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 Nov 23 2004, 04:38 PM
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 ♥  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393  |
hmm. maybe some of you might remember a topic i made about a month ago, found here.
okay. quick recap: -after i spent a few days kind of moping around, my friend decided to go out w/ him, even though she knew i liked him. we're fine, no drama or antyhing really in that area. however... about a week or two ago, my friend dumped him because of... certain reasons. you can probably just guess at it. anywho, he comes back to me and says that he "really likes me and always had and always will." ...wtf?! wow. just wow. i don't think he understands that i'm not a back-up. merfffffff. idk, if he'd told me this BEFORE all of that, i would've been so so happy, but that's not how it worked out. idk if i really like him that way anymore, considering all that's happened and everything, but then again, those feelings are still there, i suppose. it's odd because he's seriously the best friend you could ever have, love that guy to death. but he has no idea what commitment means. hmm... icky situation. sheesh high school life sucks.. anything like this ever happened to any of you before?? [[ btw-- thanks SO much to everyone who tried to make me feel better!!     my god, you guys effing ROCK. <3333333333333 ]]hugs+kisses to all! |
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Nov 23 2004, 05:25 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
why dont' you ask him if he likes you before all these things took place? or does he just treat you like a back up or something.... but well, first consider if this next step is worth ruining your relationship between you guys... good luck and well, hope everything will work out
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Nov 23 2004, 06:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Hmm, i'd give him some time, see if he still feels this way a couple weeks after the breakup, he could just kind of be really sad, and need some time to think, so that he could overlook the decision he made.
Don't let him off easy though, make him think you will not be around forever always waiting for him, because then he will think he can do it again! |
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Nov 23 2004, 06:26 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE Hmm, i'd give him some time, see if he still feels this way a couple weeks after the breakup, he could just kind of be really sad, and need some time to think, so that he could overlook the decision he made. Don't let him off easy though, make him think you will not be around forever always waiting for him, because then he will think he can do it again! Yah took the words right out of my mouth. Yeah. Give him some time.. but not waaaaay too long. |
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Nov 24 2004, 12:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
tell him straight up that ur not a f*cking backup.
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Nov 24 2004, 08:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,803 |
you people need to learn how to say fcuk this. jesus christ just drop any high skool BS that comes your way. anybody who puts you through it can be left in the dust.
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Nov 24 2004, 08:57 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
just tell him your not "Sloppy Seconds". he's not worth ur time if he's gonna be like that.
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Nov 24 2004, 10:24 PM
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 a dorkie lil gurl Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,392 |
whoa... is this guy messed?!
 ask him if he liked you before he went out with your friend and if he says yes don't let him off the hook that easy. Explain to him that you're not a back-up person.
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Nov 24 2004, 11:03 PM
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♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
...yeah. thanks for the replies everyone.
i talked to him for a long time last night, and he did say that he's liked me for well over a year. we got into a deep coversation about how i would never go out w/ him after he'd already been out w/ my best friend, and he says he feels guilty about hurting me or whatever. idk. this whole thing is just stupid, really. anyway, again i thank all of you for even looking at this. <333 |
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