what to do?, first date.... |
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what to do?, first date.... |
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![]() ./ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,533 ![]() |
ok im going on a date with a girl(diff one than the post a few weeks back), and i was wondering what is like normal stuff to do and all, like whats ok and whats a no no?
thanks, bryan |
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![]() show me a garden thats bursting to life ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 ![]() |
Don't ALWAYS talk about you. Or her either. That can get old, but do talk about yourselves. Just talk. (what else can you really do?) Find out what you 2 have in common and embrace that?
Manners: -Don't chew w/ your mouth open - open the car door for her (that's a sucker for me at least) Eh. That's all I can think of. So far. I hope it helps, sorta. |
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Hydro Azn ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,718 ![]() |
Hm...well, talk to let her know ur alive...listen to her...and just be urself. Cant always be so organized in my opinion
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 ![]() |
hmm...on a first date you should probably just talk about your lives, friends and stuff. i always tell funny and weird stories about my friends, you can bond over stupid things you've done. you know, stuff that'll make her laugh and you can just go from there.
ooo bring her a rose, a pink one, that's so romantic...or if you're low on money pick her some flowers ![]() ![]() i haven't been on a first date in awhile, if holding hands is fine for a first date then go for it, i love holding hands with my boyfriend ![]() actually...it kind of depends on what you're doing on your date. if you're at: _a fair or carnival: try winning her something _at the movies: put your arm around her _at dinner: hold her chair out and when she sits in it, push it in and at the end, since everyone has a different way of ending a first date, get close to her as if you're going to kiss her but not too close, if she doesn't try to kiss you then just hug her and tell her you had a nice time. |
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![]() BiGdRaGoN31 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 463 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,585 ![]() |
be yourSELF, dont be to nice, dont do much for her so that u'll annoy her, but still be nice to her, hold her hand, offer her things
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 ![]() |
just b urself... and b polite to her and stuff ^_^
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 ![]() |
the first date is always first impressions, no matter how long you've know the person, cuz for teh first time they will be seeing you on a realtionship scale, so make sure to be at you best! some ground rules for you boy:
*DEFF. open the car door for her, and of course ALL doors if you can get to it first. *Pay for the night, don't split it (that can come later on) *SPEND EXTRA TIME ON YOUR APPEARANCE!, like gel your hair if you normally let it loose, shave, put on cologne, wear nice-er clothes then you would normally. trust me on this one ![]() *Always look into her eyes when talking and listening to her (yes, LISTEN!) *And try holding hands, its a sure gesture, even if she's not cool with goin for a kiss, she'll prolly luv holding hands. *Hug her, hold her, just make her feel loved (no, that doesn't mean that you gotta love HER) *Try for the kiss. hey, ya never kno! ![]() |
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 ![]() |
Dinner and a movie..
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brooklyn brooklyn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,315 ![]() |
kool good 4 u...good luck bro
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![]() Oh babyy. :d ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 ![]() |
QUOTE(chii @ Jun 27 2005, 7:25 PM) hmm...on a first date you should probably just talk about your lives, friends and stuff. i always tell funny and weird stories about my friends, you can bond over stupid things you've done. you know, stuff that'll make her laugh and you can just go from there. ooo bring her a rose, a pink one, that's so romantic...or if you're low on money pick her some flowers ![]() ![]() i haven't been on a first date in awhile, if holding hands is fine for a first date then go for it, i love holding hands with my boyfriend ![]() actually...it kind of depends on what you're doing on your date. if you're at: _a fair or carnival: try winning her something _at the movies: put your arm around her _at dinner: hold her chair out and when she sits in it, push it in and at the end, since everyone has a different way of ending a first date, get close to her as if you're going to kiss her but not too close, if she doesn't try to kiss you then just hug her and tell her you had a nice time. Yep, she put it all out there. The hug/kiss thing is good. If you go to a movie, try a scary movie, that way, you can get closer to her. ![]() ![]() |
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![]() The Eurasian Concert Master ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 ![]() |
Hmm, movie is most typical, street fairs, dinner, mall.
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![]() memories live FOREVER<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 ![]() |
it depends on the girl
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*suddenly she* |
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![]() silly rabbit ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 153 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,435 ![]() |
if she's a fun girl who's not a total stiff, tease her. It seems ta always wrk for me.
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brooklyn brooklyn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 163,315 ![]() |
haha first date ? haha just keep ur eyes on her and not other chick...anddd dont talk too much ..haha that it..and be ur self....
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![]() :] ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 162,876 ![]() |
be yourself
cuz thats obviously why she said yes to the date in the first place rite? |
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![]() My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 ![]() |
that someone who said something bout gel and cologne and stuff...i o=honestly like guys with un-gelled hair lol and ok maybe a LITTLE bit of cologne but please do not drown her lol
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