ex friend, racist messages |
 Jun 29 2005, 09:14 PM
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 Yates  Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,150  |
before school ended i got in a fight with one of my friends. i didnt want to be her friend anymore. she was just so negative i couldnt deal with it anymore. anyways, i've been getting these messages on myspace from an unknown person but it says they are from olympia. i am pretty sure these messages are from her, because she has a friend that she visits every summer thats in olympia. this is the 2nd message she's sent me. even if it wasn't from her... i dont care. i guess my questions is has this ever happened to you guys? how do you deal with any form of racism or mean friends? a lot of racism is around me... it's happened to me ever since i was little. (not these particular messages). everytime though... i just dont know whether to be mad or sad... or just dont give a heck anymore. it's completely useless. what do you think? and should i just block this user? in hopes they wont make another acount. or just ignore it? write a message back? or what?
 (by the way. i already found a topic about racism in the debate section, but it doesnt answer my questions... ) their myspace link http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fusea...=20050629190723 dfhishdgy Date: Jun 29, 2005 6:47 PM Flag spam/abuse. [ ? ] Subject: No Subject Body: hey nasty f**ker. its gross that your asian. you all smell like bad breath & soggy bread. and like moldy rice with sour milk. ew. ¢¾ yuck nigger asian. die. you nasty fricken pale thing. i wonder if youve even kissed a boy...i mean who the hell would want to touch you? much love. --------- EDIT: they just sent me another message. i TRIED TO BLOCK THEM like you said, but they can still send me messages?? that doesnt make sense! ignoring them doesnt work. it just makes me feel worse and worse. but i dont want to respond to them. and i know your advice, "dont let it get to me", but i cant help it.... here's what they sent me today. From: Joe Date: Jul 1, 2005 3:02 AM Flag spam/abuse. [ ? ] Subject: boohoo Body: you wrote: I say: youre a f**kin nasty ass thing with probably big fat thighs & a little head. pinky? is that your vaginas name? eww. thats so sick. its probably black & rotting cuz you asians dont know how to clean yourselves. god damn & you wonder why people make fun of you. its cuz youre a nasty little stinkhole. no one likes you cuz you have no tits & tiny toes & the ugliest most unoriginal face. all you damn asians look alike. i havent seen one of you thats an individual. nasty thing. you probably sit in your room crying & cutting your wrists...how sad. uh...not! just go get a life. BOOHOO! you were adopted who the f**k cares. probably some nasty hicks adopted you cuz you were the only thing the orphanage would let them have. they wanted to get rid of your nasty asian face. go suck a d**k or something. stop whining to your "friends" for attention. |
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Jun 29 2005, 11:07 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,517 |
wtf thats so mean!i say you should ignore them.maybe they'll stop.because if you make a new myspace they can find you.they can just search so yeah..i hope they stop bothering you!
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Jun 29 2005, 11:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
omfg! dat is so freakn mean!!! imma asian!! wtf was dat?!! i agreed wit explicitboo...just ignore them... agh! that gets me pissed off now!!
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Jun 30 2005, 12:15 AM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
Do not write an entry back to them, just block them and ignore them. They're insulting you because they want a response, they want to know that they've affected you in a negative way and if you act mad, then they'll get exactly what they want. I know some people say acting mad is standing up for yourself but what's the need? This is just some ex-friend-loser trying to get attention.
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Jun 30 2005, 12:28 AM
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Hydro Azn Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,718 |
damn, that is mean..Dont mind them, people like that bury themselves.
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Jun 30 2005, 03:47 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Omg i agree with Smilessss!!! Man this is pissing me off.
 They're just losers with nothing better to do. 
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Jun 30 2005, 07:10 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed.
wtf, that is so mean. they're losers, they just want attention. ignore them. |
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Jun 30 2005, 07:17 AM
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You need to put the block button to good use. They're (whomever they are) are being a**holes dont pay them any mind.
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Jun 30 2005, 09:40 AM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Omg that's horrible, how could people be that cruel. I think you should block them, and if they make another account, take action in another way, maybe curse the mout and tell them to leave you alone. Goodluck!
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Jun 30 2005, 11:34 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,970 |
Completely ignore them. Saying mean things back will just make them realize that they're pissing you off like they intend to. Blocking them doesn't stop them from creating countless new accounts. Deleting comments also shows that they're getting to you. Just pretend they don't exist, and eventually, this person will realize that they're not getting to you. They're not worth your time.
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Jun 30 2005, 01:07 PM
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 i <3 peter Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 147,825 |
What's WRONG with those people?
Try blocking them... can you do that on myspace? And, if not, like everyone else said, your best bet is to ignore them. |
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Jun 30 2005, 05:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
Contact the creator of MySpace and block the person's IP adress for abuse. you can report an abuse. =]
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Jun 30 2005, 05:05 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
I will become rich and famous after I make it possible to shock people over the internet...
Then I might be wanted for abuse and murder... ^Do the above (not the internet thing, that was my idea) Contact about abuse. |
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Jun 30 2005, 05:22 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
That really is abuse. That's not cool. Do what aznbored said.
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Jun 30 2005, 06:03 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(aznxboredxperson @ Jun 30 2005, 4:00 PM) Contact the creator of MySpace and block the person's IP adress for abuse. you can report an abuse. =]  Yay, problem solved. Just get over it, really. People are always going to be racist and there's nothing anyone can do about it. If someone bothers you, give them the cold shoulder and they'll eventually back off and leave you alone. Who would want to stand there talking to somoene who won't respond? And those racists jokes are stupid. I don't see why anyone would be offended by that. If you're really proud of your race, you should be able to brush it off like that. |
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Jun 30 2005, 06:19 PM
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 i have a cut that no bandage or medicine can cure.... Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,746 |
man thats messed up.....tell tom (myspace maker) and ask him if he could help hes pretty cool so i dont think he'll mind
well dont let jurks like that get to u,i know its hard having people judge me for my culture but hang in there and the universe tends to unfold its self the way its supposed to good luck~! |
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Jun 30 2005, 06:38 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
thats so f***ing mean!!! what the hell. just ignore it. and block the user. who gives just ignore it. im asian myself. if anyone said that to m ei wouldnt care cause half my friends are asian just ignore it.
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Jun 30 2005, 06:43 PM
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lAzN YiN YanGl Group: Member Posts: 376 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,905 |
what tha fooook so messed up but dont worry, if that's you in your sig your really pretty =)
and yes i've gone through it, but i had people talking like that to me when i was younger (just not with as big vocabulary). i grew up in king of prussia and i have dealth with this for so long that i just really have gotten sick of it. everywhere i go there is always some person who thinks they are SOO funny because they make fun of the asian. this morning i went to angelo's with one of my friend and they started making fun of me, but its just something that will always be there so just deal with it OR curse them out...i like that choice better 
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Jul 1 2005, 09:06 AM
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 BiGdRaGoN31 Group: Member Posts: 463 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,585 |
some stupid person/people
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Jul 1 2005, 01:41 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I become racist back...Since everyone at my school is those preppy American Eagle freaks or those wiggers....I hate my school...u tend to get use to it but when it goes overboard, I either swing a fist or use my racism words back at them
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