friends with benefits gets old, I want something more than just the physical.
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