Friends with Benifits, Your veiws |
Friends with Benifits, Your veiws |
Mar 8 2005, 07:05 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,938 |
Hey, i was just curious what everyone's veiws on Friends with benifits was. Where i am its more popular than actual going out, but then some of my friends still get hurt pretty bad when they start liking the dude. Whatcha'll think of FWB?
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Mar 8 2005, 07:19 PM
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uoyevoli Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,430 |
umm...im kind of confused..but i think i know what you mean...but if im right about what it is, then, i think its stupid. why dont people just..go out??
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Mar 8 2005, 07:21 PM
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Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
its a bad idea to have a friend with benefits. somebody's feelings are boudn to get hurt.
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Mar 8 2005, 07:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 176 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,480 |
it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed. Feelings ready to git hurt. Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up
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Mar 8 2005, 07:39 PM
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This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
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Mar 8 2005, 07:53 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
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Mar 8 2005, 07:55 PM
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the Ray... it filters through Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,081 |
It's okay. I take what I can get... and I can get FWB easier than GF.
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Mar 8 2005, 07:55 PM
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to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
QUOTE it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed. Feelings ready to git hurt. Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up yuppp |
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Mar 8 2005, 07:59 PM
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insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Dont do it , feelings will eventually start to emerge.
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Mar 8 2005, 08:12 PM
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who ma bitch? you ma bitch, bitch. Group: Member Posts: 1,920 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,278 |
nope i dont do it its just wierd
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Mar 8 2005, 08:18 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Friends with benefits are for those who aren't looking for a relationship, but want something (normally, sex is associated with FWB's). Personally, if you're a person who can grow easily attached, then this method of a no-strings-attached friendship is definitely not for you.
I had a fwb in the past, and personally, it was okay for me, since I'm not easily attached to a person.. My friend was on a different path, because a few months later he had wanted to start a real relationship, something I didn't want, so I ended it with him. |
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Mar 8 2005, 08:32 PM
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free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks.
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Mar 8 2005, 08:34 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
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Mar 8 2005, 11:02 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
ive had 3, sigh , sometimes its good, but feelings always get mixed in it, or sometimes u feel empty and u want something more so yeah....not really a good idea
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Mar 8 2005, 11:16 PM
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Miss Lia Group: Member Posts: 14 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,759 |
Friends with benifits can be fun, but it always leads to be a mess. I have had one or two. It depends on the kind of friends with benifits you are. You do have different like stages of it.
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Mar 8 2005, 11:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,922 |
From personal experience with my ex-boyfriend(we became friends with benefits after we broke up) and its so NOT a good idea. I totally freaked out and became distant and all. A BIG MESS!
But if its your thing, then go for it. No judgement. |
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*stephinika* |
Mar 8 2005, 11:32 PM
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aren't there topics on this?
anyways, it depends on the person really...they can be okay but sometimes one person ends up having feelings for the other and that just ends up being a mess... |
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*AngelicEyz00* |
Mar 8 2005, 11:36 PM
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I was against it... but um... ... i guess I no longer am...? -_-
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Mar 8 2005, 11:58 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
I don't really like it, because someone is bound to get hurt.
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Mar 10 2005, 10:13 PM
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i love you <3 Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,884 |
QUOTE hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks. yea me 2.... |
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Mar 10 2005, 10:17 PM
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Nymphetamine Girl Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 |
Friends with benefits is bad because someone always get's attached.
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Mar 12 2005, 05:57 PM
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*rawr baby* Group: Member Posts: 821 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 48,941 |
i think it's hot and i wouldnt mind it. but w/certain friends... i wouldnt want to get emotional about them..
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Mar 12 2005, 06:25 PM
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`non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
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*Programmer* |
Mar 12 2005, 06:58 PM
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...the responsiblility of a relationship....scares most people into not wanting a relationship....but yet we get jelious when the girl...flirts with another guy or visa versa...but yet we were not their boyfriend or girlfriend....
confusing... |
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Mar 12 2005, 07:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 96 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,370 |
Friends with benefits gets old, I want something more than just the physical.
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