Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- |
Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- |
May 17 2007, 06:16 PM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I know theirs already a topic on this but I wanted to take a poll.
**Im not saying im going to do it, im just wondering what some people think** |
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*Intercourse.* |
May 18 2007, 01:13 AM
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Yea, completely. This is in my personal opinion and in no way to be taken the wrong way
But most people at 14 are really immature. I hate to say it but its true. And they are in no way mature enough to take care of a kid. I've always stuck by if your not mature enough or ready to have a kid then you shouldn't have sex, at all. And if you choose to do so out of the curiosity this world puts under some kids. Then be safe and perhaps talk to your parents about it and get on some birth control. |
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*AngelicEyz00* |
May 18 2007, 01:24 AM
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Eh, it's their choice. Who am I to judge. Wrong? No. Maybe a little too young.
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May 18 2007, 01:28 AM
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Get at me Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964 |
Well it depends. If she is married than no. Sex out of wedlock is yes.
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May 18 2007, 04:55 AM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
I voted yes. My opinion? I cannot picture 8th graders having sex, period. Most all 14 year olds I know are just not mature enough to handle the consequences, even though they think they know what could happen. I'd hope that if one that young insisted upon having sex, they'd approach their parents and get put on the pill, at the very least... |
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May 18 2007, 08:13 PM
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hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
I voted yes. My opinion? I cannot picture 8th graders having sex, period. Most all 14 year olds I know are just not mature enough to handle the consequences, even though they think they know what could happen. I'd hope that if one that young insisted upon having sex, they'd approach their parents and get put on the pill, at the very least... i have lots of friends that have sex, along with alot of other things. it's really not that uncommon but i suppose i just hang out with bad kids. it's their decision, but as holly said, most of them are too immature to handle a child. |
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May 19 2007, 12:32 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 524,641 |
i don't think its wrong. my boyfriend and i had sex a few times but we were safe & responsible.
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May 20 2007, 03:27 PM
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Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
I think it's wrong. If you have sex when you're 14, if something bad happens, you'd be too young to handle the consequences. It is WAY too young an age to be having sex.
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*AngelicEyz00* |
May 20 2007, 03:42 PM
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I think 11 is too young
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May 20 2007, 08:02 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
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May 20 2007, 08:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 522,019 |
i still dont think its wrong~
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May 21 2007, 04:03 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 339,854 |
Having sex at 14 years old will, in my opinion, ruin your life.
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May 21 2007, 06:23 PM
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Lets value our lives. Group: Official Designer Posts: 235 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,298 |
wayy to young...
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May 21 2007, 06:35 PM
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chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
Having sex at 14 years old will, in my opinion, ruin your life. Agreed. Sex is a part of life, and you can choose to have it at any time, if you're of level of maturity and understanding. But if you have it too young, then yes, it will ruin your life, like the quoted said.
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May 21 2007, 08:27 PM
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I Love Andrew! Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,111 |
I would have to say that is it wrong because of course, you are too young. I should have listened to my mother. I started having sex at 14 and now [17 years old] I have a 4 month old. But I'm happy and my family is happy as well.
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*MyMichelle* |
May 21 2007, 08:30 PM
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Sex is only sex, and we're all just a bunch of animals. shrugs*
;) Depends on the 14 year old's morals and maturity. It's not up to us to determine whether he/she should be having sex or not. (The same goes for abortion and gay marriage!) |
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May 21 2007, 08:31 PM
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vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
Yes, it's a young age but I suppose there are mature 14 year olds out there. I guess I'm not either for or against it, neutral. By now they should be aware of the consequences, and well, if it goes wrong then who's to blame?
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May 21 2007, 08:35 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
I think its way to young too, but if thats someone preference then go ahead.
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*AngelicEyz00* |
May 21 2007, 08:54 PM
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How exactly does it ruin your life?
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May 21 2007, 08:56 PM
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consistently inconsistent. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,128 |
Yeah, just a little bit too young. I said yes.
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*Mercy* |
May 21 2007, 08:58 PM
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Do what you want.
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May 22 2007, 04:52 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,198 |
I think 14 is WAAAYYY too young.
I'm 14. I dont mind the thought of it, but I just think its wrong to have sex at this age. |
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May 22 2007, 05:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
Yes,absolutely.
If something unexpected happen(you figure out...),what would you do prepare to be a mother? |
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May 22 2007, 01:37 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
How exactly does it ruin your life? Ya, I'd like to know this too. Because in my experience, sex has made life a lot more enjoyable . There is no right or wrong in this question. It is all subjective and completely different for each person. Some 14 year olds are mature enough to handle a sexual relationship while some 24 year olds can't. |
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May 22 2007, 03:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
No. If they're mature, feel they're ready, and neither is pressuring the other then it's fine. And of course, if they use protection.
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