Love, Getting over ur first love |
 Jul 13 2005, 03:45 PM
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I have just been in a odd relationship and sort of still trying to fight for it,
Well ive been talking to this women online now for nearly a year, and i love her soo much, bet never met her yet, i waz going to this summer. But she said she can't take the distance thing and more, so she started gettin feelings for someone closer, and itz killin me. You think i should fight for her ? or just let her go ? But the other side iz. i am a 19 year only guy, who has never been able to find a women to like me till her, ive never had a GF till her, and loosing her iz killin me soo much. and i waz planning to move to the states with her. to be with her. But then there are other parts that i find it hard to get a women to like me but i on't go into it. I just would like to know pplz views on this. Thx. |
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Jul 13 2005, 03:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
..no offense..but online relationships are usually rather...unrealistic. people are different online compared to what they're like in real life. and thats the truth.
there are plenty of women out there. and one is goig to be right for you. im sry but i'd say that you should move on. i bet its hard to hear...i know how hard it is to get over someone...but sometimes..you just need to face reality. |
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Jul 13 2005, 05:37 PM
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 Mr.Charismatic Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,383 |
yeah online you can be anyone and anybody and actually make up your personality --- some poeple might be shy offline but online they're the life of a party :) so you really needa find someone closer to you so you can actually know them for what they are --- hang out at some parties and get to know your friend's friends
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Jul 13 2005, 07:11 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I think you should let it go, it seems like it has died out. Try to find someone who lives closer, alot CLOSER. I'm sure you will be more satisfied with yourself knowing that you can actually speak to your girlfriend face to face and you can see her whenever you'd like. Doit.
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Jul 13 2005, 07:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Ahaha, you online dated her? Wow. Go get a life & find a girlfriend in which you can actually see. She can be doing anything behind your back & be saying other bullshit. I think you should juhs let her go & find somebody else. Long distance relationship doesn't always work out. Good luck.
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Jul 13 2005, 07:19 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(ishowernaked @ Jul 13 2005, 6:37 PM) yeah online you can be anyone and anybody  exactly... you don't see her face to face when you're talking, she could be saying something that looks really nice in writing but she can be laughing her ass off at you with her friends in person...i hate to say this but your whole relationship can be a lie. you don't know who she truly is, she's just words on a screen... does she say she'll see you but then something comes up? that's happened to me before, i talked to this guy, he seemed so unbelievable nice, and it was too good to be true, he turned out to be just a real d*ck to me, he'd say "sure we'll meet on so and so" it was 3-4 months until i saw him again and we live like less than 30 minutes away from each other by subway. i'm not going to say that having a relationship with someone online never works because i know by experience that it does, i'm dating someone i met online but we see each other face to face everyday now...just don't keep your hopes up, try to phase her out...maybe it wasn't a lie but there's a good chance that it was... you're 19, you still have plenty of time to find a nice girl you can see face to face...don't say that you can't find a woman, everyone can find someone who'll love them back, no matter how messed up you are or how ugly or disfigured or whatever. |
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Jul 13 2005, 07:36 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
^^^ i agree. just because you think she's all that doesnt mean she really is. sorry.
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Jul 13 2005, 11:09 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 173,063 |
thx for all the info. But just for info. we are just friendz now, it finnished.
But from wot you said. i still beleve that online relationships still work, if you see each other and work at it hard. but that iz me. as it seems. you waz right she waz doin thing behind my bk. as i said. she found someone new. :( . and i got to know her well enough to hopefully know she waz tellin the truth, cos she waz very open with me. But nvm it finnished and we are friendz, end of that i guess. |
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Jul 13 2005, 11:24 PM
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 i know right? Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,129 |
You should move on. Trust me. This happned to two of my frends before.
Couple one: My frend Antoine was going out w/ a complete fake. As in..He was dating a girl for 4 months thinking she was a hottie. It turns out..the picture wasn't her. It was her frend. Couple two: My frend Cherelle is MADLY in love w/ this guy. I just found out yesterday that he's not real. And that she's been talking to a girl on the fone all this time. So yea. I suggest you find somebody closer to you. That you actually seen etc. |
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Jul 13 2005, 11:30 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Online Relationships have like a .9% change of suceeding. Dude, forget about her, move on and get a life.
That was extremely blunt and straight-forward, but seriously, if she didn't want to meet you, that was your first sign of it's going downn hill.. |
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