i have a friend who criticizes, everything |
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 Jun 12 2005, 11:40 AM
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 ...and this is me..  Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899  |
Why don't you tell her how she's making you feel? And if she still won't change...end the friendship...
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Jun 29 2005, 03:45 PM
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 Para ti... Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,983 |
juss tell her to shut up and tht if u needed sh!t from her u would juss squeeze her head
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Jun 29 2005, 04:11 PM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144 |
i used to have the same problem. but she criticized my friends more then anything and she acted like she liked them in person so that kind of got me pissed. i say you should talk to her about it. but i used to keep things to myself so id just build everything up and then one huge explosion. but really i think you should tlak to her about it.
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Jun 29 2005, 04:54 PM
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 <-[RaWR]-> Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,133 |
I have a friend who was like that to me for a long time.Kinda made me feel bad cuz we were great friends.So I kind of acted that way back towards her and I I kept doing it until she snapped.She finaly told me in a letter that she was just mad because I was hanging around her sister alot.Hey I cant help the fact that I had a crush on her.Plus she always seemed to never care much about me whenever we saw eachother.Give it time maybe your friend will tell you whats up.
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Jun 29 2005, 06:26 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
make fun of her back. Just be like *U dont like my haircolor? I dont like you* or somethin defend yourself dont take her bulls*it
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Jun 29 2005, 06:29 PM
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 un cool. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,269 |
she might not even notice that she's doing it. you might want to tell her how much it annoys you.
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Jun 29 2005, 06:33 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
that's really rude, and i think she's jealous. you should say 'its my life, let me live it the way i want thank you very much'
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Jun 30 2005, 08:04 AM
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 Sugar, We're Goin' Down. Group: Member Posts: 53 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,644 |
People critize other people so that they feel better about themselves, or it makes them feel powerful. Tell her to get over herself and your not going to change for her. If she wants to be your friend, then she will do it.
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Jul 3 2005, 03:13 AM
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 ..hawaiian pride.. Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,150 |
i have a friend like that... in the beginning, she did that a lot, until i finally blew up at her and went off on her... but after that, she got better and holds her tongue... im not saying that you should yell at her... but just talk 2 her, i guess
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Jul 3 2005, 10:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
tell her "why the f**k do you care?" or "dont worry about me, worry abput ya ugly self" .. something to get her back just let her know that you really dont care what she gotta say.. if she way ya friend, she wouldnt be open like that to you. she would [instead] compliment you -- what a bitch
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Jul 3 2005, 10:49 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Damn, what a bitch. She shouldn't give a damn, and neither should you. Tell her to go screw herself. That would make me mad. Or, you could just critize her back.
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Jul 3 2005, 11:08 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
she compliments me sometimes too.
so i really dont know. and we were friends for a good 5 years before all this started happening. it started around christmas when she moved to a new school. i guess i have time to think about it. since shes in germany for a month.. but i dont want to be mean to her |
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