Dreamers
Aug 23 2007, 09:13 PM
GUYS ONLY. Or, if you're bi or a lesbian you can vote. Girls, you can post your opinion, but I'd like to see what all the people who are intersted in dating girls say in the poll.
Why am I doing this?
Well, my friend is sorta overweight and has stretch marks. She's REALLY REALLY insecure about them, so I wanted to see if it was that big of a deal with guys if a girl has stretch marks on her.
Soo...
DOES it matter?
I know I should aim to where does it matter if guys or girls have them, but seeing as how my friend is a girl~~~.. yea..
Also, sorry if there's been a post on this before. If there HAS been one, it's probably a million years old, so don't slaughter me, 'kay? I'm doin' this for a friend so that shall be my defence!
Heh.. That was awkward.
Moderator
Aug 23 2007, 09:29 PM
Alright, I know, I'm no guy but I am bisexual. To me, I think its fine for someone to have stretch marks whether it were from past baby fat and they grew or they have a little package. If I like them then it wouldn't matter to me because its not as if I'm aiming to get their clothes off and get in their pants.
dustbunny
Aug 23 2007, 09:35 PM
I HAVE STRETCHMARKS
yeah, seriously not cool because I swim and so they're visible all the time
Dreamers
Aug 23 2007, 10:11 PM
Haha, it's okay doiink.
Crash2
Aug 24 2007, 01:29 AM
I've got some.
It's because last summer I really started putting on some weight and all of a sudden they just started... appearing.
I've managed to get rid of most of that weight but the marks are still there.
But to answer the question, I wouldn't really care. Chances are that a lot of people have them.
demolished
Aug 24 2007, 02:04 AM
i dont work out.
i dont get stretch mark
i hope i dont get it ;DDDD
dustbunny
Aug 24 2007, 02:11 AM
LOL who said yes?
HAHAHA oh man, that's not good
panicitstheax
Aug 24 2007, 02:23 AM
its not a problem. almost everyone has them. even skinny people have them. how to you get rid of them anyways?
Crash2
Aug 24 2007, 02:26 AM
They're supposed to fade over time, but there are creams and stuff that supposedly help.
redpeony
Aug 24 2007, 03:07 AM
All girls have stretch marks. It's called puberty.
I've heard body butters work. I've tried it but haven't been consistent enough with my usage for any real results.
EmoEyelinerx
Aug 24 2007, 09:09 AM
QUOTE(jennypie @ Aug 24 2007, 04:07 AM)
All girls have stretch marks. It's called puberty.
Im going through puberty and I dont have them.
joshpowell
Aug 26 2007, 08:26 AM
Stretch marks aren't a deciding factor in a relationship for me.. only a turn off for me if they are really large and/or unfaded and/or in very obvious areas.
I have stretch marks, my girlfriend has stretch marks.. so yeah.. it's pretty common.
SinfullySweet
Aug 26 2007, 12:28 PM
Hmm. I dont have stretch marks
My brother got them, but he wasnt fat.
He tried out cocoa and shae butter for about one week, and they dissapeared.
faydedprimadonna
Aug 26 2007, 12:45 PM
stretch marks are an unfortunate side affect of life... it's true that even skinny people get them! i just had a baby, so i have a TON of stretch marks it's not the MOST attractive thing, but my boy doesn't seem to mind so i guess the only concern is the confidence level of the person with the stretch marks and how shallow their significant other is
Amaranthus
Aug 26 2007, 12:55 PM
I don't really find them attractive on anyone. I wouldn't say anything rude to them of course, but I do seem them as a turn off.
I have them on my knees for some reason, but noone notices, I dont think; They just look like scars to me.
Relentless
Aug 26 2007, 03:24 PM
^ Yeah, I have them on my knees as well. I thought they were scars but I knew I was never injured there. Probably from swimming?
I don't really mind it actually.
I do know that cocoa butter cream or something helps it fade or disappear.
karmakiller
Aug 26 2007, 03:45 PM
Small ones aren't a big deal. I got some when my hips grew when I was younger. I think if she bears your child and has stretch marks you shouldn't make a big deal out of it; that's a mean thing to do.
mytangerine
Aug 27 2007, 05:42 PM
i have them on the inside of my thighs i hate it so much, but it's honestly not that noticeable. i will now try cocoa butter so they fade, thnx guys!! by the way i'm hella skinny too, i guess everyone gets them as they grow. it's whatever.
Villainess
Sep 1 2007, 10:49 AM
I dont let little shit like that bother me.
Insurmountable
Sep 9 2007, 03:31 AM
I use to be really insecure about mine..although I guess because its such a wide range of them on my body near my hips..I don't have them on my legs i don't think anyway I think they faded quite a bit over the years..
There isn't any real way to get rid of them completely. Although you can use cocoa butter and stuff to help them fade a bit but it takes time of course.
JCLore
Jan 27 2008, 10:03 PM
stretch marks are common in both sex's , why sould one sex have a problem with the other having stretch marks
JokeInsideJoke
Jan 28 2008, 10:10 AM
i have them. when i was in 6th grade i gained some weght and i got them on my inner thighs....
i hate them
ArtofBreaking
Jan 28 2008, 01:10 PM
Stretchmarks are a little thing, most people get them going through puberty and they fade over time. She should be more worried about the overweight part.
MissHygienic
Jan 29 2008, 03:15 PM
QUOTE(Orlean @ Jan 28 2008, 01:10 PM)
Stretchmarks are a little thing, most people get them going through puberty and they fade over time. She should be more worried about the overweight part.
Stretch marks don't fade. . .
Skinny people have stretch marks all of the time.
Eww
Jan 29 2008, 03:25 PM
Stretch marks are ew ):
ArtofBreaking
Jan 29 2008, 04:19 PM
QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 29 2008, 03:15 PM)
Stretch marks don't fade. . .
Skinny people have stretch marks all of the time.
I had stretch marks from 6th grade summer on my pelvics from growing 4 inches that I dont have anymore. Because they faded.
MissCuppyCake
Jul 24 2008, 01:35 AM
well i dont have them.
but my bestie has them.
they are kinda cute.
but
cocoa butter works so damn well!w
MissFits
Jul 24 2008, 06:37 AM
I'm not a guy, nor am I bi or lesbian.
But, stretch marks aren't that bad unless it looks like Freddy Krueger came ripping at you.
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