having trouble w/ trust, jealousy too =\ |
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 Apr 8 2004, 03:07 AM
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 cinnamoroll is so yummy xP  Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,071  |
i had alotta problems with dis guh my boifriend been talking to online.. they never met in person or neding.. but they talk alot.. sometimes i felt replaced.. then a few weeks ago both me and my boifriend found out dat she had feelings fo him.. and i was so upset.. probably kuz i had trouble trusting him.. and i was jealous of her -_- neway me and my boifriend talked about it and he said he's not gonna talk to her nemore kuz she ruined their friendship fo liking him and so dat we could be happy again.. but then just a few dayz ago i found out they're still talking to eachother.. wat do i do mangz? should i just ignore it or do sumthin about..? i mean.. he should noe better ryte? i dunno i'm so confused..
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Apr 8 2004, 01:51 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
well, if it bothers you, then you definately shouldn't ignore it because over time it will just eat you up inside til you don't even trust him at all! see, the problem with girls is that sometimes they scared to speak their mind cuz they're worried what they man is gonna think...
i say you talk to him about it, let him know how and why you are concerned, and then hopefully you two can talk it out and have a better understanding of the situation and perhaps come up with an agreement to better the situation. if he respects and cares about you enough, he'll do whatever it takes to make you feel more comfortable. Trust is a serious matter in a relationship and not something you should ignore. Tackle this problem now. |
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Apr 8 2004, 01:57 PM
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Have a little bit more self confidence. That's what you should do.
Think about it, the chick's like 100s of miles away from you both. Your bf would be pretty damned stupid to trade YOU for HER. Don't be jealous...you know you're better than her. I don't really see you liking someone you've never met before.  - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Apr 8 2004, 02:00 PM
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 Coolerator Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,442 |
^ Right and dont let yourself get down in the dumps jus because your bf is talking to someone else. Remeber you dont always have to be someones BF or GF to talk to them. He could have been talking to her about how he shouldnt talk with her or something
^ yea that was a bit confusing  Cheer up! Life is too good to waste over one persone IF he dumps you but i doubt he will 
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Apr 8 2004, 03:39 PM
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 lovedme_lovesmenot...explain that! Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,423 |
hey..I totally understand where you are coming from..becuz I went thru that..but trust me...stop the madness while you can...dont be jealous...you will not only drive yourself crazy but him too...and then it might even rubb off on hima nd he will be watching your every move...sumtimes...us girls...start likeinga guy alot and we expect him to like us back ten times more...ya cant do that...it will push him away...I PROMISE.
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Apr 8 2004, 04:00 PM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
you should go online under his screen name and be like hey biatch i don't like your stinky face. stop hogging all the ugly. then block her and then take her off his aim. the end.
on the other hand, you're hurt cuz you don't want your bf to be friends with someone he enjoys talking to. you should trust him or dump him. don't worry bout the girl. if he's a cheater then he's cut |
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Apr 8 2004, 04:05 PM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
First off...Please try to use correct spelling and proper grammer..or as close as you can to it... The way you type belongs in the 133t posts >.<
You can't be with someone you can't trust. Bottom line. But just because he enjoys talking with someone else doesn't mean he doesn't care for you any less. It's good for people in a relationship to talk with others, if you only talk with the same person all the time, I can imagine you'd get mighty bored. But he did lie to you. Which means you can't trust him and you should confront him or dump him... But hey..Whatever floats your boat. |
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Apr 8 2004, 04:40 PM
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QUOTE(hair products @ Apr 8 2004, 2:00 PM) you should go online under his screen name and be like hey biatch i don't like your stinky face. stop hogging all the ugly. then block her and then take her off his aim. the end. haha, that would be funny, but then again, he'd probably get mad at you for that 
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Apr 8 2004, 11:23 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
i think u should talk to him bout it again..juzz ask him why he cant talk to YOU instead?? wha does she have dat u donn rite? but donn be too sad maybe he's juzz talkin to her to get advices on how to make u happy you know trynna get a grl's point of view...
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Apr 10 2004, 08:04 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i thinkm u should tel him that if he wants to talk to her then jus tell u... lying to u jus hurts u more... and talk to him about it again.. maybe its not the girls fault.. maybe ur bf should make u feel more protected so u wont have problems with trsting her or not cuz if u knoe ur bf truly loves u only then u dont need to worry if she likes him or not
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