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 Sep 6 2004, 09:20 AM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE  Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977  |
I was on my boyfirends desktop and I accidentally found a bunch of pictures of his ex-girlfriend...... or should I be worried.. I duno what to thing, cuz I don't wanna seem obsessive and not trusting... well not like he trusts me very well either.. I am just really confused right now. and he also told me that he would stop watching porn on this computer becuase it really messes it up and I hate it. but did he.... nope... no the computer is all fricken messed up.... what should I do??
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Sep 6 2004, 09:53 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Reformat it.
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Sep 6 2004, 10:17 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
yeah what he said and um.. its probaly nothing.. i keep pics of girls i know on my computer and stuff and it doesn't mean anything.. and the porn thing.... it happens.
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Sep 6 2004, 10:23 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
prlly nuttin, i keep pics of my former crushes...
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Sep 6 2004, 10:27 AM
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cb=bullshit. Group: Member Posts: 1,783 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,793 |
Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?!
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Sep 6 2004, 11:52 AM
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 ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
just talk to him about it. ask why he has pics of her.
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Sep 6 2004, 11:59 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
*shrug* i have 5 pics of my ex-ex-boyfriend in my wallet. it doesn't mean anything, it just means i was too lazy to take them out.
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Sep 6 2004, 12:05 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Sep 6 2004, 11:27 AM) Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?! i agree. delete them, and if he asks then tell him. |
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Sep 6 2004, 12:48 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
well as long as they arent disgusting pictures of his xgf they might just be chillin there cuz hes a lazy mofo! that I wouldnt worry about...as far as porn...thats a problem. try to make deals with him...DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM TO GET HIM TO STOP but maybe offer him something if he stops.
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Sep 6 2004, 01:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Sep 6 2004, 10:27 AM) Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?! yeah i agree, if he yells at you or anything thatd mean he cares about the pictures more than you? 
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Sep 6 2004, 02:04 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 6 2004, 9:53 AM) Reformat it. haha yeah i agree, hope he didnt save it some where else |
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Sep 6 2004, 03:07 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
i'd probably be a bit suspicious....
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Sep 6 2004, 04:27 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?! Yeah. I agree. You should delete 'em, and see if he mentions it.. if he does, then you have all rights to be pissed off. |
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Sep 6 2004, 05:19 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Sep 6 2004, 10:27 AM) Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?! Disagree. I don't really understand what is there to be upset about, I have pictures of my ex-friends and boyfriends. Boohoo. Shot me. |
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Sep 6 2004, 07:14 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
no its nothing, i keep my exs pictures on my comp and in my drawers or w/e u spell it.... its not like i look at them when im bored, its just a peice of my past... my memories in another word haha... Man u got him to quit porn? haha good sh!t... ide be like "i'll stop watching if u put out" hahaha....... anyways reformat the computer or do a system restore
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Sep 6 2004, 10:41 PM
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how long have you two been together though..? and how long were they togehter?
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Sep 6 2004, 10:52 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 6 2004, 9:53 AM) Reformat it. Lmbo... i agree! 
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Sep 6 2004, 10:55 PM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
have you tried to talk to him about? or have u jus been too lenient..? dont let him be like taking advantage of the fact that you dont say nething. say something. or u can slowly delete the pics.. like not all at once but a few at a time especially since you said that he has a lot rite? or if i was you i would take the other memeber's advice and jus like format and say that it's messed up gotta format it.
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Sep 7 2004, 01:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
i dont think the pics mean anything. delete the pics, if he gets pissed off u for doing that, then yeh
the porn thing... eh i dunno no comment |
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Jul 18 2005, 01:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
well just go on it and when he comes by goes "heeey isnt this your ex gf?" haha keep it casual
and ALL guys pretty much look at porn. only like 5% of guys admit it though  nothing to be worried about, but if it does bug you a little bit u can talk to him about it. im sure he'll understand |
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Jul 18 2005, 02:30 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
QUOTE(linke3 @ Sep 6 2004, 1:05 PM) i agree. delete them, and if he asks then tell him.  why would you delete it? sometimes people have a reason for keeping pictures. as for the porn thing...ehh what can i say? it's a hard habit to break...haha no pun intended |
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Jul 18 2005, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 6 2004, 10:53 AM) Reformat it. The computer, or the boy? |
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Jul 18 2005, 03:48 PM
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 emaleth Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,513 |
ahah.
really it's not a big deal...just tell him to delete it not b/c you don't trust him but you would rather not see that crap on his computer when you're on it... and porn..yes all guys watch porn...of course they will say no when you ask but it's normal. sort of how girls like to gossip about other girls. |
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Jul 18 2005, 07:00 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(omg_melface @ Sep 6 2004, 7:27 AM) Go back there and delete them all... and see if he says anything to you about it.. if he does... then... obviously he was LOOKING for the pics... and WHY would he do that? To remember all the times he had together with his ex?! I disagree. Those could be the only place where the pictures are stored, you dont' want to delete the pics forever. Pictrues can be kept forever, they hold peices of memory and history and shouldn't be thrown away for no reason. I kinda agree that mightwork tho, just please save teh pictrues to a disk before you delete them off his computer. Otherwise he could get mad, and for a good reason. It's like deleting pictrues of your old freinds off your comp and they're the only ones you have. I'd be furious. |
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Jul 18 2005, 07:24 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE QUOTE(th5418 @ Sep 6 2004, 10:53 AM) Reformat it. The computer, or the boy? Both. :D |
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