would u go out with....ur friends ex, even if they said it was ok?? |
 Aug 29 2005, 06:21 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate  Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959  |
wow!!! man o man, i just need to kno wut ppl think
 this is just a question that has been bothering me
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Aug 29 2005, 06:22 PM
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 I like it like that Group: Member Posts: 1,248 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 5,961 |
If they said it was ok? Yea, if i like the guy
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Aug 29 2005, 06:23 PM
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Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
QUOTE(teenprincess @ Aug 29 2005, 7:22 PM) If they said it was ok? Yea, if i like the guy  but wut if, ur friend is tryin to get back with there ex....??? |
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
Aug 29 2005, 06:29 PM
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No, because all of my friends ex's are stoners.... =]
Thats why they are my friends "ex"s, because my friends dont like stoners and they started doing drugs. plus I dont like any of them... |
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Aug 29 2005, 06:33 PM
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 I come from East Oakland where the youngstas get hyphy! Group: Member Posts: 1,821 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,942 |
I would there is no shame in my game. Only if the friend said I could though, but then sometimes people say yes but on the inside they really mean no. I hate when people do that.
EDIT// Hope I didnt come off like a messy friend. This post has been edited by littlebit2006: Aug 29 2005, 06:36 PM |
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Aug 29 2005, 06:33 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Err, relationships?
Anyways, well I suppose it depends. If my friend was trying to get back together with her ex, I wouldn't interfere, but if they both were fine with it, and I liked the guy, I might. |
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| *suddenly she* |
Aug 29 2005, 06:35 PM
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QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Aug 29 2005, 7:23 PM) but wut if, ur friend is tryin to get back with there ex....??? then why would they say it's okay? should be in relationships. possibly. if i liked him and he liked me and everything just clicked and all. there are exceptions. |
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Aug 29 2005, 06:35 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
No, because my friends and I have different tastes in guys
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Aug 29 2005, 06:35 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 219,238 |
well if they just broke up during this year, than no, but if it was like 2 or 3 years ago and they don't talk anymore than I would
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Aug 29 2005, 06:54 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
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 TOPIC MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS |
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Aug 29 2005, 07:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 |
Yes. It's happened.
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Aug 29 2005, 07:30 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
HELL NO i would never, that's like an unwritten rule.
usually, friends just say that it's okay to make you happy when it's really killing them inside. it doesn't matter if you wait one hour or one decade, it's still going to hurt your friend that her ex is having such a great relationship with you and that her relationship with him didn't work out. |
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Aug 29 2005, 08:28 PM
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 Ms. I Can't Tell Pants From Math Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,034 |
Depends, really.
I'm dating a great guy, he's one of my friends though, so yeah. He went out w/ my acquaintance because her friends pressured him into it, and he avoided her for a month or two until he couldn't take trying to make her break it off with him so he broke it off w/ her...Yeah, now we're dating. I'm not a slut, really. Do acquaintances count? |
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Aug 29 2005, 10:02 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i probably wouldn't but i did go out with my friend's ex anyways (she said i could and told me she was totally over him) then i found out she still had feelings for him so we didn't last long cause i felt really bad and actually had no feelings for him anymore.
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Aug 29 2005, 10:10 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Never. It's just one of those unwritten rules regarding friendship. I'd never go out with one of my friend's ex's, because I don't want to hurt my friend, directly or indirectly, by dating her ex.
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Aug 30 2005, 06:20 AM
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Okay..I would never ever date my friends ex boyfriend..It's like..One of those unspoken rules. You just don't..To your friend it would seem spiteful of you..Even though they say they understand and that you should, it's not alright. No matter how long its been since hte two of them were together, it still isn't right. She might be over him and he, her, but it makes no difference. If you date your friends ex, to them it seems cruel or mean or whatever of you..So yeah...Wouldn't do it.
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Aug 30 2005, 08:50 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
no i wouldnt. our motto between my best friends and i, is the cliched "chicks over dicks"
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Aug 30 2005, 10:14 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
no. cause always on some level, it's not okay.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Aug 31 2005, 08:26 PM
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I wouldn't, no matter how much my friend and her ex hate each other. That's just not right.
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Aug 31 2005, 08:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Aug 29 2005, 6:23 PM) but wut if, ur friend is tryin to get back with there ex....??? but my friends just said it was okay...she should have said something she can't always get what she wants |
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Aug 31 2005, 09:15 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
If they think it's okay, why not? If you like them and they like you and you have your friend's approval, what can be holding you back?
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Aug 31 2005, 09:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Even though they'd say they were perfectly fine with it, I'd feel uncomfortable. Especially if we were all haning out and we were hugging or something. It's just toop weird.
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Sep 1 2005, 09:23 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
If I didn't, I wouldn't be involved in my current relationship. In fact, if it weren't for him, I never would've asked her out.
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Sep 1 2005, 11:31 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
If the situation was good enough. Like, if they were well over each other with new lives and it happened a long time ago - and we really liked each other than why not?
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| *ih8coffee* |
Sep 2 2005, 02:45 AM
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totally no.
dating your friend's ex is a big nono. it's just be weird having the friend watching u do the same stuff to the ex as the friend did before, and that would make your friend want the ex back and that would be tumultous. That would in turn complicate your friendship. |
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