How would you react, if one your really close friends (who's a guy) told you he was gay |
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How would you react, if one your really close friends (who's a guy) told you he was gay |
*yrrnotelekktric* |
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How would you react if one of your friends (who happens to be also be a guy) came out of the closet?
This is in the Boys' Locker for a reason, I kind of want to know what other guys think. And would it be a bigger deal if he told you before anyone else? |
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Its happened.
What can you do, really? As long as his lifestyle choice didn't affect anything relating to our friendship directly, then its all good. |
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^you wouldnt treat him differently?
hanging around him wouldnt make you uncomfortable? |
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well at first i would be very freaked out.
but i think we could still be cool friends unless he was like in love with me then it would be way different id tell him never to talk to me again ![]() |
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I would be extremely uncomfortable and probably discard our friendship. I wouldn't be able to look at them the same way, but that's just me. I'm just not fond of gays && lesbians.
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^you wouldnt treat him differently? hanging around him wouldnt make you uncomfortable? Why would I? 10 years of friendship thrown down the drain because he's doing some homo shit on the low? That would put the integrity of my character in question. I'm not down with that. As long as he doesn't start acting all fem and flamboyant, then its all good. |
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i cant deal with the fem gays but if he was still cool ill be cool.
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I'd stay more or less distant. I'm not judgmental of gayness, it's more like a phobia of mine. Watching 2 gay guys is like watching 2 girls 1 cup. Seriously.
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#9
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so wat.. me gay.. bigg woooppiee doo..
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It wouldn't bother me one bit. I have some friends that are bi and/or gay, and it doesn't bother me one bit. I am a believer, that every person gets to live their life the way they choose to. I am a firm believer in character, and I would support my friends through whatever they choose to do with their life. Karma comes back to haunt people, and whenever you turn your back on somebody, it will come back to haunt you when you need somebody.
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As long as he's not groping or fondling or making out in plain view. There's nothing wrong with it, however it's not something I want to see.
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Why would I? 10 years of friendship thrown down the drain because he's doing some homo shit on the low? That would put the integrity of my character in question. I'm not down with that. As long as he doesn't start acting all fem and flamboyant, then its all good. ![]() |
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Its fine, Ill just make it clear that i am off limits
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Is that supposed to be a surprise. . .?
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nquack is a mild attention whore.
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i would support him, and try to treat him like before i found out.
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#21
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blah... u ppll justt HATURRZZ...
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![]() The Resident Drunk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 ![]() |
Yo niggah you really are gay?
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Totally homo.
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maibii..
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#26
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ye i gay mang
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Maybe you should join the GCB. I heard they need members.
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linkk da shiet..
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^
![]() I think Tung would take it pretty nicely. ![]() |
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^ whatever you want it to mean.
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#33
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i dont have a problem with gay ppl
except if they hit on me if its a close friend or an old friend than i dont give a damn if they homo but the rest of my family is extremely homophobic im like the only one who doesnt mind |
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^interesting. Why do you think you`re the only non- homophobe in your family? Any reason[s]?
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if one of my homiez become gay , this is horible
maybe he will love me and we cant be friend no more |
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#36
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^interesting. Why do you think you`re the only non- homophobe in your family? Any reason[s]? cuzz he stilll hidinn in closest... dat y.. ![]() ![]() if one of my homiez become gay , this is horible maybe he will love me and we cant be friend no more uhh ye.. OK.. dreamm onn lil gurll.. u b luckky if LIL EDDIEE evenn talkk 2 u.. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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#37
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^interesting. Why do you think you`re the only non- homophobe in your family? Any reason[s]? if someone was to even mention a gay person or show around my family everyone would be making faces and trying to change the subject and my grandma will always say "Gay and Evil come hand in hand" but i guess my cousins aren't like that so i'll rephrase it "All the Adults of my family are homophobic" cuzz he stilll hidinn in closest... dat y.. ![]() ![]() a-ha-ha..... ![]() your hilarias ![]() how old are you exactly?? |
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![]() just go to sleep man |
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i wud be lik wtf? gtfo biotch.
j/p im okay with gay ppl .. like tung :D. |
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I'm fine with gays.. not a problem at all tbh. Especially if it was one of my best friends, it wouldnt really bother me at all.
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Actually, I would begin to feel uncomfortable around him, then.
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