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wtf....has this ever happened to you?
teeners4
post Jul 31 2005, 03:59 AM
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k so i've been dating this guy for 3 weeks right? and like he FLIRTS with my friends, like CLOSE friends. well at first they flirted with him. and he was like "no trust me i dont like them, cause i have you"

and im like aww thats cute but like tonite we had movie nite at my house and he didnt sit beside me, like he sat all the way across the room by himself. and hes like to my friend "sarah* come sit beside me im lonely" and im like WTF

then my best friend sat beside me and shes like "sam* come sit here with tina!" and hes like "no its okay i like here better"

and im like wtf.

i dont know maybe its a trust issue, but somethings going on and im like major WTF
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 09:14 AM
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Omg. If he doesn't even want to sit with you, DUMP HIM.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 09:21 AM
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That's just wrong. Dump him =\ or you should have a -talk-
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 09:27 AM
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I mean, it's not wrong for you to have insecurities and everything. But try talking to him and your friends first. If you really think he's on to your friends, just dump him.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 09:45 AM
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maybe he's trying to make you jealous.
2 can play at this game =)
if he continues; just do what he does to you; back to him. if he flirts with your friends; start flirting with his. spend alittle less time away from him. he'll get the idea soon.
and if he doesnt; just dump him. dump him before he dumps you =)
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 10:48 AM
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it sounds like he really doesn't like you and is using you to get someone else
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 11:25 AM
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Wow, he sounds like an ass. Definetly confront him about him, and be like "okayyy so why do you flirt with my FRIENDS more than me? Why does it seem like you like them better?" And then if he can't come up with a good response, dump him.
This guy is not worth your time.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 11:33 AM
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talk to him or dump or do the same to him
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:14 PM
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Yeah, like everyone said, Talk to him about this.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 03:19 PM
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it's simply immaturity on his behalf. boys do these things for inexplicable reasons however i suspect that he wants to stir up jealousy.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 03:27 PM
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talk to him. maybe he doesnt like you anymore ?
i suggest you talk to him, ask him why hes messing [flirting] with your friend.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:00 PM
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i say dump him too. unless of course you really like him. then you should work it out.

he's pretty inconsiderate if you're riite there and he flirts with someone else.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:02 PM
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He's a jerk. I say you should dump him.

If he doesn't want your company, you shouldn't even give him the option.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:09 PM
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dude, i think that it's time for a little conversation with him. flirt with your friends? that isn't cool.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:11 PM
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seems like he wants to show off. like even though he has a gf, he probably just wants more. man whore. but if he continues just dump him. don't do it back because that will just make you like him. oh and his friends will most probably call you a slut.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 06:51 PM
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You should really have a nice talk with him, let him know how you feel! And if that doesn't work... dump him stubborn.gif
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 07:48 PM
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what a crack head... i say BREAK UP WITH HIM; yes its happened to me [in some kind of way] it didnt work out b/c the guy said he would change or something, but never did shit to get me smiling again... so JUST END IT
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 12:10 AM
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yea i talked to him. and we're fine now. and my friend told me (she was talking to him) and he's scared of losing me, cause before we went out we flirted a lot and kinda played a game getting each other jealous. and i dont know wacko.gif haha but hes really hyped up about our one month ? i didnt know ppl even celebrated one months
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 04:15 PM
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talk to him...if my bf ever did that *Cause he knows how jealous I get* but if he did that I would start a scene and beat the sH!t out of him...
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 06:15 PM
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woah that's kind of messed up? if it happened recently, you should really confront him about it.
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 07:43 PM
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if my boyfriend ever did that to me oh dear lord, i wouldn't put up with that.


QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Aug 1 2005, 1:10 AM)
yea i talked to him. and we're fine now. and my friend told me (she was talking to him) and he's scared of losing me, cause before we went out we flirted a lot and kinda played a game getting each other jealous. and i dont know wacko.gif haha but hes really hyped up about our one month ? i didnt know ppl even celebrated one months
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people do...one of my ex's celebrated our one week, i thought that was odd.
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 07:50 PM
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QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Jul 31 2005, 6:21 AM)
That's just wrong. Dump him =\ or you should have a -talk-
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I agree. That doesn't sound right ermm.gif Id have a serius talk, and if he doesn't give you answers, DUMP HIM

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Garr, once again, the problem is already solved. Next time, I'm looking at the other posts before I click the reply button pinch.gif
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 07:58 PM
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He's your BOYFRIEND. Talk to him about the situation and how you feel about it. You guys should be good enough friends to trust each other and communicate with each other.

I really need to read the posts before I post. pinch.gif This topic should be closed.
 
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post Aug 1 2005, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 31 2005, 10:48 AM)
it sounds like he really doesn't like you and is using you to get someone else
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agree...
 
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post Aug 2 2005, 02:54 AM
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QUOTE(x3__iGiVEup @ Jul 31 2005, 4:45 AM)
maybe he's trying to make you jealous.
2 can play at this game =)
if he continues; just do what he does to you; back to him. if he flirts with your friends; start flirting with his. spend alittle less time away from him. he'll get the idea soon.
and if he doesnt; just dump him. dump him before he dumps you =)
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i agree..
if u dont want to flirt with his friends, u should talk to him and let him know..
 
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