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Gah! Perverts!!, i need help. =[
iheartjohn
post Apr 4 2005, 02:54 PM
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Okay, I'm sure most of you know that I have a four year old daughter, Geena.

Well, she has a best friend named Lindsay, and I don't mind her, but it's Lindsay's parents. Every time I set up a playdate for my daughter and Lindsay, I have to see her dad (Lindsay's mom works most of the day).

He's okay sometimes, but lately he's gotten really perverted and I feel REALLY uncomfortable around him. He makes uncomfortable remarks about my body, tries to touch me, etc.

One time I bent down to get Geena's toy and he tugged at my underwear and complimented me on it! ohmy.gif

I've tried to talk to him many times about it, but he just ignores me. And I don't want to tell Lindsay's mom because she already dislikes me. (I overheard her call me a 'skank' because I had Geena at such a young age.)

But I don't want to make Geena stop hanging out with Lindsay, since she has such a great time with her, just because of me.

I'm not really sure what to do. _unsure.gif
 

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i heart john   Gah! Perverts!!   Apr 4 2005, 02:54 PM
xxtaintedlips   wow thats a tuff one... well let your daughter han...   Apr 4 2005, 03:08 PM
ermfermoo   But you have to think, if you don't do anythin...   Apr 4 2005, 03:14 PM
Nerve_Agents!   Thats terible! You should realy try talking 2 ...   Apr 4 2005, 03:19 PM
i heart john   QUOTE(Nerve_Agents! @ Apr 4 2005, 3:19 PM...   Apr 4 2005, 04:00 PM
Nicolatofu   Wow, that's a tough situation. I can't bel...   Apr 4 2005, 03:24 PM
xxtaintedlips   oh also...umm..u might not want your girl to go th...   Apr 4 2005, 03:27 PM
xMayleex   That man should know better as he is a married or ...   Apr 4 2005, 03:27 PM
BrokenDream   QUOTE(xMayleex @ Apr 4 2005, 3:27 PM)That man...   Jun 5 2005, 10:29 PM
i_am_a_chameleon   oh gosh. i really wish i could help but i've n...   Apr 4 2005, 03:40 PM
Funky Buddha   All I can say is be on the look out, try not to be...   Apr 4 2005, 04:06 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   1. be very nice and kind to her mom. 2. change her...   Apr 4 2005, 04:12 PM
Funky Buddha   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Apr 4 2005, 4:12 PM)...   Apr 4 2005, 04:13 PM
i heart john   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Apr 4 2005, 4:12 PM)...   Apr 4 2005, 05:44 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Apr 4 2005, 2:44 P...   Apr 4 2005, 08:28 PM
wind&fire   QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Apr 5 2005, 7:12 AM)...   Apr 4 2005, 09:34 PM
xXMomoBubbleTeaXx   WHOA!!!...I can't belive he does t...   Apr 4 2005, 04:24 PM
ChEeR A HOliC Xo   Your daughter`s only 4 year`s old. If he k...   Apr 4 2005, 05:53 PM
wounded   seriously, I don't know much. But what I know ...   Apr 4 2005, 06:00 PM
IamRad   gosh.. that sucks if i was in ur position i dont ...   Apr 4 2005, 06:05 PM
..:loveee.NuTTii   Option #1:Isn't that sexual harrasment? Doesn...   Apr 4 2005, 06:13 PM
cocoalightning27   Get the two little girls to retaliate....or you co...   Apr 4 2005, 06:14 PM
O x LiseE x O   Well, who cares what she thinks, tell the wife. I ...   Apr 4 2005, 06:19 PM
angel_revelation   hmm... maybe you could talk to the girl's mom....   Apr 4 2005, 06:21 PM
lilphoenix   are you willing to afford what impact this might h...   Apr 4 2005, 06:35 PM
strwbrrykiwi23   learn karate...   Apr 4 2005, 06:41 PM
xBEBE   Do you have their playdates at their house? Becaus...   Apr 4 2005, 06:46 PM
aznxdreamer   kill him. i mean..did i just let that slip?? call...   Apr 4 2005, 08:20 PM
FoOd   QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Apr 4 2005, 6:20 PM)kill ...   Apr 5 2005, 12:43 AM
one_and_only   QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Apr 4 2005, 6:20 PM)kill ...   Jul 5 2005, 07:27 PM
ficklenesswhatever   Sue for sexual harassment, tell him no when he...   Apr 4 2005, 08:25 PM
electric shock   QUOTE(ficklenesswhatever @ Apr 4 2005, 9:25 P...   Apr 4 2005, 09:17 PM
