Stretch Marks... a Problem?, Curiosity. |
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 Aug 23 2007, 09:13 PM
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 Lose yourself and fly away, hide away for the day  Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,527  |
GUYS ONLY. Or, if you're bi or a lesbian you can vote. Girls, you can post your opinion, but I'd like to see what all the people who are intersted in dating girls say in the poll.
Why am I doing this? Well, my friend is sorta overweight and has stretch marks. She's REALLY REALLY insecure about them, so I wanted to see if it was that big of a deal with guys if a girl has stretch marks on her. Soo... DOES it matter?   I know I should aim to where does it matter if guys or girls have them, but seeing as how my friend is a girl~~~.. yea..  Also, sorry if there's been a post on this before. If there HAS been one, it's probably a million years old, so don't slaughter me, 'kay? I'm doin' this for a friend so that shall be my defence! Heh.. That was awkward. 
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Aug 23 2007, 09:29 PM
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Alright, I know, I'm no guy but I am bisexual. To me, I think its fine for someone to have stretch marks whether it were from past baby fat and they grew or they have a little package. If I like them then it wouldn't matter to me because its not as if I'm aiming to get their clothes off and get in their pants.
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Aug 23 2007, 09:35 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
I HAVE STRETCHMARKS
 yeah, seriously not cool because I swim and so they're visible all the time |
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Aug 23 2007, 10:11 PM
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Lose yourself and fly away, hide away for the day Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,527 |
Haha, it's okay doiink.
 
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Aug 24 2007, 01:29 AM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
I've got some.
It's because last summer I really started putting on some weight and all of a sudden they just started... appearing.  I've managed to get rid of most of that weight but the marks are still there.But to answer the question, I wouldn't really care. Chances are that a lot of people have them. |
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Aug 24 2007, 02:04 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
i dont work out.
i dont get stretch mark i hope i dont get it ;DDDD |
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Aug 24 2007, 02:11 AM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
LOL who said yes?
HAHAHA oh man, that's not good |
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Aug 24 2007, 02:23 AM
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 Whitney Loves Girls Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 474,377 |
its not a problem. almost everyone has them. even skinny people have them. how to you get rid of them anyways?
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Aug 24 2007, 02:26 AM
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Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
They're supposed to fade over time, but there are creams and stuff that supposedly help.
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Aug 24 2007, 03:07 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
All girls have stretch marks. It's called puberty.
I've heard body butters work. I've tried it but haven't been consistent enough with my usage for any real results. |
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Aug 24 2007, 09:09 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(jennypie @ Aug 24 2007, 04:07 AM)  All girls have stretch marks. It's called puberty. Im going through puberty and I dont have them. |
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Aug 26 2007, 08:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 560,368 |
Stretch marks aren't a deciding factor in a relationship for me.. only a turn off for me if they are really large and/or unfaded and/or in very obvious areas.
I have stretch marks, my girlfriend has stretch marks.. so yeah.. it's pretty common. |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Aug 26 2007, 12:28 PM
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Hmm. I dont have stretch marks
My brother got them, but he wasnt fat. He tried out cocoa and shae butter for about one week, and they dissapeared. 
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Aug 26 2007, 12:45 PM
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 ŽedneŠk w¤mĒn Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 561,647 |
stretch marks are an unfortunate side affect of life... it's true that even skinny people get them! i just had a baby, so i have a TON of stretch marks
 it's not the MOST attractive thing, but my boy doesn't seem to mind  so i guess the only concern is the confidence level of the person with the stretch marks and how shallow their significant other is
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Aug 26 2007, 12:55 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
I don't really find them attractive on anyone. I wouldn't say anything rude to them of course, but I do seem them as a turn off.
I have them on my knees for some reason, but noone notices, I dont think; They just look like scars to me. |
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Aug 26 2007, 03:24 PM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
^ Yeah, I have them on my knees as well. I thought they were scars but I knew I was never injured there. Probably from swimming?
I don't really mind it actually. I do know that cocoa butter cream or something helps it fade or disappear. |
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| *karmakiller* |
Aug 26 2007, 03:45 PM
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Small ones aren't a big deal. I got some when my hips grew when I was younger. I think if she bears your child and has stretch marks you shouldn't make a big deal out of it; that's a mean thing to do.
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Aug 27 2007, 05:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 521 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 406,557 |
i have them on the inside of my thighs
 i hate it so much, but it's honestly not that noticeable. i will now try cocoa butter so they fade, thnx guys!!  by the way i'm hella skinny too, i guess everyone gets them as they grow. it's whatever.
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| *Villainess* |
Sep 1 2007, 10:49 AM
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I dont let little shit like that bother me.
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Sep 9 2007, 03:31 AM
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I use to be really insecure about mine..although I guess because its such a wide range of them on my body near my hips..I don't have them on my legs i don't think anyway I think they faded quite a bit over the years..
There isn't any real way to get rid of them completely. Although you can use cocoa butter and stuff to help them fade a bit but it takes time of course. |
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Jan 27 2008, 10:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
stretch marks are common in both sex's , why sould one sex have a problem with the other having stretch marks
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Jan 28 2008, 10:10 AM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
i have them. when i was in 6th grade i gained some weght and i got them on my inner thighs....
i hate them
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Jan 28 2008, 01:10 PM
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 We're in for one wild night. Group: Member Posts: 402 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 603,255 |
Stretchmarks are a little thing, most people get them going through puberty and they fade over time. She should be more worried about the overweight part.
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Jan 29 2008, 03:15 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
QUOTE(Orlean @ Jan 28 2008, 01:10 PM) Stretchmarks are a little thing, most people get them going through puberty and they fade over time. She should be more worried about the overweight part. Stretch marks don't fade. . . Skinny people have stretch marks all of the time. |
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Jan 29 2008, 03:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,028 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 579,129 |
Stretch marks are ew ):
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