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 Apr 22 2005, 03:43 PM
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OK well ive been going out with this guy since tuesday and hes 17 and im only 14 but hes really sweet. He walks me to my bus stop everyday, walks me home, calls me everyday (once or twice) and hangs around town with me.
He just called me a few minutes ago and we were talking and then he said he had to go because he was gonna hang out with some friends and my mom said that she saw him going up the highway (driving) when she was coming into town and his car was full and there were 2 girls in the back seat. I dont think hes cheating on me, but i wanteed to get somebody elses opinion... what do you think? |
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Apr 22 2005, 04:38 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
there are two girls.
so it automatically means the guy is cheating? have a little faith. if ur still too uptight about it, ask him. i mean, a guy is allowed to have friends that are girls...right? |
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Apr 22 2005, 04:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,886 |
don't go thinkin the worst..i agree that you should talk to him bout it cuz you never know if hes capable of cheating but if you do something like say breakup with him or something like that then you'll regret not talkin to him bout it first. good luck with it cuz i'm 14 and "off and on" like a 17 year old who i don't trust at all so i hope it all works out good for you!!
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Apr 22 2005, 05:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,553 |
eh. maybe im just getting jealous cause ive never had a guy who actually called me and stuff.
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Apr 22 2005, 06:02 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
don't jump to conclusions, maybe the person your mom saw wasn't your bf. ask him where he was.
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Apr 22 2005, 06:06 PM
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what if the two girls were related to him. dont jump to conclusions so easily
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Apr 22 2005, 07:01 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
why said guys can't be friends with girls?
anyways; maybe your mom doesn't want you to be with a guy that much older. |
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Apr 22 2005, 07:04 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
exactly , they could just be friends. To see if he wont lie ask him who he was hanging out with .
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Apr 22 2005, 07:48 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Apr 22 2005, 4:01 PM) why said guys can't be friends with girls? anyways; maybe your mom doesn't want you to be with a guy that much older.  totally agree. you never really know for sure until you ask him anyway |
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Apr 22 2005, 07:53 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
he's 17 and in high school, everyone has a mix of guys and chicks as friends, no one has cooties anymore when you're 17. don't worry about this...he takes you around town everyone knows you two are together, if he really was going to cheat on you, would he bother calling you or walking you home/bus stop, or taking you places?
you should trust him |
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Apr 22 2005, 09:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,886 |
^ yea...good point!!
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Apr 24 2005, 04:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,553 |
yea you guys are right.
Thanks for your help and your input! |
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Apr 24 2005, 04:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Maybe you have the info, but I think your mom may be wrong.
 Also, it seems like you don't trust him considering you are worrying about it. Also, he only said that he was hanging out with friends. He didn't necessarily say that he was only going to hang out with only guy friends.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Apr 28 2005, 11:08 PM
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well you can`t always assume that he`s cheating on you. Maybe their his cousins or sumthing, wow 17 to 14 o_O you should be careful tho he`s more experienced and might take advantage im not saying he will but be careful.
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Apr 29 2005, 10:29 AM
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 im popCORNY Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,357 |
maybe they're just friends cuz if he had two girls he wouldnt be cheating on 3 of you if the other girl saw the other girl
lols very confusing and inycxshort are you jane???? this is jennifer from the layout site thingy :) |
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Apr 29 2005, 10:43 AM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
well i dont think he's cheating. i mean, you have guy friends too dont you? that doesnt mean that you were cheating.
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Apr 29 2005, 10:49 AM
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 Perfectionist, Loner, Confident, Mysterious, Imperfect, Kevyn Group: Member Posts: 370 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,095 |
...nah...never jump to conclusions.
99% of my friends are female and I hang out / take them wherever they want / need to go. My girlfriend knows this but where you are thinking about it too much, it seems you need to gain his trust even more. Just because you are boyfriend and girlfriend doesn't mean everything's fine...first things first...gaining trust and knowing from your heart and soul he won't do anything behind your back. though as a boyfriend he should also tell you in a nice way that he's taking some of his friends home to ease your troubles...because believe me i know when my girlfriends get antsy about hanging around with my female friends. So to ease that emotional pressure on both of us I just tell them where I'm going and when I'm going to be back. communication honeh~ -Kevyn |
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Apr 29 2005, 12:39 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
you have to give him his freedom. no one likes to be restricted to only one girl.. i mean would you want him telling you that he's the only guy you can hang out with and you cant hangout with your other guyfriends? trying putting you in his shoes
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