--x who0ps   .. im not sure what to say. i wish i could help ...   Apr 4 2005, 08:39 PM
yellowgurl   maybe you should get all the needed numbers to pre...   Apr 4 2005, 09:06 PM
xXgWenZilLaXx   rape : Abusive or improper treatment lets jump h...   Apr 4 2005, 09:13 PM
_sarcastic_   talk to him about it, be firm. if he still ignore...   Apr 4 2005, 09:14 PM
Shattered_Hope   Tell him you'll press charges if he keeps it u...   Apr 4 2005, 09:28 PM
layDeeW   hmm...well reporting him would end yur daughter nd...   Apr 4 2005, 09:38 PM
dani41790   well i guess for now, u just gotta try to ignore i...   Apr 4 2005, 09:39 PM
angelshortipnai   if u REALLY don't wanna talk to his wife, call...   Apr 4 2005, 09:44 PM
salcha   ^ too drastic. i mean really, what would the polic...   Apr 5 2005, 12:06 AM
minus_perfection   just dont stand really close to him or something,o...   Apr 5 2005, 12:14 AM
YoGrandpaIsFine   Wear a thong and bend over the next time you see h...   Apr 5 2005, 12:19 AM
i heart john   QUOTE(im_s0_sp0ngey @ Apr 5 2005, 12:19 AM)We...   Apr 5 2005, 02:06 PM
sweetxsimplicity   Even though Lindsay's mom may hate you, I thin...   Apr 5 2005, 12:28 AM
gossipgirl   o....he's so terrible   Apr 5 2005, 06:33 AM
jooleeah   Tell the guy that if he harasses you again, you...   Apr 5 2005, 02:23 PM
bravodancer04   Oooh..that really is a bad situation..IDK I might ...   Apr 5 2005, 03:15 PM
liloandstitchx3   i was was thinking like bring a guy with you next ...   Apr 6 2005, 08:46 PM
xlaydee_v   you should tell the guy to back off. seriously.. i...   Jun 5 2005, 02:32 PM
ichigofan   woah thats dispicable i hate people like that, wel...   Jun 5 2005, 06:23 PM
[x]Mari[x]   Next time, bring a guy friend with you. And never ...   Jun 5 2005, 06:37 PM
thatoneasiangirlx   Let your daughter still play with Lindsay. Don...   Jun 5 2005, 06:38 PM
literemix24   ..I think you should talk about it to Lindsay...   Jun 5 2005, 07:18 PM
dragyn   Wow. That is incredibly inconvenient. Originally...   Jun 5 2005, 07:22 PM
iNyCxShoRT   Oh I think you should tell Lindsay's mother, y...   Jun 5 2005, 10:26 PM
hott_n_luvin_it   you aren't any of those things unless YOU trul...   Jun 5 2005, 10:32 PM
BrokenDream   I'd say, if he doesn't stop, call the poli...   Jun 6 2005, 12:57 PM
yycleo   Since the mother doesnt like u at the 1st place. t...   Jun 6 2005, 01:20 PM
Mileep   I think that man is a pervert. He got balls you k...   Jun 6 2005, 01:39 PM
xxaznxgurlxx   Hmm.. i think you should really talk to Lindsay...   Jun 6 2005, 04:45 PM
missknowitall1414   i agree with what nicole said. she is right. and i...   Jun 6 2005, 06:37 PM
__xxfrappachino<3   wow..ur problems make mine seem like nothing in co...   Jun 6 2005, 06:50 PM
toodlepops.   Charge him with sexual assault. If that's poss...   Jul 5 2005, 04:54 AM
takeapolaroid__x   omg i have practically the same problem but hes no...   Jul 5 2005, 06:11 AM
Shortiiex   who cares if she doesn't like you...get them b...   Jul 5 2005, 07:46 PM
3ssx   well. continue to let your daughter play with lind...   Jul 5 2005, 07:57 PM
tommyhilfiger_gurl   first, try to resolve your communication w/ her mo...   Jul 5 2005, 08:07 PM
starlette   you are not a skank, and make you fiancee stay wit...   Jul 5 2005, 08:11 PM
Paradox of Life   ^ I agree. Try not to be around him that often be...   Jul 5 2005, 08:22 PM
Kristinaa   Harassment. Sue him. Take some type of legal actio...   Jul 5 2005, 08:28 PM
islandkiss   I don't know what to say. I completely loathe ...   Jul 5 2005, 08:50 PM
mouse_3k   Punch him in the face. Kick his little perverted b...   Jul 5 2005, 10:55 PM
reflection   QUOTEyou are not a skank, and make you fiancee sta...   Jul 6 2005, 09:23 AM
Xprezsion   Wow that must be very uncomfortable. Maybe try to...   Jul 6 2005, 11:20 AM
Fallen Fairy   Say NO! And arrange the play dates by phone, ...   Jul 6 2005, 02:28 PM
enyceXaddiction   just tell lindseys mom. make her jealous shes such...   Jul 7 2005, 06:36 PM
sheddingtears   hmm maybe always bring like a buff guy friend or s...   Jul 24 2005, 08:14 AM


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