Best way.., to screw a relationship up |
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 May 14 2005, 06:57 PM
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Losing trust, cheating, lying....that's all I can think of really....
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May 14 2005, 09:14 PM
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Cheating, lying.
I guess so. |
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May 15 2005, 02:19 AM
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QUOTE(LiLBabe91800 @ May 10 2005, 8:38 PM) --->And just using common since.. that should be ittt... expcially the last one <3333  what? you don't like ppl who use common sense? uhhh, why not? 
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May 15 2005, 02:35 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
cheating and lying
like most people said. |
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May 15 2005, 08:05 PM
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 so give me all your posion and give me all your pills Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,345 |
cheating or lying.. ugh i hate liars!!
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May 15 2005, 08:15 PM
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 Shutup before I smack you. Group: Member Posts: 119 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,015 |
cheating
fighting alot leaving them out / ignoring them flirting in their face on purpose and making them jealous every second. |
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May 16 2005, 01:17 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
talkin shit behind their backs and acting like u never did. =) or just go up on theiir face . =)
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May 16 2005, 02:50 PM
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 Hi, I'm Jo. Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 138,563 |
cheating on them with their best friend
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May 16 2005, 08:01 PM
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 ART is everything. Group: Member Posts: 230 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,166 |
throw pie at their face
 hahaha...!actually annoy them so much that they couldn't stand you
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May 16 2005, 09:44 PM
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being insecure. ex..
girl: do you love me? guy: yes. girl: are you sure? guy: yes. girl: really?!?! guy: yes. girl: wait say that again. guy: yes. you get the point. |
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May 30 2005, 12:06 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 59,075 |
QUOTE(kill me please @ May 10 2005, 10:47 AM) messing with other guys(or girls) right in front of them. AND behind their backs. -cheating -lying -ignoring -cold -mean and a whole bunch of stuff that i can name.. but those are .. i think.. the main ones. |
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May 30 2005, 12:20 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Lie. Cheat. Steal.
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May 30 2005, 10:17 PM
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Cheating & perhaps completely shutting the person out of your life.
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May 30 2005, 10:21 PM
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Best way or worst way? I'm not entirely sure what you mean.
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, despite how bad it was, do everything in that movie to drive him away.
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Jun 7 2005, 11:40 AM
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 My weakness is that I care too much. Also that I love you with a Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,426 |
QUOTE(weebekahng @ May 10 2005, 5:45 PM) well.. for me... the number 1 reason is when the person you like start trying to be cool or start showing off because they think they can fit in with the "cool" people now. This is right. I would have to agree with you on that one. That and not paying attention when they are trying to bring up something that seems important to them at the time they are trying to discuss it. Or you have the feeling that you have to compete for their attention when they come to visit. ~*~*~DeCePT10N -ess~*~*~ |
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Jun 7 2005, 11:48 AM
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 you're reading me. Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,727 |
i'd have to say loosing trust. its the biggest one and under it goes cheating and all that.
oh and ignorance. thats what broke up my two relationships. |
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Jun 7 2005, 04:48 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
cheating or abuse..
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Jun 8 2005, 10:02 AM
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All those are 'good' ways, but they are symptoms, not causes. I'd say the supreme cause is poor communication-that is: insincerity, dishonesty, not being forthright (bringing up something that's bothering you rather than waiting to be asked what's bothering you) and nagging.
Think about it. If someone cheats on you, the problem is they were unsatisfied for some reason, or they had an impulse they were unwilling to let you know about and they acted on it. Prevention: --'Sweetie, I've been feeling attracted to X' Sweetie: 'Why is that?' --'Because she/he seems mysterious.' Sweetie: 'Well, what do you think might add some mystery to our relationship, roleplaying? frequency? positions?' --'Hmmm, roleplaying sounds interesting, let's talk about that.' Conversation proceeds from there, situation averted. If someone abuses you, the problem can be that they have emotional damage from a previous relationship. However, this should never escalate to physical violence, emotional and verbal violence is bad enough. When a relationship reaches the stage when the two involved cannot discuss an issue or problem reasonably and respectfully, then it is time to talk about why, and if that doesn't happen, then time to terminate the relationship. And so on and so on. |
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Jun 8 2005, 10:10 AM
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lack of communication definately.
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Jun 9 2005, 12:52 AM
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Cheating is a way, but I don't think that appropriate. Just tell it straight to them, "I don't want to be with you anymore." It depends also, how much you hate them.
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Jun 9 2005, 05:59 PM
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 My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
lying is probably number one. and then if your boyfriend or girlfriend suspects something...and that shows they dont trust you. that screws up everything.
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Jun 9 2005, 08:08 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Mistrust, not communicating, abuse, etc...
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Jun 9 2005, 08:08 PM
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always seem bored around them. i hate that lol =(
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Jun 9 2005, 08:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,214 |
Cheating or don't have feelings for them no more. or you ain't ready for it.
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Jun 10 2005, 12:34 AM
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The best way to screw a relationship up is to sleep with her best friend, or in my ex's case, her twin sister. Did I do it? No, I'm not that kind of person. But my ex's twin sister came onto me about a dozen times and I respectfully pushed her away. Still, if I had done that, I would've thrown 2 years down the tubes.
At least I'd be keeping it "all in the family." |
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