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 Apr 24 2004, 01:33 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch.  Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643  |
Someone says, I LOVE whomever FOREVER AND EVER!!
And like next month, they break up. I find that amusing and quite stupid. |
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Apr 24 2004, 02:12 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 383 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,539 |
I agree!
We, as high school students have no understanding of the meaning of 'love'. There's no way. And even if you truly do love your gf/bf, how would you know? You're only in high school, and you probably havn't gone through enough relationships to know what defines love and what defines attraction. Once you've abused 'i love you' to the point where you say it to every single one of your boyfriends, esp. on the first few days of your relationship, you've made 'i love you' devoid of any substance. People who tend to randomly throw the phrase 'i love you' just to conform to the protocols of high school couple gibberish are, in my personal opinion, idiots. |
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Apr 24 2004, 03:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I used to be like that. I threw the words 'I love you' everywhere. And then I met him. He told me he loved me. And I just said it back. Coz you know, when someone says they love you, it just seems like what you should do.
He really did love me and everytime he said he loved me, I'd just say it back, even though I wasn't sure exactly what I felt for him. And when I finally realised I did love him, I felt kinda bad coz I'm been lying to him all that while. But I guess it was kinda a good thing I did that or I'd have just told him in the beginning I didn't love him and then I'd have lost out on something really great. When I was still with the same guy, one day his friend (who's also my friend) told me he loved me. And this time I knew, I wasn't gonna lie again. But still it's really awkward you know? He says 'I love you' and you're like silent. |
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Apr 24 2004, 04:02 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
people are too quick to assume the good feelings they get when they first start going out with somebody is love .. the word is thrown around way too much .. sometimes you have to sit and think carefully to gather the reasons why you truly LOVE somebody .. if you say it to your friends you can say *luv* and it has a different more affection and friendly meaning .. love is serious and shouldn't be taken lightly .. love is just a word until its worth is proven to you ..
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Apr 24 2004, 05:30 AM
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 jesus freak Group: Member Posts: 378 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,748 |
Lol.. yah thats amusing. I think people (more specifically girls) should avoid saying the word forever. Coz that just makes matters worse. It's like.. when you guys break it up you'll be asking yourself "was that already forever?" which is kind of an irony dontcha think? So for all of us youngsters (
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Apr 24 2004, 01:17 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
But I do really love my bf...
 I do say "I love you" to him alot.. beucas ei really do...I do agree that one needs to go through enough experiences to be able to realize what love is... but I can't explain it but, I have this strange feeling that makes me want him and miss my bf alot.. ah well... maybe what I have may seem like puppy love.. but it's alot more than that.. |
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Apr 24 2004, 01:20 PM
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Nice n' Slow Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,451 |
lol..yep...it is stupid...but u no..sumtimz pplz cant tell the diference between love n infatuation..mayb there confuzld
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 24 2004, 01:29 PM
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Yes, it's sad that people don't know what love actually is, and abuse the word as if it has no meaning at all.
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Apr 24 2004, 01:30 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
some people are smart, so when they go out with someone they said "i luv ya" or "love ya", somehow it doesn't mean as much as writing it all out in the correct spelling "I love you", that is the real deal, the other is just the substitute. am i making any sense?
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| *instantmusic* |
Apr 24 2004, 01:44 PM
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love. that word scares me. it was my greatest discovery, and then became something i wish i didnt know about. i told one of my ex's that i loved her. and she got scared. after that, it wasnt the same. a few months later and we broke up. i felt dead, or like i wanted to die. im so scared of saying that word now.
this "love". i have to defeat it. till then, i wont ever say it again. somones gonna say - you cant defeat love. well you know what buddy, it was a bad analogy. 
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Apr 24 2004, 01:47 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
i know!!
like my exboyfriend told me he loved me right away, and wrote this love poem and all, and after i broke up with him he told all his firends he never really liked me!!! hahha |
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Apr 24 2004, 01:49 PM
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 I <3 profanity Group: Member Posts: 2,910 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,774 |
Half the eighth grade at my school claims they are in "love"
That makes me want to throw up. They are 14 and 15 years old. 
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Apr 24 2004, 01:57 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
i think people r quick to assume when ur in a relationship..u hav to say i love you....sayin it too soon can seriously ruin your relationship
--EDIT That was my 800th post! whoo hoo |
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Apr 24 2004, 01:57 PM
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durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
maybe.. maybe it's wrong for me to think I'm in love already...
