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 Aug 26 2005, 08:55 PM
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 L1EK 0MGZZZZ!  Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,803  |
Alright.. soo for the past 2 years and a half i've realized i get mad really easily,its kinda annoying,i try to hold back stuff but it just comes out..and I wasnt like this a few years ago..so i was wondering any ideas to help not get mad easily?dont reccomend(sp?) pills pleaase! or perhaps its puberty ?! (im 14)
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Aug 26 2005, 09:06 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
wel, yeah.. it could be puberty. you know, moodswings and junk like that. hmm.. maybe take therapy or drown yourself in music if you love music? i have a short temper too. what seems to calm me down is listening to what i think is good music. or umm.. sleep..
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Aug 26 2005, 09:07 PM
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 that heaven is overrated Group: Member Posts: 5,096 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,124 |
Yeah, I would say it's just puberty and your hormones and stuff. I've been crying a lot more recently and getting more depressed and stuff, and it started happening when puberty hit, so yeah...you'll be okay.
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Aug 26 2005, 09:16 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
I used to have an unbelievable temper. It was genetic. That might be the problem. When I was around 8-11 my temper was so short, I would have temper tantrums every day, destroy my room and just scream like crazy. Then it died down when I matured. (And I cried every day instead and ended up suffering from major depression). But just ignore that. It's probably just a phase.
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Aug 26 2005, 09:17 PM
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 Peggy. Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
puberty=mood swings.
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Aug 26 2005, 09:31 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, it probably is puberty. I have such a short temper too, but what calms me down, like Spiritedfreak said, was listening to music.
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Aug 26 2005, 10:29 PM
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 ferociously for serious Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,309 |
yeah . it is probably just puberty . i'm the same way . haha . but yeah like others -- music calms me down . i guess you could say it's my "happy" place . lol
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Aug 26 2005, 10:45 PM
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 TOISU!! Group: Member Posts: 1,996 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,516 |
Hah. I'm short tempered too. But that's not from puberty. Your situation might be from it though.
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Aug 26 2005, 11:34 PM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
im just like that. but i think ive been like this since i was small
"i hate you forever!" "i hate this!" "shut up!" ^yep. thats me |
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Aug 27 2005, 07:45 AM
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like everyone else said, it might be puberty. i'm not usually short tempered unless i have my period then i have major mood swings
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Aug 27 2005, 09:01 AM
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 omgah_itsmaggiex=new username. Group: Member Posts: 785 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,467 |
QUOTE(neonpink @ Aug 26 2005, 8:55 PM) Alright.. soo for the past 2 years and a half i've realized i get mad really easily,its kinda annoying,i try to hold back stuff but it just comes out..and I wasnt like this a few years ago..so i was wondering any ideas to help not get mad easily?dont reccomend(sp?) pills pleaase! or perhaps its puberty ?! (im 14) helppp! whoa, im like too. but then i found out that i had ADD so thats what caused me to trigger like that. |
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Aug 27 2005, 09:04 AM
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 Proud to be an Anime Otaku Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,004 |
My temper is very short, almost shorter than my new puppy! Just find who pushes your buttons the most and try to move away from that person, to keep your distance, or to take ten calming breaths ^^
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Aug 27 2005, 09:32 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
don't worry it is completly normal you just have to grow out of it sooner or later
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Aug 27 2005, 06:25 PM
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QUOTE(sharerol @ Aug 26 2005, 9:07 PM) Yeah, I would say it's just puberty and your hormones and stuff. I've been crying a lot more recently and getting more depressed and stuff, and it started happening when puberty hit, so yeah...you'll be okay. You've been crying lately? And you didn't tell me??? (mutters : but I'm your best friend!!) Anyway......I have a short temper too. ^_^ (only gets mad when insulted about height) but it's part of growing up I guess. Drawing anime usually calms me down and takes off what is on my mind..... |
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Aug 27 2005, 07:28 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
I've always had a short temper.
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Aug 27 2005, 07:44 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
I've always had a temper. I got an even worse temper when I PMS. There is really no permanent cure for short tempers. (Even if you go to therapy, that temper will be long gone but something very severe will bring it back). When I simply want to blurt out and scream everything, I decided to just shut my mouth. Sure you'll regret not taking it out on anything but when it comes to me, me and my brain forgetting memory always forgets the pain I go through.
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Aug 27 2005, 08:11 PM
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I believe that's what everyone goes through..
I have the same problem. |
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Aug 27 2005, 10:25 PM
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 Yates Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,150 |
maybe yes..puberty. or if you have been having a lot of small problems, it could just be building up and you just explode at one point. just try to take more time relaxing, i guess.
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Aug 27 2005, 10:48 PM
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i have a short temper as well. i just tend to bottle it in and let it explode every once in a while.
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Aug 30 2005, 04:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 209,389 |
I have a short temper too
 Every little thing pisses me off for some reason. I try not wasteing my time on that anymore... When I get stressed/annoyed, I just meditate til I feel better.
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Aug 30 2005, 04:49 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
it's called being a teenager.
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Aug 30 2005, 09:09 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
probably just hormones, don't worry too much. Try not to take it out on the rest of the world, but don't bottle it in either. I have a pretty short temper, but I always have, just try learn to calm yourself, and focus the anger on other things like sports or music...etc.
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