hes ignoring me, why? |
 Aug 3 2005, 05:14 PM
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ok so i told the guy i like that i like him and he was like okay... so the nextday i was talking to him on aim and hes ignoring me. i said hi and he said brb. then he signed off. i called him and hes like i g2g my grandma needs to use the phone. so yesterday he finally sign on in 3 days. i said i now hated him cuz hes so mean to me now before he was sending me signals he liked me so yeh. he then did that smilie ='( i blocked him and his friends/my friends keeps bugging me. so today i finally unblock him and i said hi and he still hasnt respond of 1 hour 20 min. [hes not idle either]
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Aug 3 2005, 05:18 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
He doesn't like you. Leave him alone.
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Aug 3 2005, 05:20 PM
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 4/5th of all people do not understand fractions. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,498 |
either he's shocked in disbelief that you like him
He's gay or He doesn't like you 
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Aug 3 2005, 06:17 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
I'm guessing he doesn't like you.
either that or he does like you and just doesn't know how to respond to it so he's avoiding you... give it a little time and see, but don't get your hopes up. |
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Aug 3 2005, 06:38 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
he doesnt like u move on. He wants to live his life, let him live it. you dont Have to be in his life damn, u seem kinda clingy to me. that OR hes just busy all the time which is not his fault. LET HIM LIVE HIS LIFE
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Aug 3 2005, 06:55 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Aug 3 2005, 7:38 PM) he doesnt like u move on. He wants to live his life, let him live it. you dont Have to be in his life damn, u seem kinda clingy to me. that OR hes just busy all the time which is not his fault. LET HIM LIVE HIS LIFE  YES! Gosh, your like HE HASN'T RESPONDED IN 1 HOUR AND 20 MINUTES WHAT DO I DO? Get over him he's just a guy. Guy's come and go simple as that. |
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Aug 3 2005, 07:38 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
FORGET ABOUT HIM. GUYS DO THAT.
SCREW COMMUNICATION AND JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE. HE obviously DOESNT LIKE YOU. That was extremely forward, but seriously. Come on. And this is like the first exception to my communication rule. pwahaha. |
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Aug 3 2005, 07:41 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, he doesn't like you, and you should probably move on. When my friend told me that he liked me, I did almost the same thing your friend did, I ignored my friend until he got the message that I didn't like him and he moved on.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Aug 3 2005, 07:45 PM
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There will be other guys. Move on
 He just gave you the cold shoulder to give you a hint, that he doesn't feel the same
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Aug 3 2005, 08:04 PM
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QUOTE(yummy_delight @ Aug 3 2005, 5:18 PM) He doesn't like you. Leave him alone. lol... [short, straight & to the point] haha... well yeah.. its kind of obvious that you hurt him eafter that "tear" he left.. so i guess you should leave him alone, or just talk it out, like force him lol |
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Aug 3 2005, 08:29 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
He most likely doesn't like you. But do not keep bugging him, he'll just like you less than he did before. I made that mistake, I don't want it to happen to you.
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Aug 3 2005, 08:33 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
doesn't like u back. oh no, what shall we do. oh right i forgot.
move on. jebus. clingy as hell....no wonder he's giving u the cold shoulder. i would too. he might be truly busy. or he might be avoiding u. whatever the reason, chill out already. |
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Aug 3 2005, 09:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
screw him....and now he is probably pissed that you blocked him...which made it worse
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Aug 3 2005, 09:34 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
I actually think you're both to blame in this situation. You made him uncomfortable and he didn't know how to tell you he doesn't like you back, so he's avoiding the situation. Which is bad in itself because he's brushing off your feelings. You're to blame because you didn't handle it maturely. Instead of talking to him, you cut off the communication completely. Which is really stupid. Are you trying to play hard to get or something?
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Aug 3 2005, 09:35 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Some guys lead girls on without knowing it because that's just how they are. They may just seem like they like you when really they don't. MOVE ON.
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Aug 3 2005, 09:54 PM
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That person probably liked you as a friend.
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| *mipadi* |
Aug 4 2005, 10:17 AM
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Simply put: he doesn't like you. I'm sure he'd say something if he did.
I'd just move on. Hey, you gave it a shot, right? Can't have regrets about that. At least you tried, right? |
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Aug 4 2005, 06:24 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(yummy_delight @ Aug 3 2005, 2:18 PM) He doesn't like you. Leave him alone. it's that simple, really  
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Aug 5 2005, 12:50 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,477 |
thanx for the replies. im offically over him, but its just weird cause today i went to the park with him and he was sorta clingy to me. he was touching me in ways i didnt like, like my legs, back, and waist. then i yelled at him and said im over you go get a life (i think i was alittle harsh). he backed up and walked home. now im really confused. what should i do, it seems like he liked me tho.
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Aug 5 2005, 01:16 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
seems like lust for him. love for you.
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Aug 6 2005, 09:46 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
you're scaring him, just forget about him. he doesnt feel the same way.
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Aug 6 2005, 11:06 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
You cant help it if he doesn't like you. He's either too shy to face you , or something that is like .. hes gay ? We dont know why he's ignoring you. Leave him alone if he doesn't talk to you anymore. It's annoying when people say HII to you a lot when your trying to avoid them. (to me)
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Aug 6 2005, 11:09 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
He hates you. Obviously.
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Aug 6 2005, 11:09 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
maybe hes shy and embrassed too about his feelings, dont worry too much and just live on with life =)
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Aug 6 2005, 11:10 PM
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My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(xxcrazyjewxx @ Aug 6 2005, 10:09 PM) He hates you. Obviously. Well said.  You're scaring him. Leave the poor kid alone. |
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