Would you fcuk me?, right now? |
 Jul 21 2005, 11:08 PM
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yerp!  Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454  |
Yeah, that's how I feel.
 To get to the point, I went through something really awkward today. As you know, I am engaged. Well, my fiance, John, has a brother that I haven't exactly met. He lives in California, but he flew down three days ago for the wedding. Anyway, John, his brother (Charles), my in-laws and I went out to eat lunch at a buffet place. Since John and my in-laws went up to the buffet table, I had to stay at our table to watch Geena and Charles stayed with us. We got to talking and everything, and suddenly he starts complimenting me. For instance he said, "You have really nice legs." I thought it was pretty creepy, but I just ignored it. Then he said, "Jesus, I wish I got to you first. My brother is always the lucky one....He always wins..." And I tried to ignore that part. Then, believe it or not, things got even more awkward. Charles: Can I ask you something? Me: Yeah. What? Charles: If you hadn't met my brother first... Me: Mmhmm.... Charles: Do you think...? Me: Do I think what? Charles: Do you think if I met you first that we coulda...you know... Me: Haha, I don't think so. Charles: No, no, I'm not kidding. Me: Oh. Well, it really doesn't matter, I met John first, haha. Charles: It's fcuking hypothetical, Felicia. I was surprised that he cursed at me  We just stopped talking then and waited until John got back to the table.Have you ever been in an awkward situation like that? Where a friend or a relative of your boy/girlfriend hit on you? Dude, how am I gonna face him at the wedding?
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Jul 21 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Daydreamer Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 159,195 |
omg i cant belivehe said that!!!! but i havent had nething like that happen to me....try to avoid him thats gonna b hard tho....i hope he doesnt try sayign that u said something to him....u kno...like switching wut he said an saying u said it.
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Jul 21 2005, 11:15 PM
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 team late night queen Group: Member Posts: 1,602 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,861 |
OMLORD. ... you should give him a dirty look as your going down the isle. LOL. kidding. that is just weird. ive had my friends boyfriend hit on me before. but nothing like that. oh wait. my exboyfriends little brother was like, "sexy legs" and hes in .what? 3rd grade. haha. do you ever plan on telling john?
heck yes id fcuk you. 
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Jul 21 2005, 11:17 PM
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 I come from East Oakland where the youngstas get hyphy! Group: Member Posts: 1,821 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,942 |
actually something like that has hapened to me before, but boy is that akward. you handled it like a champ tho. kind of off topic, but are you having a big or small wedding? because if its big, you would not have to worry about runnin into him too much.
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Jul 21 2005, 11:18 PM
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ooh dats creepy >.< he shouldn't have say/ ask anything like that sincee his brother is marring toh youu... >.< That kind of also rude..
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Jul 21 2005, 11:20 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
You put the smack down on his ass.
OR BETTER, Let John do it, we brothers love having excuses to take out our other brothers. Make it on pay per view and you get money with it! it's a win win lose situation! |
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Jul 21 2005, 11:26 PM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
QUOTE(CrazayChristian @ Jul 21 2005, 11:20 PM) You put the smack down on his ass. OR BETTER, Let John do it, we brothers love having excuses to take out our other brothers. Make it on pay per view and you get money with it! it's a win win lose situation!   Great idea!But, I'd confront him about it. Tell him it's making you uncomfortable, and that you don't like it and you want it to stop. It that doesn't work, tell your fiancee, and then the both of you talk to him about it. |
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Jul 21 2005, 11:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
Wow that's wrong. Ah what a creepy guy.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:04 AM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
That's weird. Very. Don't say anything for now. But if he tries to pull a fast one like that again.. Tell your fiancess/husband. Congrats by the way on getting married.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:13 AM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
Oh my. That's... terrible. I'd have a little sit down with the booger and get things straight. [Pretty much what SillyCourtney said (:]
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Jul 22 2005, 12:17 AM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
That's extremely rude. Hmm.. I guess I had some shit like that before. My boyfriend's brother always hung around me and stuff and people started suspecting that I liked him instead of my boyfriend. But I mean, our relationship was REALLY low profile and yeah. It's pretty annoying when people can make assumptions like that, but it's not so much your reputation this is, but your own comfort.
