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is this suicide justified?, 85 year old man shoots himself
illumineering
post Aug 4 2005, 06:39 PM
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An 85 year-old man committed suicide in my town last week. His wife died about 4 years ago from cancer. His daugher-in-law died 6 years ago from cancer. His son had a heart attack and died last week. His only living relatives were his only son's 2 children. They asked him to move near them so they could be closer together. They said they would build him a house near them in Philadelphia so they could take care of him.

After he buried his son, he took his dog to the kennel the next day, returned home, and shot himself.

Was this man justified in doing this? Is this an overreaction to a difficult situation that he could have accepted over time? Was he placing his grandchildren under a more difficult situation because he was feeling sorry for himself? When his granddaughter found out, she almost miscarried her baby because she was so emotional. Doesn't the bible say suicide is a sin? (He was a Christian.)

Because he didn't want to burden anyone and had lost everyone that he was close to, was his decision acceptable? Let's face it, the best years of his life were over and he has the right to decide when and how he should leave this earth. His actions should be respected.

I'm having a hard time resolving this. Although I can respect his right to decide what he wants to do with his life, I also feel that his actions were somewhat selfish.

What do you think?
 

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illumineering   is this suicide justified?   Aug 4 2005, 06:39 PM
disco infiltrator   Well yes, of course you were hurt by this, just as...   Aug 17 2005, 01:13 PM
sadolakced acid   ^ so sex, even though it's needed to create n...   Aug 17 2005, 11:53 PM
RiC3xBoy   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Aug 17 2005, 9:53 PM)...   Aug 18 2005, 12:03 AM
sadolakced acid   ^ hang on. all sex is sin. bible says. so wha...   Aug 18 2005, 12:06 AM
RiC3xBoy   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Aug 17 2005, 10:06 PM...   Aug 18 2005, 12:08 AM
sadolakced acid   ^ if all sex is not sin, why are babies babtized ...   Aug 18 2005, 12:18 AM
RiC3xBoy   Honestly?? I really have no idea. It was just some...   Aug 18 2005, 12:19 AM
yellowgurl   Well, if he was 85 he possibly wouldnt be around f...   Aug 18 2005, 01:26 AM
Olive   QUOTE(yellowgurl @ Aug 18 2005, 4:26 PM).. bu...   Aug 18 2005, 06:57 AM
illumineering   QUOTE(Olive @ Aug 18 2005, 7:57 AM)There is A...   Aug 18 2005, 07:09 AM
RiC3xBoy   QUOTE(Olive @ Aug 18 2005, 4:57 AM)That is NO...   Aug 18 2005, 12:56 PM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Aug 18 2005, 12:56 PM)How is...   Aug 18 2005, 06:29 PM
RiC3xBoy   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Aug 18 2005, 4:29 PM)...   Aug 18 2005, 11:49 PM
illumineering   QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Aug 18 2005, 7:29 PM)...   Aug 18 2005, 11:54 PM
sadolakced acid   QUOTE(illumineering @ Aug 18 2005, 11:54 PM)h...   Aug 19 2005, 06:13 PM
snoox   i dont relly no. but i for one is against suicide....   Aug 18 2005, 01:05 PM
yellowgurl   well unless no one had a clue about his depression...   Aug 19 2005, 01:17 AM
disco infiltrator   Just because he was baptized when he was a baby do...   Aug 19 2005, 04:25 AM
latinprep12   QUOTE(headphones @ Aug 19 2005, 5:25 AM)Just ...   Aug 19 2005, 04:40 AM
mysteriouscris   QUOTE(headphones @ Aug 19 2005, 2:25 AM)Just ...   Aug 31 2005, 12:55 AM
zepfel   just a thought, isnt it more likely that he was ch...   Aug 19 2005, 07:24 PM
disco infiltrator   QUOTE(zepfel @ Aug 19 2005, 7:24 PM)just a th...   Aug 31 2005, 07:08 PM
sadolakced acid   ^ lest we forget the different sects of christiani...   Aug 19 2005, 09:49 PM
emazing   Well, I dunno. You mentioned that Catholicism/Chri...   Sep 3 2005, 08:57 PM
illumineering   QUOTE(emazing @ Sep 3 2005, 9:57 PM)Well, I d...   Sep 4 2005, 11:22 AM
sadolakced acid   ^ right... only god can kill people... which is ...   Sep 3 2005, 09:08 PM
deadendgirl   Illumineering, did the man have any previous histo...   Sep 4 2005, 12:37 PM
illumineering   QUOTE(deadendgirl @ Sep 4 2005, 1:37 PM)Illum...   Sep 4 2005, 03:57 PM
ThePrincessofTKD   suicide is a choice. if someone decides to do suic...   Sep 5 2005, 02:42 PM
sadolakced acid   ^ set a death penalty for suicide.   Sep 5 2005, 02:53 PM
CHiiCKENBUTT   in christian beliefs [from what i was taught] suic...   Apr 8 2006, 04:34 PM
Acid Bath Slayer   QUOTE(CHiiCKENBUTT @ Apr 8 2006, 4:34 PM)...   Apr 8 2006, 04:55 PM
TeeNaGe_WaSteLaND   Sure it's justified. I think what you are ask...   Apr 8 2006, 08:04 PM
Dragonfly_babe   Aww that poor man. I think that everyone should be...   Apr 8 2006, 08:34 PM
colleen92   God should be the only person to choose when someo...   Apr 9 2006, 12:50 PM
xklipse   Nope,...without saying anything religious. I think...   Apr 9 2006, 01:14 PM
x__Elle.   To any true Christian, for no matter what the reas...   Apr 9 2006, 07:41 PM
Angelina Taylor   You know what, my grandfather was 72 when he died,...   Apr 10 2006, 07:57 AM
x__Elle.   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 10 2006, 7:57...   Apr 10 2006, 08:04 AM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(x__Elle. @ Apr 10 2006, 9:04 AM) Re...   Apr 10 2006, 06:55 PM
x__Elle.   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 10 2006, 6:55...   Apr 10 2006, 10:22 PM
swtcherriipie   You know what if i was in his situation i would ha...   Apr 10 2006, 08:50 PM
im just a stupid worthless boy   i dont think u have any right to play God with our...   Apr 14 2006, 11:19 AM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(im just a stupid worthless boy @ Apr 14...   Apr 14 2006, 10:18 PM
im just a stupid worthless boy   QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 14 2006, 11:1...   Apr 15 2006, 01:48 PM
Angelina Taylor   QUOTE(im just a stupid worthless boy @ Apr 15...   Apr 15 2006, 03:29 PM
x__Elle.   QUOTE(im just a stupid worthless boy @ Apr 14...   Apr 14 2006, 11:45 PM
ROARxD   =[ wow. Like many others said, no suicide can be j...   Apr 14 2006, 03:17 PM
x1049   I feel as though it were a justified suicide. As l...   Apr 18 2006, 08:51 AM
angel-roh   maybe he really missed his wife like he cant live ...   May 1 2006, 06:47 AM
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