im back again...new problem...., remmeber my last post? |
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 Jul 17 2005, 01:21 AM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491  |
well im guessing you're all ASHAMED of me. i think some of my friends are a bit disappointed. but if you remember my last topic i kinda picked the guy over the best friend. and we're going out kinda.
last topic i made i mean its not official yet. and we're not gonna tell her till a bit later. (the best friend) cause well right now in summer school she's doing badly like 66% and it's cause her crush on him makes her distracted in class. and she cant think for even 15 minute straight. so if we tell her she might fail the course.. the problem is how do we tell her? i dont wanna break her heart, even though i know i might. and now im too far into it >< yea so maybe this is a pointless topic but i just need advice.... yes i know im the WORST friend in the world.... o and right now my bff is like flirting a lot with him, and i know he's loyal to me but i get jealous sometimes, should i tell him how i feel AND talk to my bff about it?  or would i sound a bit too demanding
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Jul 17 2005, 01:28 AM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
wowee, that's a toughy.
Well umm maybe you could umm do like....uhhhhh  gosh. I donno. ...I think you should tell your freind though, she might hate the truth but it's better than lying to her. But then again, sh emight hate you forever and if you still want her as a friend that's not a great idea. hmpf. But what if you don't tell her? Wouldn't she figure it out eventually and then where are you? She'll know you've been deceiving her AND dating her boyfreind (or umm ex is it? I'm not sure, I didn't read all the way through your original topic) and she'll REALLY hate you then.  aaaargh. I'm so useless. Well, I'll do the only thing I can think of...wish you all the best luck  
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Jul 17 2005, 01:28 AM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
Wow. Over your best friend. That's kinda... non-friend-like...
I just there's no easy way to tell her. Just say it, I guess. Jealousy is a relationship-killer. 
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Jul 17 2005, 01:29 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
o well they never went out or anything. and he never liked her in that way really. they were just good friends. and he likes me and i like him. but then...she likes him =| kinda like a love triangle...
me<===>him<===her |
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Jul 17 2005, 02:33 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I guess try keeping the relationship for a secret for now and then maybe when your friend is less crazy over him tell her
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Jul 17 2005, 04:34 AM
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 n3wbie Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,877 |
I think you should tell her, straight out. I mean, wouldn't it be bad if she found out from someone else?
You can start by like saying how you like him and how he likes you, too. Tell her you know you should've asked her first, but didn't want to get a big no-go on him. I don't know. That's the only thing that came to mind. Basically, just tell her. |
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