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 Apr 27 2005, 08:47 PM
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Jessica  Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118  |
I was just wondering, since I have scars and all. Would you seriously go out w/ a girl even if she has a scar on her face? I've heard from a lottah guys that they wouldn't go out for. AND the fact that most girls don't have any scars and whatnot. So I was just wondering..
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Apr 27 2005, 09:03 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
sure why not...not all people are shallow ya know. there are more to people than just their outward appearances.
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Apr 27 2005, 09:03 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
most guys say they go for personality than looks. but then, they can be all lying.
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Apr 28 2005, 09:32 AM
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 hardbodyactiv...always so hard Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,804 |
Well, you gonna have to be in the situation where this question could be a reality, such as @ school or work and then its if he has shown an interest in you that you interpret as him wanting to go out with you so it will be down to his personal interpretation of your disfigurement. If he finds it gross then it aint gonna fly..if not then go for it.
But theres not many guys who would intentionally go out with a girl who is severely disfigured unless that is really of no concern to them. Depends on the level of disfigurement i spose. But your 'friends' are pretty brutal lol. Edit. I voted yes, but it does depend on how bad. |
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Apr 28 2005, 10:10 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,868 |
Yea...as long as it's minor?
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Apr 28 2005, 12:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,112 |
youll find someone out there. you probably wont be able to get the guy of your dreams, but someout out there thinks youre beautiful.
it also depends on these scars youre talking about. how large are they, and how many are there? |
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Apr 28 2005, 02:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
Let me tell you something. If a guy likes you, but he won't go out with you because of a scar on your face, then I wouldn't feel too bad. Then at least you know when you find someone, they like you for you. If it was a situation like that for a guy, I wouldn't really mind. I guess it depends on the size/looks of it for different people.
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Apr 28 2005, 07:06 PM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
purple ponies (self-deleted 12/06)
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Apr 28 2005, 09:30 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Man. Scars shouldn't matter at all.
Of course I would. |
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Apr 30 2005, 08:30 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
pshaw. why would scars matter? i'd love her for who she is, not what she looks like.
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Apr 30 2005, 10:56 AM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
yea yea the personality thing but im a guy that likes cute faces so idk..
it depends.. tho. |
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Apr 30 2005, 11:27 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Yeah, not all girls have scars. It matters about the inside.
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Apr 30 2005, 12:52 PM
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Senior Member. Group: Member Posts: 3,619 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,940 |
It depends. The only thing matters the most, for me, is their personality.
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Apr 30 2005, 06:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Depends. If it's all over, then no. if it's minor one or two, yes. are you talking about acne scars? or scars from surgeries or something? either way, i think there are things to remove them.
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Apr 30 2005, 08:31 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i personally would not mind if you're missing an eye or a nose or something, the more i get to know and like someone the more beautiful they are to me. i used to think that my current boyfriend was really ugly when we were just friends/just met...but now he's just the sexiest thing i've ever seen
 if that's a picture of you in your avatar i don't think people will mind about your scars...i don't see any. but deep down...we all know that if there's a big scar in the middle of your face most people would just walk away. sure people say that personality beats physical beauty but your first impression is what gets to people...usually people don't want to associate with people who are physically messed up. people are horrible sometimes... |
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Apr 30 2005, 10:03 PM
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 Be yourself. Unless you suck Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,315 |
I'm modifying this for my gay self. Yes I would go after a guy even if he had scars on his face. I don't think something like that matters
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May 1 2005, 01:13 AM
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 it was just my imagination... Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,842 |
you should go for a guy who loves you and everything about you.
because you are you; and thats all you'll ever be. |
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May 19 2005, 08:50 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
yes, there is a girl in our school who has a big birthmark on her face and its really red and bumpy and stuff and it looks like she was burned in a fire but she is still amazingly pretty and nice
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May 22 2005, 07:12 AM
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Lights Are Blinding My Eyes Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,218 |
Depends on how big/what kind of scar it is... I mean, if someone had cancerous growths all over her face... But if it was just a slash down a cheek for example, I wouldn't really mind if they were pretty otherwise.
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Jun 7 2005, 02:58 PM
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 livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
What kind of scars?
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Jun 7 2005, 07:06 PM
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Jessica Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,118 |
Like as in..a slash? a line on her face. lol
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