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 May 13 2005, 12:20 AM
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ugh i have this bf he's so nice and he's really seriously madly in love with me....at first i didnt have any feelings for him but when my friend started to advise me and that i started to be more in love with him....i wanna go a little further but im to damn shy.....i dont know how to react around him i wanna hold his hand and all the things couples do but the prob is im shy this is my first time in a relationship so i guess it's normal to feel like this?somebody help?
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May 13 2005, 01:44 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Yeah it's pretty normal to feel shy. I never really had the chance to be shy with my first boyfriend.. He was kinda... quick at everything....
Well... While your walking with him to class or something just slightly grab his hand and he'll get the hint. Just go for it. Don't be shy. He's probably gunna like it. GOOD LUCK!!!  My current boyfriend is REALLY shy.. I've been making all the moves. I'm only his second girlfriend, his first was.... blehh. HE ACCUALLY MADE A MOVE TODAY!! I was so shocked/proud of him!!!
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May 13 2005, 01:56 AM
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..dont worry...how long hs it been
cuz mybe he needs more time. but if you wnt to speed things up, the only thing you cn do is mke the first move. it doesn't reli mtter, i mde the first move with my bf for lots of things. n things r still good =] |
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May 13 2005, 04:11 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
i agree if w/ ^ above it you want to hold his hand go for it you have nothing to loose i mean its not like hes gonna stare at you and leave you hanging there. just slip your hand by his and then hold his hand and he`ll hold yours:)
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May 13 2005, 04:39 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,680 |
thankx guys
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May 13 2005, 05:35 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
he's your bf. go for it.
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May 13 2005, 10:57 AM
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Try some little stuff here and there. The little peck on the cheek is for the advance people.
 Try holding hands, little hugs here and there, soon over, your ice will break down over time. |
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May 13 2005, 12:58 PM
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All you need is time. If you are serious with this guy, you don't want to scare him away, do you? Things will go fine when the time comes. Just be patient! Or try little things here and there. Like a hug from the back?
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May 13 2005, 01:06 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
Yeah don't worry about it. I got nervous around all my past boyfriends when I wanted to like hold their hand. But just go for it! Guys are shy too so how do you know your boyfriend doesn't feel the same way too?
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May 13 2005, 05:22 PM
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Don't be shy it all depends on if you're comfortable with it or not. Well you are together GO FOR IT >=)
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May 13 2005, 05:34 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
ive been in the same exact situation before. its okay to be shy. but try to feel more comfortable around him. and he'll make them move (i find girls making the moves very queer)
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May 13 2005, 07:30 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
if he didnt want you to do stuff with him, he wouldn't have asked you out. gooo for it.
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May 13 2005, 10:04 PM
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yeah its normal i acted the same way but i kind of 'gotten out of my shell'
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May 15 2005, 06:25 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
There's nothing you can do except be patient and give it time...
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May 15 2005, 06:56 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
GO FOR IT!! i keep telling people that if ur guy is a shy one, then its obvious that u gotta make the first move. just smile, and hold out your hand, or go into his. just snuggle up to him, and let him know how you feel, a lot of guys are apprehensive about making ne moves cuz they don't know how you feel. so let em' kno, and see where it takes you!
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May 15 2005, 07:07 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, just go for it. I was really shy around my first boyfriend, and we didn't really do anything. Just hold his hand whenever you want, smile at him, kiss him lightly, etc.
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May 15 2005, 08:09 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
just go for it and try to act like if it's a perfectly normal thing. pretend you're laughing your ass off with your friends and just hold his hand right there fast and simple.. and he'll go along and keep his hands there, if he wants.. ;]
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