A Dumped Friend Asked Back Out..???, I don't know lol |
 May 21 2005, 08:52 PM
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The beginning of this year I went out with a kid. We'll call him Steven. Now I liked Steven and I went out with him, but then rumors went around saying he liked someone else and I broke up with him. Now, months later after I broke up with him, when I asked him out the other day he said no.
1.) WHY MIGHT HE HAVE SAID NO? 2.) WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM SAY YES? Thanks so much for your help guys I LOVE YOU ALL!! ~Katie |
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May 21 2005, 08:54 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
this should go in relationships... right?
uhh... you should get over him. |
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May 21 2005, 09:05 PM
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 work hard. play hard. Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,940 |
well firstly did u break up with him cuz of the rumours or what happened? if you did then i guess you shouldn't have at the beginning because those are just rumours and if you really love him you should've trusted him and ignore all those rumours, well if he comes to you and admit it in that case yes you should but i guess he didn't so.
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May 21 2005, 09:07 PM
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maybe he doesn't want to get hurt again? or maybe he's moved on from you since you dumped him in the first place..
and not all "rumors" are true. some people stay stuff to get you to break up with people (maybe because the people that started the rumor likes him or whatever) you shouldn't trust the rumors you should trust your boyfriend. yeah i think this should go in relationships.. |
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May 21 2005, 09:25 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
maybe because he got crushed because of something he might have not done in the first place. orrrrrrrrrr he probably got over you. and you can't force him to say yes. imagine having an arranged marriage with him, and he's in love with another girl. you're happy he's not. wouldn't that hurt you?
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May 21 2005, 09:48 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Umm....you dumped him....it's no surprise he won't say "yes"....he's probably over you already.....I suggest you move on.....he might have already liked someone else...
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May 21 2005, 09:55 PM
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he probably said no b/c he is over you or he liek someone lese
if he move on you shoudl too |
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May 21 2005, 09:57 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
He probably moved on within the few months. Get over it. You were the one that dumped him.
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May 21 2005, 10:18 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
he's moved on, you should too
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May 21 2005, 10:37 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
you shoudnt have broken of with him. as you said it was a RUMOR. you couldve at least talk with him about it. it might've not been true. and now hes prorbaly have moved on.
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May 21 2005, 10:45 PM
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RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
he's probably over u. it HAS been MONTHS..feelings can change in months
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May 21 2005, 11:05 PM
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 sheryl Group: Member Posts: 120 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,179 |
he probably already moved on just forget about him and move on.
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May 22 2005, 04:52 PM
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 j'adore =) Group: Member Posts: 723 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 107,848 |
well you broke up with him so he moved on. like you should. you can't expect him to suddenly drop everything again for you.
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May 22 2005, 07:21 PM
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1.) WHY MIGHT HE HAVE SAID NO? He's afraid you might not trust him because what might of happened in the past, or he's afraid of getting hurt that you didn't trust him
2.) WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HIM SAY YES? You cannot make him say yes, but you can show him that you want another chance, shower him with attention, maybe he'll notice. |
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May 22 2005, 07:22 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
^ what they said.
you dumped him.. he doesn't wanna get hurt again.. so he said no. he's over you. |
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May 22 2005, 08:15 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
ok well i think
1) B/c he felt bad when u dumped him and now he thinks u won't trust him and stuff 2)Hmmmm.... i think u should um tell him your sorry? and say like "i didn't know that the rumors weren't true and i'm sry" somthing like that u should just try to find a way to get him back.. have a talk about the rumors and stuff and see if it wasn't true maybe if u talk face to face he won't lie then u can show him that you actually trust him if he tells u the truth that the rumors weren't real 
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May 22 2005, 08:31 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
you should have talked to him about the rumours first.
He's over you, get over him. |
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May 22 2005, 08:56 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
You should get over him.. I mean obviously he doesn't want to be with you. Maybe if you've given him a chance to tell HIS SIDE of the story about this whole "liking someone else" rumor back when you two were dating, it could've been where the rumor WAS a lie and you two would've never broken up. He probably said no because he thinks you don't trust him, OR he probably does like someone else. That, or maybe he might've stopped liking you a long time ago.
The best thing to do is move on. You don't want to be clingy, especially since YOU broke up with him about that rumor. What can you do to make him say yes? Well.... not much. I mean, you could tell him that you still have feelings for him and tell him sorry.. but tell me, were the rumors true? If not then.. tsk tsk tsk. I don't think he'll take you back so easily either way. 
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May 22 2005, 10:27 PM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
first of all, you broke up with him because of the rumours, right? did you ask him about it before you decided to end your relationship?? he has every right to be mad at you if you havent asked him yet and believed the rumours instead of him. second, why would you ask him back out when you were the one who dumped him? remember, hes still mad, so why would he agree? think over this. get over it.
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