kissing, is it ok on the 1st date |
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 Feb 20 2006, 03:35 PM
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 Band Geek.  Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494  |
I think its ok, but it all depends on how the date's going and how logn you've known each other, blah blah blah.
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Feb 21 2006, 09:13 PM
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It really depends how well you know the guy and how comfortable you feel. Different people have different comfort levels.
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Feb 22 2006, 01:46 AM
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 the name is ada. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,688 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,608 |
Yes.
I`ve done it before. 
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Feb 22 2006, 07:18 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Yes, its ok. If you want to kiss him... why not? Life's short.
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Feb 22 2006, 05:59 PM
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ya if u want to and he wants to. ive kissed guys who ive never gone out with. but i have problems. my first kiss was with an older guy who did drugs outside my religion class. and i never kissed my first real bf.
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Feb 22 2006, 06:42 PM
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i think it all depends on the person. i mean, i've never been on an actual DATE persay..so i can't really tell you from personal experience. i think that if you're on a date with someone that you've known for a while, then it's fine to kiss him on the first date. if it's a blind date and you've never met the person before, then i wouldn't kiss them.
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Feb 23 2006, 12:47 PM
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 I love my babyboy Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,367 |
QUOTE(baby-girl2987 @ Aug 3 2005, 1:27 PM)  i say it is but some of my friends say its wrong. what do u think. if u picked it depends what does it depend on?  [attachment=12395:attachment] I think that if the date is going really really well, and personally for me. If my date steals a kiss on the first date then its okay. If he askes for one then its okay, sometimes. But other than that if the date only went okay, then there is no kiss. If it was horrible but we enjoyed ourselves, no kiss. Maybe a little smuche on the cheek. |
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Mar 8 2006, 09:07 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I think it's fine on the first date. I don't know about anything more..because they guy could just be a jerk..and only in it for one thing..But I think it's smarter to save it for later, so you can be sure the guy isn't just in it for the wrong reasons. ?
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Mar 8 2006, 09:27 PM
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i would sya no.
because if he really cares, he'll listen to your side of the story. |
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Mar 8 2006, 11:29 PM
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 × Dead as Dillinger. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,527 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,615 |
Yeah. I think a kiss is harmless. It just shows that there is potential for this relationship.
That's just me talking. |
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Mar 10 2006, 09:01 PM
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It depends, I think a kiss on the cheek for a nice goodbye is sweet. But making out by the first day is OD.
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Oct 11 2006, 06:16 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
i picked depends. becuase to me it depends on the person, how the date was, the connection you had, if you actually feel that its right and not having the feeling of being pressured into kissing, and how long you've known the person.
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Oct 13 2006, 05:12 PM
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depends on how well the date went.
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Oct 13 2006, 05:19 PM
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 the bird and the bee sides! Group: Member Posts: 1,697 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 201,280 |
I'd say it depends on how long you know the person - and whether you trust him/her or not.
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Oct 13 2006, 07:21 PM
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 I've got ADD and magic markers. Oh the thrills I will have. Group: Member Posts: 624 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,743 |
I said it depends. If you really like the guy and if you feel a connection, then it's fine. But just an innocent kiss. If you slam him up against a wall and shove your tongue down his throat, that's a bit much.
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Oct 13 2006, 07:29 PM
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Priscilla Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 463,856 |
There's no right or wrong answer to this question. You just do what you feel's right.
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Oct 13 2006, 11:32 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
If you feel comfortable around the person & you're old enough to kiss then yeah, it's okay.
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Oct 15 2006, 12:02 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Depends. With a total stranger heck no. But as for me and my bf...
We were close friend before we got together officially. We spent a LOT of time alone before we were together...so in a way it already felt like we were "dating". So when I asked him out...we kissed and it felt right. It really depends on the situation/how well you know the person/how "right" or "comfortable" you feel with the person. |
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Oct 15 2006, 12:10 AM
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depeeeeends.
and pretty much everyone else explained why. |
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Oct 16 2006, 06:13 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
The question was whether it is OKAY to kiss on the first date, so I say yes.
That doesn't mean you HAVE to. A goodnight peck on the cheek or lips is fine on the first date. |
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Oct 16 2006, 07:16 PM
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Depends, if you both have known each other for a while. Perhaps a yes, but if you just met, then I would lean more towards a no. Easpecially if there was a high chance of a second date
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Oct 17 2006, 06:37 PM
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it depends on a lot of things..
like the mood you are in.. if you know your ready.. if you think hes ready.. ect.. pretty much what everyone else said |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 7 2006, 10:25 PM
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a sweet kiss is ok nothing hard core or ill think the guy is a crazed sex fiend
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Jan 13 2007, 07:35 PM
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I voted no, I personally think if you kiss on the first date your kind of giving yourself away a little to fast.
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Jan 13 2007, 07:43 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
hmm..its fine.
if you really like him or something. but dont do it just because he leans in first. |
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