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[kyootE_krn_bebe]

ok..so the guy came over to my house last nite and asked me out...
i had a feelin he liked me since all the comments were simialr to his actions.
and now i think i regret wanting him to tell me.
should i break it to him that i think i just had a short term crush?
or just stay with him until he moves away for college in a month?

::sigh:: he's the type of person that doesn't ask a gurl out unless he reallie likes her..and i guess he reallie likes me.

or i do like him..he just changed rite after i sed yes..being all touchy and stuff...maybe that's wat turned me off?

oh ...help?

[conster]

hmm.. if u dont like him u should break it off. cuz the longer u hold on the relationship the more he'll get hurt.. and if u do like him but got turned off cuz hes all touchy and stuff, talk to him about it.. say i dunno.. u dont like guys whos too touchy

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

well if he makes you feel uncomfortable you should tell him. if you don't feel the same it wouldn't be right to give him the wrong idea. stay friends and keep it clear from the getgo that you don't have stronger feelings than that..

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

i think it's that i miss my ex...that i miss him bunches...and i just want someone to fill in that hole in my heart...i know that this is terrible..but is it okai if he's not the same as my ex? im just so..hurt and confused. i hate that i feel this way.

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[forgottenxmemori...]

its ok, just keep swimming

[conster]

forgottenxmemories Posted on Apr 17 2004, 4:58 PM
  its ok, just keep swimming 

lols

hmm... u miss ur ex..? well.. i think its unfair to the guy ur dating rite now if ur heart misses someone else...

[xjjajeengx]

oh man...
i think i noe how you feel. i had this bf, and he started like really i ono... he started out as a turn on... then he started changing and i just didnt like it... he acted all like ... weerd and i just got turned off. sometimes, i get so pissed off and annoyed at him cause he gets all ewwie... so we finally took a break. but hwatevers you noe? haha

well... even if he does ask a girl only if he really likes her, its up to YOU whether or not to like him or not. DANG... dont get with him out of pity! thass like the most saddest thing you can do... just break it to him, dass what i say, you dont want to be stuck with someone u aint gunna like.

[angel-roh]

lols that reminds me of someone-_-;;....aww... grace told u somethin... nd' i can agree...nd' seems like it was jus a crush...........wait was this ur first date?

[xEat a VeganX]

just tell him the truth. that always works.

[waccoon]

if you like him, go for it. if you dont, nobody can keep up the act that long

[hair products]

i don't like girls who will stay with someone for the sake of something you just said or other reasons i will not disclose. the end. dump him

[kyootE_krn_bebe]

lols that reminds me of someone-_-;;....aww... grace told u somethin... nd' i can agree...nd' seems like it was jus a crush...........wait was this ur first date?

no..i've known this guy for about 2 years now..we were like oppa/dongseng relationship and then..he asked me out..so..i mean it's not like i don't like him at all..im beginning to feel a little more comfortable around him and his frends..he also asked me to his prom! =) hehe...

thanks for the comments!

[carmi96]

or i do like him..he just changed rite after i sed yes..being all touchy and stuff...maybe that's wat turned me off?

thts hapened 2 me b4 if u mean he stiks 2 u alot it put me off 2 i dumped tht guy coz i thout i didnt lyk him enuf 2 go out with him..hmmm i think u shuld think the sme if he s worth u going out with him..if u dunt luv him i think u shuld dump him ..BUT BREAK IT 2 HIM NICELY hehe hope i v bin of sum help? wel ttyl
xox

[anna_banana08]

girl you gotta tell him. he finds out later, it'll break his heart even more...

[rOckThISshYt]

lol. yup. you're definatly in a pickle now!! i say, go with what you feel, so if you don't like him, don't date him. but if you're really worried about hurting his feelings, and don't mind waiting, then just wait the extra month. but i guess if he came ALL the way to your house just to ask you out, then it's a pretty sweet gesture.

[Just_Dream]

LoL one of those dongseng/oppa relationships, at first, eh? lol that reminds me of all those korean fan fictions!

Well anyways aww well i mean, how touchy? like he alwyas wants a hug, or that he'd brush up against our chest or grab ur butt or something/ Because you need to tell him that you need space you know, that you're not ready yet. And if he acts like he wants to feel up on y ou, and you go with him to the prom, he MIGHT want to um.. "have intercourse" with you becuase it's sort of a cliche to do that prom night

But anyhow i have a friend who's trying to still fill up that empty hole in her heart as well. She still missed her ex becuase she lasted quite a while with her ex and the thing was, she cared about him so much and he never loved her back. Thus, she is still wishing that somehow, he could've given her the love she wanted. And even though she really care alot about her new bf, her ex... she still wished he could've given her some love... all he did was sit around and barely called her.. fricken cheated on her too