bringing something up, from a while ago Options

[SpedMonkee]

if u cant totally understand this sorry, its almost 4 in the morning here

im not totally sure where to start on this... but i recently posted a topic http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=128167 and it was about this girl that i like and wether or not she seemed to be flirting with me or not..

anyways this isnt really about that, more so about her. a long time ago, MONTHS ago, we had this chat on aim and somehow it came up about someone she liked. she had said something about liking somone in the group that we hang out in. she said about how she liked him but didnt know if he liked her (heh, kinda like me), anyways she then asked if i wanted to know who it was. i said something like only if you want to (because i didnt want to pressure her or seem really anticipated/anxious hoping it was me). but the conversation ended before she told me..

i never wound up asking her about it again, but recently its been driving me crazy. i want to ask her about it, but i am afraid i would look like some kind of weirdo for remembering something like that from so long ago, or her not remembering at all...

so, should i just straight up ask about it, or leave it be and try to work it out of my mind?
it is bothering me because i am hoping that there is the slight chance that she was talking about me when she said it.. and if she wasnt i could stop playing mind games with myself and just move on.

heh, sorry this was so long.

thanks for any advice

[--x who0ps]

i think you should ask her about it.
and if you dont want to look creepy or anything (which i dont think you will anyway cause guys ask me that kind of stuff all the time) you can ask when you guys have ntohing else to say.
so you dont look desperate, it just looks like you're trying to start a conversation :)
i hope this helped..
good luck with it!<3

[AzNxBaBi]

Ask because the anticipation will cause you two to move further away. Happens to me all the time so now i'm done with love and it's little games for awhile. You just have to take a risk sometimes and if it doesn't seem to work out well, it jsut ain't mean tfor you two. Be happy :]

[SpedMonkee]

. You just have to take a risk sometimes and if it doesn't seem to work out well, it jsut ain't mean tfor you two. Be happy :]

you know your right.. im tired of trying to live my life behind some sort of sheild, always trying to have to feel protected, not taking those big chances. ive regretted not doing alot of things, but this wont be one of them!

[Kounouri]

if you don't want to seem like you've been thinking about it all this time, you can just start over with a, "soo, do you like anyone?" type thing.

[SpedMonkee]

if you don't want to seem like you've been thinking about it all this time, you can just start over with a, "soo, do you like anyone?" type thing.

yeah, but from just out of nowhere? or what

[Kounouri]

well.. it does seem weird when people say it out of nowhere.
but there's really no way for it to just "come up" in conversation,
unless you wanna be real sly, haha.
ive had it before where guy friends of mine will be talking about other situations, where someone has said they don't like anybody.
and then they say, "but EVERYBODY likes somebody- i mean, who do you like?"

sorry if that was confusing, its hard to explain, hahaha

[SpedMonkee]

what if even after i ask her, which i did, she still avoids it and changes the subject, which she did? should i take it as a sign that she doesnt want to talk about it and just leave ti be.. or what?

[AzNxBaBi]

what if even after i ask her, which i did, she still avoids it and changes the subject, which she did? should i take it as a sign that she doesnt want to talk about it and just leave ti be.. or what?

For the mean awhile yeah if that does happen, but still would you rather have it as a moment of no accomplishment.
I think you should try "hey i heard you like someone.
Or Talk about one of your friends liking someone and go "HEY WHAT ABOUT YOU The nickname you given her?"
So it makes you look like you're kidding around but also serious.

[julianaaa]

i think you should bring up the topic again. you could always just go, "hey, you never told me who you liked."
something like that.
if she continues to avoid the subject, then it most likely means she's uncomfortable with telling you. if she avoids the subject, just drop it, and wait until she brings it up again.