Jeez, tell the man to back off. Enforce some of your power. |
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Jul 22 2005, 12:17 AM
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 n3wbie Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,877 |
Punch him in the face.
*shudders* He's creepy. |
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Jul 22 2005, 12:20 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
good lord. what is wrong with that guy ?
you must be drop dead gorgeous. which you seem to be. kick him where the sun dont shine and say your ugly and your brother isnt leave me alone. |
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Jul 22 2005, 08:20 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
*weirded out*
meh, ur fcuking hot and way cool, no wonder he can't resist. and if he doesn't back off, either: 1. bitchslap back to kingdom come. 2. a straight swift kick to his...boys 3. *pow pow* a glock works fine. 4. *pffffffttttuh* yay for pepper spray 5. john, honey, ur brother's been....bothering me. can u go kick his ass? 6. arsenic + coffee = teehee. 7. cut the brakes on his car. 8. oops, i pushed him over a bridge. 9. pretend to like him back, pretend to cheat, and then take some photos of him with you, pretending like it's rape or whatever, bring it to court, and sue the shit out of him, and then go live in the bahamas with john for the rest of ur lives, being all happy and yay. |
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| *anubis* |
Jul 22 2005, 08:26 AM
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haha. what a loser.
you shoulda poured water on him
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Jul 22 2005, 08:28 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Why don't you tell John and ask what he thinks you should do?
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Jul 22 2005, 08:36 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
TELL JOHN !
What if he was scared all along and knew his brother would say something like that to you. OH and then emphasize the part where he swore in front of Geena. Er yeah. Sue him for sexual harassment. To a minor. Mwahaha. |
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Jul 22 2005, 08:37 AM
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 The Lyricist Group: Member Posts: 126 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,967 |
daaamnnnnn what the fcuk is that. that guy got some guts man....for real, you must be some fine lady hahaha. pretty hard to tell you fiance..."hunny, i think your brother is hitting on me..."
but damn. whats wrong with taht guy. |
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Jul 22 2005, 09:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,711 |
Um... Kill him. Then nobody will know anything ever happened.
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Jul 22 2005, 10:06 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Woah what the hell man. That's is awkward and messed up. Was he hotter than your fiance.. because if so.. no one has to know. haha I'm kidding. That hasn't ever happened to me but my best friends boyfriend hit on me alot when they were going out..
 Ugh it was uncomfortable. I see where you are coming from though.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:06 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
WTF?! Back off a-hole. Wow. This hasn't quite gone on with me before, thankfully, but seirously. Tough situation.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:10 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
What an a-hole. How old is he? How are you gonna face him? Don't. Or tell him that he made you feel very uncomfortable that day to make sure he doesn't do it again.
It's sort of happenned to me before. While I was "getting it on" with a boyfriend from a while back at some house party... his friend kept walking in and um... admiring the view. He even told my boyfriend that if he needed any assitance, he'd be glad to help. LOL. He was very very drunk. |
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Jul 22 2005, 12:20 PM
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Well, that's a little on the creepy side.
So when's the wedding? 
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Jul 22 2005, 12:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
OMFG?!?!?!?!?!?!?!...I can't believe he did that!!...& no I have never been in that kind of situation before...that is realli messed up of him...& I would tell my husband or future husband of what he did or said..but I'd tell my fiance not to make a big deal of it...or I would only tell him if his brother did it again!!...or I would act as if nothing happened!!..I would do one of those!!...but one thing I hate about all these suggestions is that he gets away with what he did...& to me thats not acceptable!!...
..but I hope I helped maybe jusst a little... 
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Jul 22 2005, 12:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
chill.... thats too much, and then your wedding is coming up?! wtf? ... just hope that things arent gonna get too "hectic"
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