Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- Options

[Butterflyphoenix]

I don't believe its wrong if the girl is mature to handle such a situation, by using protection from getting pregnant or gaining STIs that would ruin her future. It depends on the maturity of the girl.

[Vyrrei]

^^

[moninja]

^wow, that was a useless post.

i don't think it's wrong for a 14 year old to have sex. as long as they're mature and know the consequences.

[Tomates]

I guess its their choice but mu opinion having sex at 14 is pretty young.
atleast wait, when your in the 8th - 9th grade phase its just getting to the "im older going to high school time for sex."
thats just my opinion though

Also ive known some people who have done it in middle school and looking back and even seeing some middle schoolers now its like "wtf some people i know did it this young!?"
its weird.

[Vyrrei]

^wow, that was a useless post.

i don't think it's wrong for a 14 year old to have sex. as long as they're mature and know the consequences.

I was agreeing with the person above me.

[PCDKitty]

Pretty much everyone I know had sex at 14. I never thought when I got to high school everyone wouldlose their virginity right away. I don't think it's wrong but when you're promiscuous at 14 that's just wrong.

[shoryuken]

FUKEN fatt fuglii beechezz..

[mouse_3k]

To me, my opinion, yes I think it is tooooo young for a 14 year old to have sex. At least wait til their 16 or somethin..I think someone younger than 16 should be doin something else OTHER than sexual things..

kids these days

[ddddeadly]

Depends how mature and responsible the person is.

[nitrogoat]

Well it depends. If she is married than no.

I dont know many 14 year olds who are married

[asiaface]

I don't think it's wrong. I mean, it's their life right?
Everyone's got their own opinions, though.
So yeah.

[Tomates]

I don't think it's wrong. I mean, it's their life right?
Everyone's got their own opinions, though.
So yeah.

That is true

but 14 is a bit young.
Like if something went wrong they arent mature enough to know how to deal with it.

[Luna5]

Yes quit being a little slut and close your legs.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

LOL
all you guys have to do is watch THE SECRET LIFE OF AN AMERICAN TEENAGER.. and you got your answer (;! ahaha, okay, all i know is that 14 is pretty young, but since the world is corrupted you'll probably find a 14 year old watching porn or something.. guy or girl, cause thats the stage they get really hormones-y. but all i can say is TOO YOUNG.

[Harp]

If you're ready for it, then no.

I wouldn't tell someone what to do with their body, but I think it's disgusting to have sex with someone you have no relationship with.

[applejaxkz]

Yea, completely. This is in my personal opinion and in no way to be taken the wrong way

But most people at 14 are really immature. I hate to say it but its true. And they are in no way mature enough to take care of a kid. I've always stuck by if your not mature enough or ready to have a kid then you shouldn't have sex, at all. And if you choose to do so out of the curiosity this world puts under some kids. Then be safe and perhaps talk to your parents about it and get on some birth control.

Totally agree with you.

[RCKstarh]

i voted yes

these types of questions can often be based on religious views. i think anytime anyone has sex b4 marriage, its wrong. especially at 14. 1 major consequence from having sex is becoming pregnant. so then you think: can a 14 year old take care of a baby at that age?

[forgottenromance]

Bottom line. If you are still in school Middle / High school or even college. If you are still living under your parents roof. If your parents are still paying any of your bills (Thats Tuition / room and board / credit card ANY OF YOUR BILLS). If you are not able to handle any amount of alcohol in a responsible manner. If you do not have a job that you can support yourself and at least one other person on completely. If you do not have your own house and are on any type of government aid. You are too young for a sexual relationship.

You're kidding right? You are saying that nearly everyone under the age of 22 (since a majority of parents pay for college), cannot handle sex. They can marry, smoke, drink (depends on the country i guess),go to war, etc. Did birth control never enter you're vocabulary? The mature and responsible way of having sex is to protect oneself, yes? That includes a precautionary measures to avoid pregnancy, std's etc. Though it is an obvious possibility that having sex may result in pregnancy, there is an easy way to avoid that, since birth control (other than just using a condom) is so highly effective. Beside the fact that we are not talking "sexual relationship" we are talking about sex, since you can have a sexual relationship without technically having sex.

like i said, im 20, i still dont want a kid and honestly i probably wont want one for the entirety of my life, but this doesnt mean i should never have sex imo and the same goes for younger kids i think...they dont have to be wanting a baby in order to have sex, they just have to be responsible

Exactly, the "well they couldn't handle a child" argument is pointless, a few people have said "at least wait till 16+"
Does that mean they think a 16yr old could ? Lamesauce.

