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post Jan 20 2006, 08:17 PM
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do u think its okay for a 14 year old girl (that is almost 15) and a 17 year old guy (who just turned 17) to go out?? or is it too weird???
what is your guys' opinion on age differences??
 
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 08:18 PM
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Its fine. As long as he doesnt pressure you to do anything, then there should be no problem.
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 08:42 PM
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wtf... that's not weird at all
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 08:49 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Jan 20 2006, 9:18 PM)
Its fine. As long as he doesnt pressure you to do anything, then there should be no problem.
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you automatically assume that she/he was talking about her/himself rolleyes.gif

anyways just like she said. Sometimes older kids might pressure younger ones to doing wrong things. Otherwise it's fine. It just looks weird if the 14-year old is like...short..and the 17-year old...is TALL...now that would look weird
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 08:51 PM
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um.. the 'girl' is 5'2
and the 'guy' is like 6'2
lmao..
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 08:58 PM
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Personally, I think it is kinda weird. The physical features are too different at ages like that. A three year age gap is by no meansbad or weird, but at those ages it is kinda. 17 year olds are...bigger. The average 14 year old is like, 5'4.
 
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QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 20 2006, 6:49 PM)
you automatically assume that she/he was talking about her/himself rolleyes.gif

anyways just like she said. Sometimes older kids might pressure younger ones to doing wrong things. Otherwise it's fine. It just looks weird if the 14-year old is like...short..and the 17-year old...is TALL...now that would look weird
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Actually, I wasnt assuming it was her talking about herself. I said as long as he doesnt pressure you to do anything , in reference to her question, not in refernce w/ the assumption that it was her current situation.

I think height difference doesnt really look weird. Unless its the guy shorter than the girl by a LOT, but theres no problem with that either.
 
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^oh alright

and what i meant by height difference..is when the girl is like 3/4 the dude's size!
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 09:37 PM
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Actually, I wasnt assuming it was her talking about herself. I said as long as he doesnt pressure you to do anything , in reference to her question, not in refernce w/ the assumption that it was her current situation.

I think height difference doesnt really look weird. Unless its the guy shorter than the girl by a LOT, but theres no problem with that either.


well yeahh it is about me..haha
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 09:46 PM
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I don't think it's weird at all. Of course, it isn't age that matters so much as maturity. He should be careful once he turns 18 though. ;)
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 09:52 PM
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its ok..if nothing is done wrong u kno.
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 10:21 PM
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i honestly don't think there is anything wrong with that....lols...
to be honest...i'm 15 and 17 was the closest i've gotten to my age group
and when i did that, i was very proud of myself thanks x]
 
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post Jan 20 2006, 10:40 PM
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There is nothing wrong with that as long as he doesn't pressure you into doing things you don't want to do and whatever.
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 12:00 AM
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no that is not odd in any way.. i am 13 (14 in april) and my bf just turned 17 yesterdai.. so if your situation was odd mine would be a freak show
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 01:39 AM
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I don't think there's a problem with it. If both parties can handle the relationship maturely, what's the big deal?
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 02:17 AM
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There are plenty of other topics regarding age differences. Please refer to those and search before creating a new topic next time.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=81332 (This one brings up the same ages you have posted.)
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=56463
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=7144
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 02:50 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jan 21 2006, 2:17 AM)
There are plenty of other topics regarding age differences. Please refer to those and search before creating a new topic next time.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=81332 (This one brings up the same ages you have posted.)
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=56463
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=7144
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Thanks. I'm going to leave this one open (for now), since it's a personal situation, or might be a personal situation.
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 09:24 AM
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no it's not big deal, it's only 2 years different. i'm 15 turning 16 and my bf's 17 turning 18..
does it matter if he's tall or that girls short, i mean just as long as you like each other and isn't pressured to do anything, i don't see the problem
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 10:34 AM
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no. mellow.gif i don't think that's a big deal at all. as long as they're cool w/ it and they relate to eachother, age doesn't mean anything. but there will always be people saying how messed up age differences are, but those people get uncomfortable with a one year difference, so whatever.
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 12:28 PM
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I think it's ok. The girl must realize that the boy might want a little more out of the relationship physically than she does, and she needs to be able to set boundaries.
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 12:33 PM
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The age diifference shouldn't be a problem it's normal. Especially if the younger person in the relationship is mature.

QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Jan 20 2006, 5:49 PM)
It just looks weird if the 14-year old is like...short..and the 17-year old...is TALL...now that would look weird
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Im short and my bf is a lot taller than me. I dont think that's weird.
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 02:07 PM
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noo...okay for those who watch 7th heaven.... You know that ruthy girl? when she went to high school she's as short as a dwarf..and she wanted to go out with this dude who was like....100000000000000 feet taller (hyperbole I know but shut up)..yeah that's what I think is weird
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 04:20 PM
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There are sooo many topics like this. Anyways so I don't spam my brothers friends parents are 40 years apart. Now, a couple years isn't as sick and wrong as 40 years.
 
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post Jan 21 2006, 04:24 PM
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QUOTE(Im So Vain @ Jan 21 2006, 9:33 AM)
Im short and my bf is a lot taller than me. I dont think that's weird.
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I'm 6'1 and my girlfriend is 5'2. :-X Hypocritical, I know, but a 14 and 17 year old going out just seems odd to me.
 
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