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keep it secretive?, friend problems
littlewhite
post Jun 10 2005, 07:03 PM
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Alan, Betty, and Claire are all my friends, and they really really trust me.
Alan and Betty are couples. (They keep their relationship secretive, though Claire knows about it.)
Alan and Claire are ex-couples. (This relationship is not secretive.)
Betty and Claire are good friends.
Claire still likes Alan.
Alan told me all about he meets Claire behind Betty's back. (edit: Alan refuses to tell me what they did behind Betty's back, Betty found out that Alan and Claire had a hangout without her before, but doesn't know that they hang out at a regular basis.)

My opinion: I am so sure that Betty will find out eventually, but I just don't want her to know that I have known this for a long time without telling her, meaning I am lying to her. Also, there is a rumor spreading in half of the school that I am with Alan, which most of the people I know are from the other half of the school, but Alan belongs to the half where the rumor is spreading. I didn't tell Betty about the rumor too.

Question: Should I tell Betty about what Alan and Claire did behind her back? Or just keep it secretive?

Another edit: Since A, B, and C seemed like confusing to the advicers, I changed them to fake names. So Alan now represents A, Betty represents B, and Claire represents C.

This post has been edited by littlewhite: Jun 14 2005, 07:39 PM
 

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littlewhite   keep it secretive?   Jun 10 2005, 07:03 PM
[x]Mari[x]   Oooh, that's so hard. First of all, A shouldn...   Jun 10 2005, 07:08 PM
Shortiiex   you should first give B a little warning...and mak...   Jun 10 2005, 07:53 PM
dahding   warn A and B. if they don't stop messing aroun...   Jun 10 2005, 07:55 PM
xlaydee_v   what does a do with c when he meets her behind b...   Jun 10 2005, 07:57 PM
Chii   that's disgusting, B and C are good friends an...   Jun 10 2005, 09:34 PM
lost [child]   tell. they need to know.   Jun 10 2005, 09:52 PM
Bobblehead425   yea they need to know. nect time plz dont use a b ...   Jun 13 2005, 03:33 PM
AngelicEyz00   Stay out of it =x SEX KEKE   Jun 13 2005, 03:41 PM
mzkandi   QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Jun 13 2005, 4:41 PM)Sta...   Jun 13 2005, 03:54 PM
Smilessss   i think yoo should kinda stay out of it... and let...   Jun 13 2005, 04:03 PM
HiddenSmile   wait, b & c like each other, that's either...   Jun 13 2005, 04:08 PM
THiS__CHiCK   either stay out of it or tell them.   Jun 13 2005, 07:18 PM
Kristinaa   warn whoever needs to be warned.   Jun 13 2005, 07:34 PM
iNyCxShoRT   QUOTEwarn A and B. if they don't stop messing ...   Jun 13 2005, 09:11 PM
Shattered_Hope   I think you need to stay out of this....   Jun 14 2005, 10:04 AM
FailedSense   I agree. stay away from that mess. I once had a s...   Jun 14 2005, 01:34 PM
sheepy   definitely tell her. i know how much it hurts. wha...   Jun 15 2005, 06:18 PM
toodlepops.   Just give Betty hints. Let her find it by herself....   Jun 17 2005, 03:28 AM
tangerineChic   you should tell A to pick either B or C. he cant k...   Jun 17 2005, 03:37 AM
mocassinsx29   Warn Alan and Claire. If they don't stop fooli...   Jun 17 2005, 05:40 PM
enyceXaddiction   QUOTE(mocassinsx29 @ Jun 17 2005, 5:40 PM)War...   Jun 17 2005, 08:43 PM


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