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if you could erase every bad memory, would you??
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post Mar 4 2005, 08:45 PM
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my gut reaction: yes!! think about it...you get to forget death, pain, sadness, it would just be so much easier to live on lik ethat

but now i guess memories are worth to keep. it doesnt matter if they're bad memories or not, im sure that along with those memories, there were a lot of good ones too. besides, the more bad experiences you go through, the more you'll be able to enjoy good future experiences. happy.gif
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 08:47 PM
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no because tough situations onlii make you stronger.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 08:48 PM
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QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Mar 4 2005, 8:47 PM)
no because tough situations onlii make you stronger.
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exactly what I was gonna say!
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 08:53 PM
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A lot.... actually all of them I would love anything more but to erase them. After thinking about it, all the bad memories I have... that huge bank I have deposited full of bad memories, I honestly know that they have shaped me into this person that I am today. I think without some of those memories I would be less of a person I am and still that little 7 year old kid I was before.. I've gone through some Major Shit but losing all those memories... its like losing the person that you have become.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 08:54 PM
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A lot.... actually all of them I would love anything more but to erase them. After thinking about it, all the bad memories I have... that huge bank I have deposited full of bad memories, I honestly know that they have shaped me into this person that I am today. I think without some of those memories I would be less of a person I am and still that little 7 year old kid I was before.. I've gone through some Major Shit but losing all those memories... its like losing the person that you have become.
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post Mar 4 2005, 08:59 PM
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it depends on how bad the bad memory was.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:01 PM
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Not EVERY bad memory.. maybe most of the bad memories. There's a selected few that help me realize my mistake(s) and grow/learn from it. I mean, if I was perfect and never did anything wrong, life would be boring. Although sometimes I wish things didn't happen, I'm glad that some did because I wouldn't have what I have right now if it weren't for those selected few bad memories... :]
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(njgurl412 @ Mar 4 2005, 8:59 PM)
it depends on how bad the bad memory was.
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if you could erase every bad memory

Meaning.... EVERY bad memory... all of those bad boys-.-
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:03 PM
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embarrising moments, yes

but other bad moments help you become a stronger person.

if i had never experienced a major let down before, where would i be now..
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:04 PM
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no. a lot of my bad memories involve when i have screwed something up, and i've learned from it, so if they were erased... i might make another stupid mistake.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:05 PM
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the bad memories are there to helpyou remember the good memories.

so no, i wouldn't. just has how a utopia would drive one insane, wiping your bad memories would make the good memories go away.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:07 PM
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Im tempted so badly to say yes... but honestly, no. If i hadnt had my bad memories... then those experiences wouldnt be able to help me get stronger when the future comes. it hurts... some memories... but they shouldnt be forgotten, because the people that were hurt/killed (if that happens to be your bad memory) dont deserve to be forgotten, regardless of how it makes one feel.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:13 PM
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the idea seems tempting but in reality, all your experiences make you the person you are today, whether those experiences were bad or good. besides, you learn from you mistakes, every embarrassing moment, every breakup, etc. etc.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:15 PM
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haha, all our answers are about the same
i agree with you all.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:17 PM
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no cause i learn from the bad memories
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:23 PM
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this reminds me of what momiji said in furuba... that he was happy for his bad memories and that he was glad to have them because he mother was there even though she hate him... ill find it and post it later

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But you know, there's something I believe. I want to try and live my life carrying all of my memories with me. And even if those memories are painful, even if they do nothing but hurt me, I want to keep them. Even those memories I wish I sometimes could forget. As long as I can keep carying them with me...as long as I can keep holding on...then someday, someday... I'll be strong enough that those memories don't hurt me anymore, and I'll be glad that I have them. That's what I believe. With all my heart. That's why all my memories are precious to me. I don't think it would be okay to forget a single one. And that's why, the truth is, I didn't really want mama to forget about me. I did. What I wanted was for her to hold on. But I guess that was selfish of me


aww... i cried when i watched that...stupid mother stubborn.gif ...
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:29 PM
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I would, but most of the times, bad memories may have changed your life for the better and taught you something. Ya know?
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:31 PM
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i would ... i think erasing them will make me feel much better
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:36 PM
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i still believe everything happens for a reason.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(Gir @ Mar 4 2005, 9:36 PM)
i still believe everything happens for a reason.
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^ i defffinitely agree
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 09:48 PM
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nah.... they're too cool to be erased.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 10:00 PM
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^ oh, you like suffering? -.-
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 11:22 PM
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nah.. bad memories.. they're wat made me the person i am today, stronger, wiser.. etc. and they happen for a reason =) everything does
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 11:26 PM
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Nope. Because it's bad memories that teach us a lesson, teach us to be better people. If all our lives were perfect and nothing went wrong, we would all be selfish and lazy.
 
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post Mar 4 2005, 11:28 PM
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yes, I think I would. I don't like remembering those memories, even if they're supposed to make you "stronger." I would be a happier person.
 
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