My first kiss....help! |
 Jul 25 2005, 12:37 PM
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I had my first kiss about a week or so ago, but it felt airy and awkard kinda (if you know what i mean?)...but yet, I thought he was a pretty good kisser!?! I was just thinking in my head "is this what its supposed to be like?" and I was kind of embarrassed because I didnt want to be bad or him to think i was. He had been wanting to kiss me for a long time, and i didnt want to dissapoint him, or have him go off and tell his friends i was a bad kisser. I dont know why it felt like that, but I just keep thinking it was my fault because it was my first kiss, and he had kissed other girls before. If it was airy for me was it for him? Just because it was airy feeling does it mean it was automatically bad...because I didnt think he was bad. He kissed me several times after that too so i have SOME thought in my mind that it wasnt bad for him...but I dont know!
He hasnt talked to me much since then though. No clue why! Help! |
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Jul 25 2005, 12:40 PM
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 All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
I'm sure since it was your first one that it HAD TO feel awkward.
Really, my first one felt...eckk. But it's a new thing, it's not supposed to feel great off-the-bat. [But if it does for some people, great for them.] Don't worry. It's normal. But apparently since he did kiss you afterword then he DID indeed enjoy it. (: |
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Jul 25 2005, 01:23 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
haha first kisses are strange.
because nobody really knows what theyre doing haha. maybe you should ask him if you were bad and then ask for some practice 
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Jul 25 2005, 01:38 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 182,065 |
well i would ask him...but i have ruled out that option because I'm really afraid to...he doesnt know that was my first kiss, plus im older than him and to ME it would just feel weird asking someone younger that question.
I still would just like to know everyones opinion on my situation though...I still get all worked up about it |
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Jul 25 2005, 06:52 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
it's not about age...just go talk to him =) nothing bad could end up happening and if something bad does happen then there could always be worse
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Jul 25 2005, 07:01 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
so, you gave your first kiss to some random guy?
but anyway, why are you stressing about it so much? it doesn't matter how good or bad someone kisses, a relationship isn't all about kisses and hugs. |
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Jul 25 2005, 08:20 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
QUOTE it doesn't matter how good or bad someone kisses, a relationship isn't all about kisses and hugs. well said. exactly |
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Jul 25 2005, 08:29 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Jul 25 2005, 4:01 PM) so, you gave your first kiss to some random guy? but anyway, why are you stressing about it so much? it doesn't matter how good or bad someone kisses, a relationship isn't all about kisses and hugs.  good statement. 
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Jul 25 2005, 09:03 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(chii @ Jul 25 2005, 7:01 PM) so, you gave your first kiss to some random guy? but anyway, why are you stressing about it so much? it doesn't matter how good or bad someone kisses, a relationship isn't all about kisses and hugs. That's taa--ruuu--hhh. [true] It's a sign of affection. |
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Jul 25 2005, 10:28 PM
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QUOTE(sprinkle-the-stars @ Jul 25 2005, 9:03 PM) That's taa--ruuu--hhh. [true] It's a sign of affection. well yeah i understand what everyone is saying but maybe i should put it this way...this was more of what i was asking or going for... 1. has anyone had first kisses with someone (whether it was your first, or your first with just that person) that felt airy and kinda awkward but still had a good relationship and nothing changed? 2. Because it was like that, does that mean it was a bad kiss? Thats basically what i wanted to know because...as of lately, he hasnt talked to me much and we werent/arent in an actual relationship. I just hope this didnt ruin the potential for one. You all know what i my mean by airy right (thats the only way i can think to describe it) |
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Jul 26 2005, 10:41 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Exactly what i wanted to know.
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Jul 26 2005, 12:45 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
1. if he came back for me, than it was THAT bad.
  2. don't worry about it! it was yoru first kiss, no one is perfect anyway. and if he likes you for who you are, than the kissing won't make THAT much of a difference. 
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Jul 26 2005, 01:36 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 182,065 |
QUOTE(Frankie @ Jul 26 2005, 12:45 PM) 1. if he came back for me, than it was THAT bad. 2. don't worry about it! it was yoru first kiss, no one is perfect anyway. and if he likes you for who you are, than the kissing won't make THAT much of a difference. If he came back for me? What does that mean... |
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Jul 26 2005, 01:49 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(lost [child] @ Jul 25 2005, 12:23 PM) haha first kisses are strange. because nobody really knows what theyre doing haha. maybe you should ask him if you were bad and then ask for some practice True that. If he doesn't like you because you're bad at kissing, maybe he isn't interested in YOU, only interested in your ability to 'make love'. |
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Jul 26 2005, 03:35 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
1. has anyone had first kisses with someone (whether it was your first, or your first with just that person) that felt airy and kinda awkward but still had a good relationship and nothing changed?
My first kiss was pretty "airy" i guess, I didn't realize it had happened until after it happened, cuz he really just kissed me more than anything, the relationship is fine, we're still going out! 2. Because it was like that, does that mean it was a bad kiss? No such thing as a bad kiss....any kiss is a good kiss |
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Jul 26 2005, 03:49 PM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
Jump to third base.
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Jul 26 2005, 08:03 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Do not pass GO. Do not collect $200.
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Jul 26 2005, 08:17 PM
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 I intend to live forever-so far, so good. Group: Member Posts: 2,820 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,137 |
i cant really help you out cuz ive never kissed anyone b4, but im guessing its only cuz it was your first kiss, youve never done it b4 so what you think is weird might not be weird at all
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Jul 27 2005, 06:14 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
nope i never had an airy.. kiss but everyone differs, it doesnt mean it's bad. you shouldn't be so paranoid. like others said, the guy should like you not becus of how good you kiss/hug but your personality and such. and was it just a peck kiss or like.. making out kiss? o_o
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Jul 27 2005, 06:29 PM
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My first time felt weird too, you'd be lucky if you had a pleasant first kiss. =\ i know i didn't. And I agree with sheepy. What difference does it make if you're a bad kisser. If he likes you for who you are, that wouldn't even matter!
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Jul 27 2005, 08:28 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(MDS05 @ Jul 25 2005, 11:28 PM) well yeah i understand what everyone is saying but maybe i should put it this way...this was more of what i was asking or going for... 1. has anyone had first kisses with someone (whether it was your first, or your first with just that person) that felt airy and kinda awkward but still had a good relationship and nothing changed? 2. Because it was like that, does that mean it was a bad kiss? Thats basically what i wanted to know because...as of lately, he hasnt talked to me much and we werent/arent in an actual relationship. I just hope this didnt ruin the potential for one. You all know what i my mean by airy right (thats the only way i can think to describe it) 1.) i believe my first kiss with my current boyfriend was like that, soft, airy, and my heart was racing...  2.) if you liked it, then it must have been a good, especially if he kissed you several times after that. |
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Jul 28 2005, 12:08 AM
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QUOTE(sheepy @ Jul 27 2005, 6:14 PM) nope i never had an airy.. kiss but everyone differs, it doesnt mean it's bad. you shouldn't be so paranoid. like others said, the guy should like you not becus of how good you kiss/hug but your personality and such. and was it just a peck kiss or like.. making out kiss? o_o we were making out... |
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