Yea in middle school, peopel claim they're in love and break up after like a week... |
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Apr 24 2004, 02:01 PM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
i know...it makes me mad. Becuase in most cases it's just to show off that they are in "love" to make everyone without a bf feel bad. Middle School is cruel....just can't wait till highschool *sarcastically*
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Apr 24 2004, 02:06 PM
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 . Group: Member Posts: 1,488 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,625 |
At my high school people do that all the time...
It doesnt even matter who the couple is. I've seen couples that have been together for a week, for 2 months, for a year, for 2 years, and they all say it. The thing is - I think a lot of those relationships will last and even up through college and the rest of life, the relationship they're in now will be something they won't forget. |
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| *Kathleen* |
Apr 24 2004, 02:24 PM
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I think you can be in love when you're fourteen/fifteen, but the majority of people that age aren't mature enough, and cannot come close to comprehending the concept of love.
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Apr 24 2004, 06:06 PM
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 Mileage Runner Group: Member Posts: 1,316 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,458 |
I noticed that alot as well. I, at first, am gullible and believe that they're really in love and that I'm wrong with my assumptions, but each....and every time after I turn believe a couple is really in love, they break up. Bah, I got to stick with what I think.
 But yes it is possible to be in love in your teen years...its just a matter of a whole lot of factors to prove it I guess...er something, I dunno... 
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Apr 24 2004, 07:04 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
Hhaha... well my recent bf (broke up tho.
i get angry easily because of him... this is one of the reasons why) I guess i liked him alot ever since i met him... cause i ono. he was so kind and stuff... well anyways. I told him that i loved him... and i meant it soooooo much. surprisingly, he told me the same... and i was so happy. 6 months later, he tells me that he finally realized that he loved me. I was like. what kinda sh!t is this!!  he lied to me the whole time. and when we were discussing it, he said that "he just didnt know what he felt" and i was so angry because he had been lieing to me all this time. He was lying when he said that he loved me, when he said that he truly thought we were suppose to be together, blhablhahblhlhahblha...and then i guess i got annoyed and could never fully trust him again, even if i was suppose to forgive and forget... i couldnt... whenever he siad i love you, it reminded me so much of that time when he lied, and i just couldnt take it anymore. as he tried to be closer to me, i tried to forget about it. then he began to tell me that he thought i didnt love him... etc... that i didnt care... i mean... WHAT THE F*CK IT THAT i was trying so hard and just cause he didnt know, he kept telling me that i ws doing it wrong or whatevers. all i can say is... @#$%^ kiddies, never ever make the mistake that my exbf made. |
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Apr 24 2004, 08:32 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
that reminds me of someone hahahahaha... my last ex-bf... o mai...haha we were soo in luv... and he told me that he luvs meee soooooooooo much...but he dumped me T_T;; o mai...haha u kno wat he says?! he says that im an immature... huk... and he told me that he break up wit me cus of his college work and now hes says cus im an immature? HAHAHAHAHAHAHA w/e... my bf likes wen i act like an immature girl... i mean it's fun... i mean actin' old it's not a fun thing hahaha... hmm haha.. lols... ^____^;; i dont like wen someone says "i love you" and then we jus break up in like in next week.. PSH!! WHATEVA WAS THAT FO`?!?!?! haha... HAR HAR HAR lols... psh cus ima immature?? HAHAHAHAHA okie im calmin` down hahahaha i bet he said that cus hes jealous im qoin' out with justin...lols...tsk tsk tsk... cus wen i was mention' my bebe boo... my ex-bf got all mad and start talkin` crap at me... psh.... ok... haha... |
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Apr 24 2004, 09:05 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
LOL wen they say that it pisses me off so much
i think ppl should know what IS love then say i love you and the forever part is funny lol they didnt even live half their life yet lol
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Apr 25 2004, 01:02 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
Yeah, that is so true. Somestimes, after they break up. For some reason they get hooked up again an do the "i'll love you forever!" thing again....
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Apr 25 2004, 12:25 PM
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 no HYPE, no GLOSS, no PRETENSE.. JUST ME Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,964 |
aww.. i think some people say i love you even tho they dont mean it.. i wud never do that.. thatz stupid:(
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