Getting over someone Options

[MeanBastard]

So what is the only way? When I think about it, the only way you truly get over someone is when you find someone else to like/love. Do you guys agree? If you disagree, how else did you get over someone? How did you know you were over them?

[Phil2thejay]

the only way you truly get over someone is when you find someone else to like/love.

i did that just recently =]

[*insurmountable*]

I think that could possibly work, but for many I don't think so. Sure people move on but it doesn't mean their completely over that one other person from their past. I think you kind of have to drop all communication with them and kind of block them off and move on before you can really just forget about them. Although of course it matters what kind of relationship you two shared, if it was serious it will take more than to just find someone else to love or like.

[Rachel]

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Really the only way to get over someone is time. Let yourself be happy on your own, dont' jump into another relationship. You have to love yourself again before you can move on, ya cliche but true.

[MeanBastard]

Dumbass, I'm not asking how to get over someone, I'm asking for how do you know when you got over someone, search for me again.

[BOOGERSHAHA]

well sometimes, you find somebody else to like/love but you still haven't gotten over your past ex. i think that's completely normal.

hm...in 1 case, i got over him when we spent a lot of time apart. we used to have the same group of friends, but summer came and then college and we naturally drifted. however, sometimes with him, i get this awkward weird vibe, but i'm not into him anymore.

basically, finding someone else works, but not always. if you constantly find yourself comparing your new gf/bf to your ex, eh...possible rebound?

[NgocQuyen]

i knew i was over the guys i talked to in the past because i just knew that being sad over guys wasn't like me at all and i just knew that i was better than them anyways. hehe, and now i have Thuan and he's more to me than any of those e-tards were. :]

[achimongus]

The way I got over my guy was to learn to love myself a bit more. I realized I didn't need someone to survive, that I was actually very independent and that I was WORTH it. I know there's some really truly special guy out there for me and I can't wait. C=

[alysaphobia]

I disagree... I mean, it may work out that way for some people but for others, it just takes time. When I got out of a relationship once, it took me a really long time to get over him- and I never crushed on anybody during that whole time. I realized that I was over him when I just stopped hurting about the whole deal, stopped getting upset about it, and was able to hang out with him as a friend again.

[Rachel]

Dumbass, I'm not asking how to get over someone, I'm asking for how do you know when you got over someone, search for me again.

You can get into a new relationship and still not be over a person dumbass. Plus, your first post does not clearly state that you are asking for how you know when you're over someone.

[MeanBastard]

You can get into a new relationship and still not be over a person dumbass. Plus, your first post does not clearly state that you are asking for how you know when you're over someone.

Blab Blab Blab

How did you know you were over them?

[xhidethedetails]

Well for me I know I'm over someone when I dont think about them as much as I used too. But the way I get over people is make new friends and meet new people. After my last serious brakeup I was devistated, then I meet a lot of new people and slowly I forgot about him.

[RyanWasHere]

Well for me I know I'm over someone when I dont think about them as much as I used too. But the way I get over people is make new friends and meet new people. After my last serious brakeup I was devistated, then I meet a lot of new people and slowly I forgot about him.

In more words, that's exactly what I was going to say, you never forget, they just fade, and to truly get over them, I think the only 99.9% way, is to replace them.

[Espi]

follow ur own footsteps and not ur lovers

[AimeeLynn]

-When you see him/her with another person and don't feel jealous.
-You find other people attractive other than that someone. =]
-A hug from them seem like nothing special that just a hug.

[MeanBastard]

I'm having a damn hard time of letting go. I wonder about her constantly, think about her constantly. It's just not really helping keeping myself busy, because then I think, I'd rather be with her. Goddamnit

[manaway]

listen you cant get worse them my situation i have a restraining order on me from her parents if the girl is worth it try to work things out if she is not forget about her go make some friends hang out with old ones (maybe ever go to some titty bars) totally kidding just thought it was funny man just have fun with life i no im not going to lose my life over some girl neither should you


you know when your over them because whenever you talk to them and they call you or something you just dont feel it any more your nice to them but the love is gone a little bit is always going to be there but you will no what i mean

[AimeeLynn]

I'm having a damn hard time of letting go. I wonder about her constantly, think about her constantly. It's just not really helping keeping myself busy, because then I think, I'd rather be with her. Goddamnit

That's the same thing [except for a guy] happen for me. But the tip is to look at all the things in that person what you hate. And focus only on that. If that doesn't work slap yourself [on the hand] when you think about her. It worked for me and I moved on.

[pinayprincess]

ahh.. for me to get over someone is to cancel them out of my life and to keep on moving.. as much as it might hurt and long it would take, i would have to not speak, look, hear anything of him again....