Is appearance everything?, It seems like it for many people Options

[maia_dc]

Looks matter 49%. (to me, at least)

[triggerX]

well~~~ i think looks does matter. why else are all the good looking people taken? for example~ most of the couple these days are always like" o i love you so much blah blah, look's dont matter even though your alrighty so HOT, its the inside i love" and still like that after they have been dating for like ..1 month

[Pineapplepower]

It's not everything. I mean a nice face and stuff is all he really needs. What is important is his personality and how he treats me.

[Paradox of Life]

Appearance is almost everything to a lot of people, deny it or not. If someone was ugly, had acne, was extremely fat, but had a good personality, would you go out with him? If you said yes, you are lying.

[Hell-Rell]

Looks matter sometimes But I'm not all the way with looks

[*mzkandi*]

Not to sound shallow or anything, but then again maybe I am, but looks matter to me. If I am not attracted to you then what is the point?

[*stephinika*]

they do matter, because sadly, it is one of the first things you see when it comes to a person. the thing is though, you also have to look past the appearance but some people don't.
i do believe looks matter, but personality and whatnot is much more important.

[yukichan]

well ppl are lying when they say that LOOKS DONT MATTER, cuz everyone's shallow. but i wouldnt mind dating an ugly guy if hes rilli sw3et and nice  and i wouldnt never date a pretti boy whos an @$$

i agree..looks do matter to me to a certain extent, but personality matters more than anything..

[SMiLEEFORMEE]

i wouldnt get freaked about what your aiming at. but of course looks matter (like everyone said) to a certain extent

[pinayprincess]

well it kind of depends... i wouldnt want to go out with a guy who was ugly [to me] .. i would wanna go out with somebody who is good looking... and size pretty much matters, but at the time its doesnt b/c its not like im going to us it [any time soon hehe]

[moralsdecayaway]

honestly its all about looks.. but in a different way..

"He doesnt love her because shes beautiful, shes beautiful because he loves her."

think on it

[sweetabandon]

Looks will always have a factor in determining a lover. When you think about it, it all comes down to Darwinism. He believes that the reason why people try to choose the most handsome or beautiful lover is because people who look good are supposed to have stronger genes. Naturally, these people would then produce more effecient offspring.

They even conducted a study to see if babies who look cuter get better treatment, and the truth is.. that they do. When a parent doesn't think their child is up to par with the others they tend to not show as much affection to their child. Sad but true.

[sheddingtears]

to some people it doesnt matter as much... but for me, to get with someone, i want to be attracted to them and then hope that their personality is just as good.

[xtreme_<3]

nope. although, physical attraction is the first thing that connects people, or so i think. for me, the guy i like isn't all that great looking but i like him anyway because hes sweet. hes my ideal dream guy

[AnnahhbeL]

looks matter sometimes. if the person is sweet and ugly at the same time, it doesnt really matter. but is theyre cute and acts like an ass, then forget about them

[maia_dc]

Yea well girls here are saying that they'd never date a hot jerk, but the thing is, most girls are so easily fooled. Most of the time, the hotness is overwhelming, and it excuses the bad qualities. So girls fool themselves, saying "Oh he's hot and he's a bit rude, but he is sooo nice to me; I know he has a good heart," or "You just need to get to know him!" and shit like that. But the thing is, if he was ugly you would have dismissed him after the first or second meeting.

All I can say is, at least I don't act that pure, because I know that no one really is.

[pyrochick19770]

Sadly, they matter.
A guy doesn't have to be ABSOLUTELY and OVERWHELMiNGLY STUNNiNG, but c'mon, you're not even going to give the time of day to some snaggle toothed ugly guy.

[mouse_3k]

No. I think good looks is just a bonus

[TWEEiES]

If I see a cute guy a at school or something I would say 'oh he's cute' and I would want to get close with him and talk to him. But Its not like 'oh he's cute so I like him', I just want to be friends and get to know him. To me looks does matter a bit, I mean he has to look okay and above.. I don't want some one really ugly >.<

[*salcha*]

Sadly, appearance seems to be the only thing to shallow people at my high school.

[3ssx]

its only part of it.
its not EVERYTHING.

[dragyn]

I'm not gonna lie. Looks are what catch my eye, just like anyone else.

Although, I feel like I am unlike everyone else in that I base my first impression of someone more on their clothing style and general fitness more than things that they can't control, like their nose, chin, how tall they are, that kind of thing. I look to see if people take good care of themselves. If they're super-obese, or you can really tell that they don't brush their teeth, I'm not gonna want to be associated with them. Well, romantically at least.

BUT! Once I get to know someone, appearance begins mattering less and less. Appearance doesn't count for shit if you're a jerk.

[reanimateddroid]

if looks mattered in the end would it not be up to you?

[Angel_Cece]

when i talk to a guy online..and he seems pretty cool and all..then when i see his pic i go " "

i agree... if i'm not satisfied by what see i just click that block button lol. TO ME, imo looks are 60% of the total package
60% looks
20% personality
10% smarts
10% caring.
haha

[funky_munky]

When you first meet someone, you WILL care about how they look but as you get to know them, I don't think it becomes an issue anymore
At least thats what I think.