he's worrying me, what do i do Options

[Lilmusicalgrl345]

okay, so i went to music camp 2 weeks ago and i met this really hot boy that i thought i had no chance with... and so like there's this dance and well.. he so happened to ask me to the dance. and so yah i went with him to the dance n i was like super happy
and so we leave camp...
and i come home, and the next week which was this monday.... he asked me out
so yah... i was like yes of course
and
well... lately
i've been hearing a lot of comments from his friends
like:
"oh u don't have a chance with him"
"oh he likes ur best friend"
and they heard this during camp...
and told me
after he asked me
so i'm like omg wtf?!
and like.. that girl, my best friend, asked him to the dance and he said no... so doesn't that mean something

and then well like i've been trying to call him
and he's NEVER HOME
i dont' know
do u think he's trying to avoid me?!

[Skyline Drive]

Do you guys live near each other or is this a long distance type thing ? It sounds like he is avoiding you. Maybe he did like you but now that you guys had to go home he doesn't want to be with you anymore.

[shortiiex]

his friends could be jealous,,,you know friends:rolleyes:
and he should be a very good explanation for never being home..just keep trying

[Lilmusicalgrl345]

he lives like 30 minutes away... xept we're always busy at different times...
so like yah... =(
it's not that far... i mean...
omg... but should i keep on calling
or does that sound too desperate

[xtreme_<3]

well, just don't call every minute or else you'll seem too clingy and possibly obsessive which isn't a good thing ..just be patient, wait a couple of days and call again. if he still doesn't answer you calls, then he's most likely avoiding you ..that or he went out of town w/o telling you ..? btw, when you said never home, how do you know? does someone pick up the phone and tell you that he isn't there or is that whenever you call no one picks up? cause the more i think about it ..the more likely it seems like maybe, just maybe ..that he only asked you to the dance and asked you out to make your best friend jealous? no idea. the only to find out is to ask him yourself ..though it's gonna be hard, so try to be patient, if you can't, then just break up. you'll get over him.

[misoshiru]

maybe he's on vacation. and btw, it's kindof hard to understand what you wrote.

[*anubis*]

don't be so annoying.

if someone is busy, don't just keep calling and calling and calling. whether they're busy, gone, or just ignoring you--either way, they're not going to pick up.

so just wait maybe a day or two. and then call again.

don't get all annoying and getting out of hand and jumping to conclusions. he probably has a good reason. but the fact that you constantly call him will bug the shit out of him. it annoys guys.

[_sarcastic_]

don't keep calling like every hour every minute, if he's not answering it's probably cause he finds it annoying that you call all the time and is ignoring you but you shouldn't just jump to conclusions, he's probably just busy or on a vacation. and don't believe EVERYTHING his friends say, they might be saying it out of jealousy.

[Chii]

maybe he just doesn't like you anymore.

just because he asked you out doesn't mean that he wants to marry you someday.


just forget him and stop calling.

[shereyol]

you shouldn't keep calling him. he probably doesn't really want to start anything with you. forget about him, there are much better guys out there. move on.

[Tiffany_Prep_Gir...]

there are two possible reasons:

1-"HE IS REALLY AVOIDING YOU" or 2-"HE JUST DON'T ATTEND YOU BECAUSE HE IS VERY BUSY".

don't stop to call him, when he attend talk to him all that you really have to talk and after you'll feel better.

[aera]

it sounds like youre calling him too much. just call 2 or 3 days. and if he picks up, ask him what days hes free so you dont call him on the days hes not.