girls these days... Options

[PrideOfAzia]

let them wear what they want =P as long as they like it..its all that matters isnt it?

[Paradox of Life]

hi.
i think there are sth weird w. girls these days, or girls in my school, at least...like there are three things that i think is kinda wrong...
1. Girls who are really like flat chested but they still wear bras, i.e. u can c their straps showing at times...
2. Girls who wear a halter top bra (bikini top) and a regular bra @ the same time...
3. Girls who wear like multiple bras...even if their chest size ain't big or somethin'...
i mean, it's just kinda strange...what do u think?

1. You have to change in the locker room and you don't want anyone to be looking at your bare chest. And they use bras to cover their nipples.

2 and 3 are the same. And I've never really heard about that happening.

And who cares?

[blogdeleted]

1. what is wrong with a flat-chested girl to wear a bra? I mean, what if she has to change during P.E.? She wouldn't exactly want everyone in the locker room to see her without a bra SPECIALLY if she's like in High school or something.
2. I totally AGREE! I have also seen girls wearing a black spagetti strap dress or shirt and wearing a bra with WHITE straps. I mean, if you are going to wear a black spagetti strap dress or shirt, why not wear a bra with BLACK straps so they wouldn't show as much??
3. Sometimes, like in P.E. when a girl does exercises like having to toch her toes or something, she doesn't want guys to se her chest so she wears like a sport bra on top of her normal one. Or if the girl hasn't been taken bra shopping and has this really thin training bras (like i used to) they might want to wear more than one bra, so that her nipples wouldn't show. It's very common on younger girls at my school....

1. lol, kinda strange. but yea, i know...will b weird.
2. agreed totally. i think the best fit of color is to dress according to the colors on the shirt or to match it. like u no those black shirts with pink writing on them? i think that a pink bra or a black one will fit.
3. ok...lol what r training bras/what r they 4?
i would also like to add that ppl should at least have black, pink and white bras, since those colors match most clothing...and they should at least hav strapless and multi-way ones as well, in my personal opinion...

[XtasyHigh]

yes. this really annoying itchy girl in my class does that... [multiple]

[[Scr3amin][Horro...]

1. Girls who are really like flat chested but they still wear bras, i.e. u can c their straps showing at times...
2. Girls who wear a halter top bra (bikini top) and a regular bra @ the same time...
3. Girls who wear like multiple bras...even if their chest size ain't big or somethin'...
i mean, it's just kinda strange...what do u think?

1] wear sport bras nothing wrong with sport bras.
2] wear a strapless bra if you are wearing a halter top
3] multiple bras? why dont they just stuff it with tissues or socks?

[bbyunique]

1. Maybe they are flat, but they might have something. It's called nipples =/ But does it matter if they are falt and wear one anyway..?
2. Wait girls wear bras, bikini topic, and halters at the same time? How odd...
3.  Multiple bras? whoa. Padding is more commen. But you can't always blame them with the pressure, that guys will only like you if you have big boobs this days.

My question is whats up with guys and their shallowness.

I agree with you. Even if your flat you still can see nipples idiot (to the person who started this thread). Also, we still wear them out of respect to others. So, if a guy has no muscle, he shouldn't wear shirts that reveal his wimpy arms? And if a guy has a small d**k he shouldn't wear boxers or underwear? Stupid. Its just like asking those questions. Its called freedom of expression. We let guys wear what they want, so leave us girls alone.

[Jane_eyre_rules]

1. lol, kinda strange. but yea, i know...will b weird.
2. agreed totally. i think the best fit of color is to dress according to the colors on the shirt or to match it. like u no those black shirts with pink writing on them? i think that a pink bra or a black one will fit.
3. ok...lol what r training bras/what r they 4?
i would also like to add that ppl should at least have black, pink and white bras, since those colors match most clothing...and they should at least hav strapless and multi-way ones as well, in my personal opinion...

Training bras, are smaller bras than the usual ones like cup A or AA. They are (unfortunatly) much thinner than usual bras, why they make them that way? I don't know. Anyway, they are usually worn by younger girls so that they would get used to wearing a bra, even if they need it or not.
Here is the google defenition:
A training bra is a brassiere designed to be worn by young girls whose breasts are just beginning to develop, but are not yet large enough to fit a "standard" bra. A solid definition of the species by size is difficult to make - I have seen 34A proposed as the cutoff point, or perhaps AA or lower cup size, but bras worn by mature women with breasts of this size are not considered "training bras", and these woman often avoid bras marketed as such, which tend to be frilly, flowery, and otherwise designed for a pre-adolescent demographic.
While bras of these sizes don't provide much support, breasts of these sizes don't particularly need it, and shaping effects would be of limited utility. Instead, the training bra serves to familiarize its wearer with the feel of wearing bras, the processes of securing and removing them, the way they affect the clothed form and appearance, and the like. Further, the bras also reaffirm their wearers' femininity, an effect whose importance should not be underestimated in young girls anxious about puberty and the beginning of "womanhood", or those who may feel unwomanly and insecure for having smaller breasts than their peers.

