err my best friends r bytches Options

[alli]

er okay ..so recently my friend me and my sister had a sleepover..and u have to understand that me and my friend were very close like ive known her since i was 5..and my other friends since iwas 12..so my other friends are always doing stuff w/ out me ..so i thought this sleepover thing would be no big deal?! but some how that got soo mad at me..not my sister or my friend (were all very good friends)..and i dont understand why.i mean they never do stuff with me and so why should i always have to do stuff with them ? u no.. i mean you guys will prob. say get other friends..but u got to understand there my best friends and i love them.but i dont no what to say to them. i dont no why they can be mad at me for not inviting them..i just wanted some time w/ my friend just to my self..and y cant i ever be mad at them for not inviting me?! but then there mad i didnt tell them..but they never tell me what there doing w/o me?! uggh so what do i do or say?! HELP!thanks!

[jennyjenny]

I didn't quite understand that.. but okay?

Just tell your other friends that you're allowed to do whatever you want and that they shouldn't get mad because they do stuff without you so that's dumb.

That's probably not the best advice, though.

[pinklove_stains]

i think you shoudl talk to them,
tell them hwo you feel when they always don't include you in their plans,
if they don't take ur feelings serisouly.

they're really not your bestfriends.

[[x]Mari[x]]

Talk it over and tell them that you just thought they wouldn't mind so much since they don't do stuff with you.

[enyceXaddiction]

im sorry i didnt understand your storyy

[ldy_kari]

i understnad your story..you have to set a time and sort things out and make a scgedule so all of you can do things tgether..thats what i did and now we are back to how we used to be =)

[alli]

thanks..i think this will somewhat help i guess..anymore advice?

[one_lub_4_eva]

it's kinda confusing. but just confront and ask them the questions to THEM and talk everything out. tell him that u just wanted to spend time wiht ur other friend?

[dahding]

why don't u just confront ur friends.

and if they're really ur best friends, are they "bytches" then.

and god, take a few courses in grammar or something.

[HIMsHeartagram]

Your lucky. I have no friends.

[sheddingtears]

you sound like me sometimes.

i have two best friends, love em to death though they are annoying and such bitches sometimes, but i just can't dump em and find new ones just because. im not much of a confrontational person either.

next time keep the sleepover thing a secret... and tell your best friends that your friend is very close to you and that it's your guys' bonding time. if they can't accept that, then just give it some time for it to get into your best friends' brains.

[Individualityy]

To the people who don't understand: She's saying that she wants to spend time with one best friend, but her other best friends are getting jealous because she's spending time with that one best friend instead of them.

Um, talk it out with them. If they're truly your best friends, they'll understand that you like all of them equally, and that there shouldn't be any competition going on here. Best of luck. =).

[xldubaliciousx]

It sounds like they're being hypocrites(sp?).. If they're really mad that you didn't invite them along then just tell them that THEY don't always invite you either. And then see what they say and go from there.