i feel so ugly... =(, i look into a mirror and i see uglyness |
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 Jul 24 2005, 06:52 PM
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 La La La ;D  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,080  |
You need to go to a gym or go on a diet. Use make-up and need to stop thinking that you're ugly cause no one is ugly in this world, we're jus all different in our own ways. So, from now do these things and instead of thinking so negatively of yourself when you look into a mirror, think 'Wow, today is gonna be a great day, and today I look the prettiest I cud ever be." You need to boost up your self.
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Jul 24 2005, 08:30 PM
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It's okay I have big thighs too. I'm sure ur pretty alot of people go through this during puberty and stuff like omg!!! I'm so fat!!!! My big toe is not big!!!!! What ever will I do? Ya know wat I mean. Don't worry it's probably just a phase. Next time you look in the mirror look harder and you will see how pretty you are
 And whatever you do DON NOT dtop eating- trust me my older sister sis that it was terrible you will never forget that you had an eating disorder, and you make look skinnier after but it's NOT worth it!!!!!!!- steffie
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Jul 24 2005, 08:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
It's okay I have big thighs too. I'm sure ur pretty alot of people go through this during puberty and stuff like omg!!! I'm so fat!!!! My big toe is not big!!!!! What ever will I do? Ya know wat I mean. Don't worry it's probably just a phase. Next time you look in the mirror look harder and you will see how pretty you are And whatever you do DO NOT stop eating- trust me my older sister had an eating disorder and it was terrible you will never forget that you had an eating disorder, and you make look skinnier after but it's NOT worth it!!!!!!!- steffie P.S. Sorry I had a couple spelling errors on the first one.
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Jul 24 2005, 11:46 PM
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QUOTE 2: its based on my mom. shes butt-ugly.  Wow.. and you do realize that in a way.. you INHERIT your mom's looks right? Way to go on lowering your own self image even more.  -------------- Bags.. i have bags too from not enough sleep. They don't really make a difference to me because most people have them. If you really care about it that much, make up. Thighs? Why don't you go running or tone them instead of sitting down in front of the computer and complaining about them? Sitting down all the time eating is just going to make them even worse.. A lot of people have low confidence.. but personality makes up SOOOOO much of it. I know this one guy who is NOT that cute IMO but his personality makes up for soo much. You should just look past those things like everyone else said, and realize that it's not as bad as you think. My ex called me tons of names that made me feel self conscious (Thank goodness that's over) but I was totallllllllly over it because his opinions weren't worth it anyways. |
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Jul 25 2005, 12:00 AM
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 hojax to the max Group: Member Posts: 330 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,858 |
oh come on....even the most beautiful girls in the world have days when they think the same thing. i just think it's pretty much a universal problem at one point or another...until you learn to love yourself. i mean really...when you think about it...can you do anything about it to fix your problems in a healthy way? then do it. if you cant...then just learn to accept yourself and focus on what you're good at
if you cant see the beauty in yourself then it's that much harder for others to see it |
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Jul 25 2005, 02:07 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
well if you have problems with your weight then exercise. go on a small diet. and i have bags under my eyes all the time too but i dont make a big deal abuot it.. i think you should just get over it. theres nothing you can do, just accept yourself the way u are
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Jul 25 2005, 03:38 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,163 |
exercise -n- makeup.
it worked for me 
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Jul 26 2005, 03:58 PM
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 something more Group: Member Posts: 2,468 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,808 |
I feel the same way as you do. i dont even wear makeup, so yeah. No one is ugly and everyone is beautiful in their own way.
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Jul 26 2005, 04:24 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
Lols, I have the same problem, but I learned that although I have flaws, there are also "perfections" to even it all out. Btw, its only a phase, you'll grow outta it.
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Jul 31 2005, 04:47 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
yeah, I know what you mean... everyone has a set image of perfection in their mind and untill they reach it, most people aren't happy about their appearance. What you have to realize is that that image isn't real. Everyone is pretty in their own way.
I hate the way I look too, 'cause I have big thighs/hips and it drives me crazy, but look for the good parts about your appearance. |
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