[blogdeleted]

thx.

[blogdeleted]

I agree with you. Even if your flat you still can see nipples idiot (to the person who started this thread). Also, we still wear them out of respect to others. So, if a guy has no muscle, he shouldn't wear shirts that reveal his wimpy arms? And if a guy has a small d**k he shouldn't wear boxers or underwear?  Stupid. Its just like asking those questions. Its called freedom of expression. We let guys wear what they want, so leave us girls alone.

pfft. wateva.

[HoodieObsessed]

hi.
i think there are sth weird w. girls these days, or girls in my school, at least...like there are three things that i think is kinda wrong...
1. Girls who are really like flat chested but they still wear bras, i.e. u can c their straps showing at times...
2. Girls who wear a halter top bra (bikini top) and a regular bra @ the same time...
3. Girls who wear like multiple bras...even if their chest size ain't big or somethin'...
i mean, it's just kinda strange...what do u think?

First of all, why would you see the bra strapes of a girl who is flat chested more than of a girl who is large breasted? I do not understand how being large chested hides the straps...anywho, we girls go through alot when we go through puberty, I can atest to that because i cried everday for about hmmm four months straight when I wanted bras but I was flat chested so non fit me. It may sound stupid, but it was tragic for me, and I jsut wanted to die.

Well, not quite die, but you get the idea.

They wear bras when they're flat chested because they feel insicure, they get very self aware about their chest and do not like their nipples showing through their tops. It is a horrible time in a girls life. Or at elast it was for me. One way to fix that is to wear sports bras for a little while but w/e, if these girls wanan wear hooks, let them be.

For your second question...ummm, well...that's realyl weird I soppose they want more support...? hmmm, well...I've never seen that.

And for the last, the girls probably think that bigger boobs look nicer and guys like them etc. so naturally they'll find anyway possible to make them look bigger. I did not have that problem, I jsut wanted to find one stupid bra that fit me good DAMMIT!

O.k., I've finished venting now.

I hope I answered some of your questions.

EDIT

for the second one, I thought you meant a swimsuit top...as in wearing a bikini top with a bra underneath. If you jsut mean a halter top with a bra what the hell is your problem? Maybe soem girls dont' like pulling up their bra every five seconds? or...maybe for girls who are size AA (grrrr ) they can't find a strapless bra that's that size?! EVER THOUGHT ABOUT THAT!??@?

3. ok...lol what r training bras/what r they 4?
i would also like to add that ppl should at least have black, pink and white bras, since those colors match most clothing...and they should at least hav strapless and multi-way ones as well, in my personal opinion...

I would have multiway and strapless ones, I really really would...IF they fit me and I don' want to go the WHOLE summer without wearing a tank or halter top! IT'S NOT MY FAULT! I WANT a strapless bra soooo bad! But I've shopped for HOURS and they dont' coem in AA I mean don't these manufactorers REALIZE that there are AA girls out there that want strapless bras?! IT'S NOT FAIR.

*goes and sulks in my little corner*

[Jane_eyre_rules]

thx.

You are welcome

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

hi.
i think there are sth weird w. girls these days, or girls in my school, at least...like there are three things that i think is kinda wrong...
1. Girls who are really like flat chested but they still wear bras, i.e. u can c their straps showing at times...
2. Girls who wear a halter top bra (bikini top) and a regular bra @ the same time...
3. Girls who wear like multiple bras...even if their chest size ain't big or somethin'...
i mean, it's just kinda strange...what do u think?

1. flat-chested girls wear them cuz whenever their wearin a shirt, u can see that their nipples are poking out
2 & 3. they wear multiple bras? i never heard of that but what i think is that some girls are just worried about what guys think just cuz they're flat chested and thinkin that girls that have bigger chest get more attention from guys

[Joss-eh-lime]

hi.
i think there are sth weird w. girls these days, or girls in my school, at least...like there are three things that i think is kinda wrong...
1. Girls who are really like flat chested but they still wear bras, i.e. u can c their straps showing at times...
2. Girls who wear a halter top bra (bikini top) and a regular bra @ the same time...
3. Girls who wear like multiple bras...even if their chest size ain't big or somethin'...
i mean, it's just kinda strange...what do u think?

1 well maybe they just wear training bras. theres not much they can do
2 yea, its their choice if they want their bra showing. they need a strapless
3 ive never heard of or seen that. maybe u saw someone who has big boobs but their bra flattened them down? it looks weird, yea but multiple bras? hm.