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1st impression on Dates .., is it everything on a guy or girl
Mr. Slowjamz
post Jul 26 2005, 07:00 PM
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what do you think it says....if so obvious.
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Do you think 1st Impressions on a date are important and should be considered highly recognized by most people ?

i dont know what to say ....sometimes 1st impression is a good thing , youll most likely be happy on your first date . However , sometimes it take time in getting to know someone the 1st time ....and usually people who believes in 1st impression usually blows off people who , if they knew each other a little longer , would have the same likings from them .....1st impression can be a carless mistake for a guy/girl who had just blown someone ....they could have missed someone who is truly special . What do you guys think ? i have no preference ...lol..
 
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post Jul 26 2005, 07:13 PM
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i think first impression are really important...everyone always remembers the thing that happens first, such as the first thing my firts ex said to me, "do you like dogs?"

a date is like an audition, everyone has one special thing they look for in someone and if you don't portray their "special someone" then they're not going to want to date you anymore. but what a person initially thinks of you isn't set in stone, it can change but first impressions don't.
 
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post Jul 26 2005, 07:18 PM
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they are important cause that's how you meet them and it just stays in your head...well usually
 
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post Jul 26 2005, 08:03 PM
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first impressions are important, but you also gotta believe in giving second chances
 
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post Jul 26 2005, 11:48 PM
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A first impression is important, but that someone may be having a bad day.
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 12:02 AM
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First impressions will always stick with me, but I don't usually judge a person by it.
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 01:20 AM
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i think first impressions are important...
but i wouldnt judge a book by its cover (90% of the time)
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 10:32 AM
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First impressions are the most important. I took a psychology class at the local community college, and its easy to start something new, and harder to change something old. Its like when you learn something. If you learn something one way, and then all of a sudden learn it another way, you'll more then likely head to the "old way".
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 12:45 PM
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You'd have to have a good first impression to go out with 'em wouldn't you?
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 03:42 PM
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First impressions are VERY important.

If I had a horrible first impression of a guy on the first date, it would be a cold day in hell before I went out with him again.
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 06:07 PM
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yeah i think it means a lot i mean... if you act like a player on the first date, you definitely would not be getting a second one from me.
 
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post Jul 27 2005, 06:59 PM
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it depends how good/bad first impressions are. like, if the guy said something very offensive or is a total jerk or w.e. i probably wouldn't want to pursue anything with him. but if he was just a bit boring, i would probably go on another date, because you never know. he could feel more comfortable and be more fun. etc.
 
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post Jul 28 2005, 12:50 AM
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QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 27 2005, 12:45 PM)
You'd have to have a good first impression to go out with 'em wouldn't you?
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No. My fiance went out with me because he 'wanted that ass' (rofl) and he realized it was true love when he called back the next day.


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post Jul 28 2005, 09:46 AM
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first impressions are always important, but you shouldnt make your entire judgement with it. some people always save the best things for last ;)
 
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post Jul 28 2005, 11:33 AM
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QUOTE(StrwberriQT @ Jul 28 2005, 9:46 AM)
some people always save the best things for last ;)
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Like their hidden rapist tendencies
 
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post Jul 28 2005, 03:31 PM
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Yeah, first impressions are pretty important. I took psychology like some1 up there did, and we all get an impression off people-called schemas. It's basically set up to save us time when reading people.

UMMMMMMMMMMM, yeah when i meet some1 and i think of them later i use how they acted the first time to judge their personality and stuff.
 
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post Jul 28 2005, 04:04 PM
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QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Jul 28 2005, 12:50 AM)
No. My fiance went out with me because he 'wanted that ass' (rofl) and he realized it was true love when he called back the next day.
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lol. But I mean in most cases..yours is a special case..lol
 
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post Jul 28 2005, 04:05 PM
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Not really. To me, I think first impressions are stupid. They try to be all nice and stuff but when u finally become their's, their true side comes out and can ruin everything. I like it when we go out to dinner and he burps and acts himself cause thats what I do. I like a open REAL relationship. He has to be sweet though.. _dry.gif
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:41 PM
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I think first impressions matter most. Because someone people I have dated wouldn't give me a second chance to prove that I'm a normal person.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:51 PM
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Of course first impressions are important. That's what either gets them interested, or turns them off...
 

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