i need help, friend not seeing the light! |
 May 2 2005, 06:05 PM
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a while ago i was dating this guy.........i thought he was so sweet and just an all around great guy........after dating for 8 months with really nothin but some minor problems.......he dumbs me out of the blue! later i found out all this stuff about him cheating on me with his ex.......or him lying to me about cheating on me with my best friend........and just some other really dumb stuff.......but anyways.....he always made it this evil cycle with him where just when i was about to get over him completely there he was again back in my life somehow.......he would just im me out of nowhere or call me and we would go thru this whole thing again about how much we loved eachother and how i wanted him back.........but it would always end with just another fight even before we could get back together.......i thought i was soooooo in love with him.......but eventually i like woke up and realized he was just another jerk! Now my friend is goin through almost the same thing........i think her ex just wants to keep her around on a leash just like mine did.......cuz one second he's like i want u back and then when she says ok lets get back together.......he's all no i just want to be friends!
anyways.......i was just wondering if anyone has ever experianced something like that with an ex.....why do they do that?........and how do i help my friend to see that he is just playing games with her? please share ur opinions on this matter ive told her many times that he isn't right for her.......she just keeps saying but i love him!! |
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May 2 2005, 07:05 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
should this be in relationships?
srry i've never been in a relationship. that can sometimes be considered a blessing lol 
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May 2 2005, 07:11 PM
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what a loser... well i have never experience that but i guess guys do that to seek for my 'love' ... shoot if somebody did that to me, pshh its a rap that guy is outta my life, weither i love him or not [[and as much as it hurts to break it up]]
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May 2 2005, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(angel_revelation @ May 2 2005, 7:05 PM) should this be in relationships? srry i've never been in a relationship. that can sometimes be considered a blessing lol  everything she said i was going to say.. and just tell your friend...she'll belive you right? |
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May 3 2005, 07:42 PM
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just tell your friend. "this guy is plyaing games with you. dump him."
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May 3 2005, 07:56 PM
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oh wow tell your friend that this guy isn't worth your time, he gives you all that innocent lovey dove, but it's all lies lose him he's not a keeper and you will not regret it in life, better safe then sorry
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May 3 2005, 09:32 PM
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I think you should tell your friend.
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May 4 2005, 01:40 PM
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a while ago i was dating this guy.........i thought he was so sweet and just an all around great guy........after dating for 8 months with really nothin but some minor problems.......he dumbs me out of the blue! later i found out all this stuff about him cheating on me with his ex.......or him lying to me about cheating on me with my best friend........and just some other really dumb stuff.......but anyways.....he always made it this evil cycle with him where just when i was about to get over him completely there he was again back in my life somehow.......he would just im me out of nowhere or call me and we would go thru this whole thing again about how much we loved eachother and how i wanted him back.........but it would always end with just another fight even before we could get back together.......i thought i was soooooo in love with him.......but eventually i like woke up and realized he was just another jerk! Now my friend is goin through almost the same thing with her ex........i think her ex just wants to keep her around on a leash just like mine did.......cuz one second he's like i want u back and then when she says ok lets get back together.......he's all no i just want to be friends!
anyways.......i was just wondering if anyone has ever experianced something like that with an ex.....why do they do that?........and how do i help my friend to see that he is just playing games with her? please share ur opinions on this matter ive told her many times that he isn't right for her.......she just keeps saying but i love him!! |
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May 4 2005, 02:04 PM
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May 4 2005, 02:39 PM
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 sweet but sour Group: Member Posts: 170 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,953 |
you should tell your friend your story you told us and point out how hers is similar to yours. tell her that you just want to help and your not trying to break them up, but you honestly think he's playing with her. some friends even as close as you can be will say, your just jealous and trying to break us up or some bs. they're just in denial and i guess too attached to their guy. if she says that just tell her your not at all, and your just trying to help.
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May 4 2005, 02:53 PM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
Well, No, I've never been in a relationship like that.. in fact I've never been in a relationship..
and, why do they do it? Who knows.. honestly.. there boys, there sapposed to not make any sense! |
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May 4 2005, 04:14 PM
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No duplicate posts of exactly the same thing. Come on now. Would you people read the community guidelines?
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May 4 2005, 04:16 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Uhh....I think I came across a topic exactly like this a day or two ago....I have a feeling this will be closed.
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May 4 2005, 05:03 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
TOPIC MOVED && TOPICS MERGED
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May 5 2005, 01:47 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
if you didnt go out with people then you wouldnt have a problem.
concluding that i have not been in a relationship yet |
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