How to get over a crush, ???? Options

[AimeeLynn]

Well, I don't know if this is already made but anyways to get over a guy/girl?

I need to get over this guy. This is really bad.

[deplorable]

why do you *have* to get over him...?

anyway, you said it was a crush. crushes usually go as quickly as they come.

if you need to get over this guy quicker and REALLY badly i guess you could think of all the dudes cons. that advice really sucks though. im sorr. i just never heard of someone really, desperately needing to get over a crush. hope the next topost is more help. :D

[tokyo-rose]

1. Do not visit his networking site (Facebook, MySpace) to stare at his pictures or read his wall posts/comments.
2. Try to distance yourself from him. IM him less, limit the phone calls, and cut conversations short and make them less personal (assuming you do all that stuff). If it means drifting from him as a friend, so be it...as long as you don't lose him.
3. Take up a hobby of some sort, something to occupy your mind and body so you don't think of him constantly. Spend more time with friends.

Those are the three best ways I know how, so yeah. I hope they work.

[AimeeLynn]

why do you *have* to get over him...?

anyway, you said it was a crush. crushes usually go as quickly as they come.

if you need to get over this guy quicker and REALLY badly i guess you could think of all the dudes cons. that advice really sucks though. im sorr. i just never heard of someone really, desperately needing to get over a crush. hope the next topost is more help. :D

My last crush was about 5 years. This crush is 4 years so far. I need to get over him because I want to move on and actually have a boyfriend with out thinking of him you know?
He is always on my mind and annoys me the fact that he knows and he is being cocky about it. He used to be a friend now I don't know. I really hate him but when I look at the cons of him, it makes me think of him. I hate him but like him.
I just want to get over this guy and move on.

ps. thanks for the help =]

[*mishyerr*]

There really is no easy formula for you to get over a guy.
The only thing I can say is to give it time, but give it less thought. Try to focus your mind elsewhere.

[tokyo-rose]

Ah, I know the love-him-but-hate-him feeling. It's not nice. I just really hope you can move on with the advice I posted.

[AimeeLynn]

Ah, I know the love-him-but-hate-him feeling. It's not nice. I just really hope you can move on with the advice I posted.

The first one is sadly right. yeah I really need a hobby.
Love the tips. Hope it works =]

Any other tips to help me?

[EmoEyelinerx]

Heres a really good topic, its based on how to get over someone by a Leader Member person.Visit This. It will help you, it has posts of how to get over a guy.


Like I said above^ in this topic: Stop and think about everything bad you had happen with him. You could also, try to limit the phone calls, texts ect. between you and him. Dont visit his myspace or anything like that of his. Remember why you dont want to talk to him anymore. I hope this advice helps. Good luck.

I also agee, that the love-him-hate-him feeling does suck. Its also confusing.

[tokyo-rose]

The first one is sadly right. yeah I really need a hobby.
Love the tips. Hope it works =]

Any other tips to help me?

Haha, well, I've been guilty of it a few times...but I thought it was too obsessive, so I concentrated on talking to him more (and staring at him at school ).

I dunno. Just think of reasons you'd be better off without him. If it's been four years that he hasn't ever liked you back or made a move, you're not meant to be. (Sorry if it sounds harsh. )