At 14... arguing over who was cooler - My Chemical Romance or The Used.

Same here, but the group of friends I had, was the one with kids having sex, lol.

Way too young. You're still a baby! You can't even get a learner's permit in most states at that age! Where would you even have sex? Where are your parents???

At fourteen what would you even do if the worst case scenario happened? Can you get a job? With insurance? You can't go to the doctor without your parents knowing, I know that much.

This is making me feel old. And I'm only twenty.

Actually, you can in my state.
I got my permit like two weeks(?) before I lost my virginity, and I was 18, so that made me laugh. I didn't feel any bit more mature than most of the kids in my drivers ed class either.

For the second part-
I'm pretty sure I couldn't do that now but I'm not sure it would have been any harder than it has been for me to find a job currently, at 14. At least the economy was better then.



I LOL @- that with all this pregnancy talk, no one's mentioned abortion. (I don't think anyone has?)

My opinion, I think it takes a very responsible 14yr old for sex to be even considered ok, but that doesn't mean that they do not exist. Hell, 14yr olds can get jobs, that's a mature responsibility.
As for the "omg your virginity can never be taken back" type arguments, it's sex, big woop. I don't quite understand the big deal with ones virginity. Some people regret who they lost it to, at any age, and some don't.

[Tomates]

^

[shanaynay]

haha. But then why do 12 year olds look like they're asking for it.

[Blyat]

though it's their choice, i think that it is not a smart idea, like a lot of people said
14 year olds are immature, they do not know responsibility and a lot of relationships dont last

[andherlayouts]

heya :D

welll i know some people who have had underage sex at 15 and 14
but i think that if they are ready for it .... i dont have a problem with it
but can we really draw the line on when it is wrong to have sex?

anyway yeh this is my personal opinion :P

xx

[hypnotique]

IN MY OPION I THINK ITS YES BECAUSE AS SOME GIRLS SHOULD KNOW[IF THEY DON']OUR BODY AT AGE 14 ISN'T REALY FINISHED DEVOLPING[OR IN SHORT HASEN'T FINISH GROWING TO ADULTS] SO IF A 14 YEAR OLD WOULD TO HAVE SEX HER BABY WOULD BE LYK A 5O/50 CHANCE THE BABY WELL BE DEFORM/MENTAL

WELL IM JUST SAYING SO DON'T BE TAKING IT TO THE HEAD OK

IN MY OPION I THINK THAT 14 IS TO YOUNG FOR PEOPLES TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YES IT IS GOOD AND NICE AND AT 14 KIDS ARE IS STUPID AND THEY TYPES LIKE A MONKEY PRESSING BUTTONS ON KEYBOARD.WE CANNOT TRUST 14 YEAR OLDS TO HAVE THE BABIES IF THEY HAVE THE BABIES WE WILL HAS DISEASE AND FLIPPER KIDS RUNNING ARPUND AND I MAKES MYSELF LOL LOL CAUSE THAT IS WHAT 14 YEAR OLD GIRLS DO FOR MONEY AND STUFF. DEFORM/MENTAL.

PLEASE TAKE THIS TO THE HEAD OK

ISN'T REALY FINISHED DEVOLPING[OR IN SHORT HASEN'T FINISH GROWING TO ADULTS]

ii CRiiED iiN LAUGHTER AT THAT STATESMENT

[Fabianwashere]

They should decide theirself.

[gojira]

lol so if you guys had a kid, you wouldn't mind them losing their virginity at a young age? of course, informing of them all the precautions and safety.

are they ready to carry a child of their own????? without mommy and daddy's assistance? get out of here