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post Jul 11 2005, 10:41 AM
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My Boyfriend wants to have sex with me and well we tried but he wouldnt go in? am i too tight or something?
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 10:42 AM
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Hahaha, that can't be it.... dang... maybe hes just not functioning down there. xD
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:01 AM
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Consult your doctor about this.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:15 AM
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that might be why.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:34 AM
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You need to relax or it wont work...
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:51 AM
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is it he couldnt or he wouldnt as in he didnt want to?
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 02:02 PM
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Maybe its just the fact he dont want to do it.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 02:05 PM
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this is why we need a sex forum. um... i have no idea how to help you there XD
mabye he was nervous?
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 03:12 PM
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QUOTE(blowpops69 @ Jul 11 2005, 12:51 PM)
is it he couldnt or he wouldnt as in he didnt want to?
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I'm sure she means he couldn't.



You're like.. 14 years old ? You are obviously not physically/mentally prepared so your body tenses up. If you were ready for sex and understood what the fcuk you were doing then you would be completely comfortable and you wouldn't be having that problem. If you don't know what to do then you obviously shouldn't be "trying" to have sex. The end.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 03:14 PM
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post Jul 11 2005, 04:23 PM
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I don't think you should have sex this early, but I doubt you'll listen. Foreplay is suppose to "loosen" people up so maybe try that? Don't just jump into it...or onto it (haha...I find myself amusing...I'm an idiot x.x) but make a more romantic beginning. That might work, if not, well...good luck.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:12 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 11 2005, 5:23 PM)
I don't think you should have sex this early, but I doubt you'll listen. Foreplay is suppose to "loosen" people up so maybe try that? Don't just jump into it...or onto it (haha...I find myself amusing...I'm an idiot x.x) but make a more romantic beginning. That might work, if not, well...good luck.
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i find you amusin too! anyways um if he can't go in why not just try giving head? haha or uh go ask your parents cause obviously no one knows anything bout sex in here
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:15 PM
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what say_what_you_mean said your just too tense cos your not ready. but if you think you are just try to loosen up and do some "foreplay" so you can literally loosen up down there and he can slip in. topic on sex and safety read that. it should help you keep yourself safe and such.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 06:23 PM
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dammmmnnn ur BF is a bitch....if u aint ready...and he till want to f**k...till him to f**k his mom ....or dumd him....he probolly dont love you...but just wanna f**k and leave hahha
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 07:04 PM
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QUOTE(say_what_you_mean @ Jul 11 2005, 4:12 PM)
I'm sure she means he couldn't.
You're like.. 14 years old ? You are obviously not physically/mentally prepared so your body tenses up. If you were ready for sex and understood what the fcuk you were doing then you would be completely comfortable and you wouldn't be having that problem. If you don't know what to do then you obviously shouldn't be "trying" to have sex. The end.
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YES!!! as i've always said, it's a mental thing if it hurts because sex is never supposed to hurt...unless it's too rough.


QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 11 2005, 5:23 PM)
I don't think you should have sex this early, but I doubt you'll listen. Foreplay is suppose to "loosen" people up so maybe try that? Don't just jump into it...or onto it (haha...I find myself amusing...I'm an idiot x.x) but make a more romantic beginning. That might work, if not, well...good luck.
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actually, i believe that foreplay is just supposed to make a girl lubricate herself naturally...

maybe you are too loose, my boyfriend seems to have a hard time putting it in initially...and when he accidentally pulls out too far while he's...you know.


QUOTE(HieuloveJazz @ Jul 11 2005, 7:23 PM)
dammmmnnn ur BF is a bitch....if u aint ready...and he till want to f**k...till him to f**k his mom ....or dumd him....he probolly dont love you...but just wanna f**k and leave hahha
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you can't just jump into conclusions, she never said she didn't want to and they both tried, it takes two to tango, if she wants to have sex it's her choice.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 07:08 PM
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sounds like hes erectial disfunctional... cuz usually.. that stuff can happen pretty straight forward... NO grl is too tightt
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 07:17 PM
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QUOTE(dfly112 @ Jul 11 2005, 8:08 PM)
sounds like hes erectial disfunctional... cuz usually.. that stuff can happen pretty straight forward... NO grl is too tightt
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do you know what that means? i highly doubt that a 15 year old boy would have a problem getting it up.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 07:44 PM
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QUOTE(chii @ Jul 11 2005, 8:17 PM)
do you know what that means? i highly doubt that a 15 year old boy would have a problem getting it up.

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haha i'm seriously laughing so hard right now
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:39 PM
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Doctor MATT to the Rescue (thats me hehe)

I think you have a common condition called vaginismus, which is a involuntary spasm of the muscles surrounding the vaginal opening which occurs whenever an attempt is made to penetrate the vagina. for some girls (older women too?) any attempt to insert anything into the vagina is unsuccessful.

this is not a physical deformity or disorder it is just an emotional condition that occurs because of physchological reasons but manifests itself in a physical response... some women believe that intercourse will be very painful or think that their vagina is too small to let the penis in so they are scared that their vagina may get ripped or stretched too far THIS MENTAL thing happens if you've been raped or some kind of trauma happened to your vagina/genital region ----


theres treatment for vaginismus its a combination of relaxation training and various behavioral excercises :)


or your just scared to have sex :) go see a doctor


thank you... this has been a production of doctor Matt. Thank you.


[information was researched using yahoo.com ...search term was "My husband can't stick his penis in my vagina" LOL hey it worked]
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:48 PM
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Heh. Sure "Dr. Matt". I thought it was established that what happened to her was because she was uncomfortable with herself/him which causes her body to tense up and she isn't prepared.. due the fact that she is 14 mellow.gif She also must not care enough either if she didn't come back to reply to her own topic.

It could be the vaginismus.. whistling.gif

basically yeah topic closed , now ?
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:50 PM
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lol thats what i said in my long paragraph that i copied and pasted from a website it basically means she just might not be mentally ready :)

o i wanna do it lol even if im not a mod or whatever

topic closed
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 11:55 PM
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OOoo she dont know what to do ? aww f**kin virgin.....stick ur P**sy into his d**k and ride......it on the discover chanel....dogger stype ,froger stype, cow girl......bitchhhh is soo easy.....haha u wanna me to show u ...jp srry 4 the BAdword cry.gif i feel like a bad presonn sighhh haha
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 12:18 AM
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Stop! Don't do it again. Once you cross that line, you can never go back. If you can't figure out why you couldn't do it, you should wait until you know how to do it. You are obviously way too uneducated to be messing around.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 01:08 AM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 11 2005, 1:23 PM)
I don't think you should have sex this early, but I doubt you'll listen. Foreplay is suppose to "loosen" people up so maybe try that? Don't just jump into it...or onto it (haha...I find myself amusing...I'm an idiot x.x) but make a more romantic beginning. That might work, if not, well...good luck.
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lmao, I find you amusing.

EDIT

eareased what I said, it was bassically the same as above anyway ---^

base line: don't have sex till your ready, maybe aournd 18 and onward. you my freind, are not ready to have sex.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 04:18 AM
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sooooooo you think they did it? lol
 

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