what should i do?, ugh. Options

[lilliannnn]

sorry if it's kinda long..

there's this boy and i've known him for a while. we became really good friends. i could tell him anything and vice versa. one day, we admitted our feelings for each other. we continued to be great friends, soon after we kissed/made out and some other touchy feely things. everything was great.. over a month ago we made out some more and the sh*t hit the fan. it turned out, he didn't like me anymore and felt forced to get with me. in school he told people i cried in front of him because i asked him out and he said no. (that never happend though, i never cried nor asked him out). so, basically we're not talking anymore. and i really, really, really miss him. it wouldn't be as bad but.. i sit next to him everyday in spanish or gym class. it's terrible that he doesn't even look my way. people will be like "oh ask lillian" not knowing that we;re not talking, and he wont even turn to me. it sucks to lose such a great friend.

now my question is - what should i do? we haven't been talking for over a month. i can forgive him for all the lies or whatever if we can just be friends again, if i can just talk to him again. should i call him? or say something to him in class? and what should i say? of course i've thought about this a million times.. but i can't figure out what is the right thing to do and i thought all you here at CB would have some good suggestions.

thanks
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[technicolour]

ugh. that sucks completely. if you want to establish the fact again that you miss him, you have to set up some type of communication. but maybe if you back off slightly, and let him think of you as a friend, get closer, and then try the whole "touchy feel-y stuff". lol..that's probably what i would do.

[xldubaliciousx]

Aw shucks. That stinks. Guys can be such jerks sometimes. But it sounds like you REALLY want his friendship back. So for now just try talking casually. And say that you and him can just be friends. Period. For now at least?

[Nicolatofu]

Well, that's a tough situation, but I'm glad you have managed to put that behind you and forgive him. He's not talking to you probably because inside he's ashamed for what he did to you. If you really want to start talking to him again, then you must let him know that you have forgiven him. Try talking to him in one of your classes. Start out just a little chit chat and then after he realizes you aren't mad anymore, then he'll feel more comfortable.