Relationship advice needed GF problems!, my GF is too controlling/needey! Options

[shrikeuk]

I love my gf i really do but she's driving me crazy ! weve been in a relation ship for 3 months now and she likes to tell me what to do all the time. The worst part is she does it slyly buy saying you make the decisions im just happy to be with you, but i know her too well and she gets all moodey if i make a bad choice. Also she now has decided that she should decide when we meet up and stuff ( basicly all the time!) and i was ok with this but its begining to tarnish the love i feel for her!
Last time i tried to confront her about this she was kinda dismissive and kinda changed the subject by 'sexual relations'. To be honest i cant really fight with her and when ever i try she distracts me! I feel like im under all this pressure to make the right decissions and see her all the time ( as she gets moody when i dont).
what can i do ?

I love her, but if she carries on the way she does im gonna have to end it!

now im not saying that im a greatest boy friend or that i may get nervous some times but for example this is an email i got a week ago after i didnt see her for 4 days ( i was visiting some m8's who go uni!)

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hey hun could you please TURN YOUR BLOODY PHONE ON

it's hard enough not being able to see you, but i really want to talk to you about some stuff

i don't want to be a demanding girlfriend, but this isn't really gonna work if you are uncontactable

you're let off this once because this is your first relationship and you've got lots of work to do

but still i'm starting to feel rather neglected

i just wanted to talk to you about being close around your friends, and paying me enough attention? i realise you may be a little embrassed, but you're gonna have to get over it, because i don't mind being intemate with you infront of people :P the attention thing, well yeah i'm gonna want at least equal attention as your mates get :P

i've been really good so far not harassing you or anything, and i better be rewarded for it
:P

things change when you're in a relationship ok? i just wanna talk to you, is that so much to ask?

all my love

Verity
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just to put this in perspective i have seen her for at least 4 days a week for the past 3 months - she stayed over here for the last 2 weeks and i did have my phone on i just couldent reply ( out of credit!)